TOP STORY: Lyme’s Fourth of July Parade Passes by in a ‘Blink’

And so it begins again— the Grand Marshal’s car leads the Lyme Independence Day Parade down Cove Rd.

LYME—The parade that began over 60 years ago with a beloved doctor’s pot-and-pan band remains a short and timeless tradition.

There’s not much in the way of rules at Lyme’s Fourth of July Parade, and the clock is more of a suggestion than an absolute. You could even say time stops for this simple slice of Americana.

But nobody told that to Lyme Selectman John Kiker.

“We’re running five minutes late,” he said shortly before the scheduled 10 a.m. start.

The first vintage car set off not much later from the apex of Cove Road with Grand Marshal Bill Hawthorne in the seat of honor. Less than a quarter of an hour later, the final MINI truck cleared the Esther and Bill Irving Bridge below.

Trailing the MINI across the 10-foot span over the cove, Kiker had the answer for those wondering just how much time had elapsed.

“Twelve minutes,” he said.

Lyme First Selectman David Lahm put it this way: “Don’t blink.”

Parade founder Dr. William D. Irving was memorialized in his obituary 10 years ago for starting the tradition “on a whim” in 1958. He stepped down as grand marshal in 2008.

For a half century, Irving maintained the parade “starts promptly at about 11 a.m.” 

This time around, the annual town wide celebration got underway promptly at about 10 a.m.

Grand Marshal Bill Hawthorne, 88, served as the town’s treasurer for 26 years and treasurer of the Lyme Fire Company for 15 years.  The lifetime resident was a volunteer firefighter from the age of 16 until his 50s. George Willauer served as Hawthorne’s chauffeur.

The Hamburg Fair contingent of Lyme’s Fourth of July Parade prepares to toss candy into the crowds lining Cove Rd. and Rte. 156.

The Lyme Parks and Recreation group brought along candy for paradegoers.

Kids from Camp Claire have been a mainstay in the parade since Irving’s time. The beloved Old Saybrook pediatrician also served as the camp physician.

Campers could be heard singing along to songs like Miley Cyrus’ Party in the USA and chanting “USA” along the parade route.

Lyme Ambulance filled out a heavy contingent of first responders as part of the town’s volunteer tradition.

Ambulance volunteers from the back of this Jeep broadcast the message “Lyme Ambulance thanks you for your support” throughout the parade route.

Nancy Kalal, known for working with oxen at her Cranberry Meadow Farm in East Lyme, brought a livestock contingent to the parade. Kalal said it was the first time out in public for Red, a 400-lb, 4-month-old red Holstein in training to be an ox.  “Red behaved admirably,” she said afterward in an email. “He  seemed to enjoy all the attention, and still pull the cart on my commands.”  

Members of Lyme Pollinator Pathway represented butterflies, bees and other pollinators at the parade.

While kids all along the parade route dove into the road for candy, adults looked forward to bulbs of fresh garlic that were handed out again this year.

The Lyme Fire Department came out in force as a perpetual highlight in the community parade.

Enthusiastic honks and beeps reverberated across the cove as this vintage Chrysler brought up the rear of the parade.

Paradegoers on the sunny morning included those of the four-legged variety.

Fire apparatus prepared for the right turn into the Hamburg Fairgrounds as traffic resumed on Route 156, which was closed for the brief duration of the parade.

While Dr. Irving was known to hand out popsicles after the parade, members of the Lyme Recreation Commission laid out free hot dogs, hamburgers, chips and drinks at the Grange.

And that’s it until next year.

Editor’s Note: This article was updated with more information about Red, the ox-in-training.

Death Announced of Jennifer Griswold Hillhouse of Old Lyme—’A Community Treasure,’ Two-Time ‘OL Citizen of the Year’

Celebration of Life to be held Monday, Aug. 25, 2 p.m., at First Congregational Church of Old Lyme

Jennifer Griswold Hillhouse

OLD LYME—Jennifer Griswold Hillhouse died in her sleep at home in Old Lyme, Connecticut, on June 7, 2025. She was 92.

Jennifer was the daughter of Dr. Matthew and Charlotte Griswold. She was born in New Haven, Connecticut on March 18, 1933, and grew up in New Haven, where her father was an attending physician at Yale University.

She attended the Foote School in New Haven through eighth grade and graduated from the Madeira School in Virginia in 1950. She attended Smith College in Massachusetts until her marriage to Frank W. Smith, a Marine Corps officer and Yale graduate (1950) in 1953. The marriage ended in divorce three years later.

Through mutual friends, she met Dr. Theodore R. Hillhouse (Ted), a widower dentist. He had three sons from his first marriage; she had two daughters from hers. They wed in 1959, and Ted and his boys moved to Jennifer’s home in Old Lyme. Within three years, there were two more boys, raising the number of children to seven, in a classic yours-mine-ours family with the ensuing chaos.

With the family growing up, she acted on a longtime desire to work in health care when she enrolled at Mitchell College, a private college in New London, to study nursing. She received a registered nurse degree in 1978 and was immediately hired at Lawrence and Memorial Hospital in New London. A family emergency caused her to resign from the hospital earlier than expected, but she carried her skill set to Old Lyme’s South End Ambulance Association, where she volunteered, as an EMT and later as a driver, for many years. Her nursing skills and care were also put to use at Red Cross community blood drives (to which she donated 18 gallons of her own in her lifetime).

Jennifer was a community treasure. Following the example of her father, she worked tirelessly to serve and improve the community. She was named Old Lyme Citizen of the Year the first time, in 1970, for creating a town recycling program. She was Citizen of the Year again in 1989, this time for a “lifetime of service to our community that will stand as a beacon of leadership through personal sacrifice and example.”

Her wide-ranging environmental and related interests included natural scenic and historical land conservation, through what is now the Old Lyme Land Trust, and osprey restoration and raptor migration tracking. She also volunteered at the Old Lyme Phoebe Griffin Noyes Library and BookCellar, the Old Lyme Historical Society, Lawrence and Memorial Hospital, and the New London Maritime Society and Customs House. She was a stalwart supporter of animal welfare programs such as Forgotten Felines (for a time, she had 24 adopted cats).

Jennifer was predeceased by her husband, Ted Hillhouse. Survivors include her brother Matthew Griswold; her children, Helen H. Townsend (husband Rhys Townsend), Margaret Hillhouse (husband Steve Patterson), Matthew G. Hillhouse, and Michael C. Hillhouse (wife Aretha Matthis); stepchildren Kenneth N. Hillhouse, Richard J. Hillhouse (wife Virginia) and James W. Hillhouse (wife Starr, deceased April 2025); six grandchildren and step-grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

Memorial donations may be made to the Old Lyme Land Trust (PO Box 163, Old Lyme, CT 06371) or the Old Lyme Historical Society Inc. (PO Box 352, Old Lyme, CT 06371).

A celebration of life will be held on Monday, August 25, 2025 at 2 p.m. at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme. A reception will follow at the community meeting room behind the church.

The family would like to thank Hospice for care provided for the last five months.

Juneteenth Celebration Brings Jazz, Poetry, Reflection to Old Lyme

Witness Stones Old Lyme poets at the Juneteenth celebration. From left to right: Rhonda Ward, Antoinette Brim-Bell, Kate Rushin and Marilyn Nelson. All photos courtesy of Witness Stones Old Lyme.

OLD LYME—The north lawn of the Florence Griswold Museum earlier this month filled with music and poetry as the community gathered for a Juneteenth celebration honoring those who once lived enslaved in the historic town of Lyme.

The Avery Sharpe Quartet performing at the Juneteenth event.

The June 22 event in partnership with the Witness Stones Old Lyme organization featured a powerful performance by renowned bassist and composer Avery Sharpe and his Quartet—Zaccai Curtis on piano, Haneef Nelson on trumpet, and Yoron Israel on drums—whose dynamic jazz rhythms set the tone for an afternoon of remembrance and hope.

Artists gather at the Juneteenth Jazz & Poetry event on Sunday, June 22. Left to right: Poets Marilyn Nelson, Kate Rushin, Rhonda Ward and Antoinette Brim-Bell with musicians Zaccai Curtis, Avery Sharpe, Yoron Israel, and Haneef Nelson

Interwoven with the music were readings by four of Connecticut’s most distinguished poets: Marilyn Nelson, Kate Rushin, Rhonda Ward, and Antoinette Brim-Bell. Their verses, inspired by the lives of those commemorated through the Old Lyme Witness Stones Project, gave voice to the past and called listeners to deeper understanding and reflection. 

Audience members enjoy the sounds of live jazz and poetry on the lawn of the Florence Griswold Museum.

The poets, who began their partnership with the Witness Stones Project in 2021, created a cycle of poems that was later published in Poetry magazine. Their verse continues to serve as a poignant tribute to the lives, labor, and humanity of those long forgotten by history.

Photographer William Earle Williams signs copies of the exhibition catalogue for poets Rhonda Ward, left, and Kate Rushin.
Photographer William Earle Williams signs copies of the exhibition catalogue for poets Rhonda Ward (left) and Kate Rushin.

Following the program, the Florence Griswold Museum welcomed guests to view Their Kindred Earth: Photographs by William Earle Williams on its closing day. Drawn by his interest in the Witness Stones Project, Williams became the museum’s third artist-in-residence and made stunning photographs that reveal historic sites of enslavement in Old Lyme and elsewhere in Connecticut.

Witness Stones Old Lyme

Between 1670 and 1826 at least 300 enslaved and indentured African Americans and Native Americans labored in the historic town of Lyme.

Today, Witness Stones honor the humanity and the contributions of vital members of our community. The bronze plaques that mark sites of enslavement on Lyme Street restore forgotten history and serve as memorials to those once held here in bondage. 

Each of the 60 Witness Stone placed on Lyme Street, McCurdy Road, Old Shore Road, the Sill Lane Green and at the Lyme Public Library includes the name of an enslaved individual, along with details about their lives and circumstances derived from land records, emancipation certificates, and other available historical documents.

An interpretive sign installed on the lawn of the Old Lyme Phoebe Griffin Noyes Library provides a map showing the locations of the small brass plaques that are installed flush with the ground on Lyme Street and elsewhere in the community.

For more information about the Witness Stones Project in Old Lyme, visit the Witness Stones Old Lyme website: https://www.witnessstonesoldlyme.org/

Editor’s Note: Liz Frankel is a member of the Witness Stones Old Lyme Committee.

Death Announced of Gary William Mislick, 83, of Sebastian FL, Old Lyme and Deep River, CT

Gary William Mislick, 83, of Sebastian FL, Old Lyme and Deep River, CT, passed away in Florida on June 12, 2025. He was born in Deep River, CT in 1942 to Walter and Phebe (Sheffield) Mislick . Gary attended Valley Regional High School where he played basketball and was selected as his class president for several years before moving to Avon Old Farms School where he switched to the sport of baseball until his graduation …

They moved back to Deep River, CT where they built a great family life together …

Gary is preceded in death by his parents Walter and Phebe, along with his step-mother, Shirley (Sheffield) Mislick and his brother Jeffrey Mislick. He was also preceded in death by his beloved pets among which his black labrador, Koty, who truly stole his heart. He is survived by his wife Georgia, his sister Judith, his brother Randolph and wife Kelley. He was a loving father to his son, Gary Walter, son Curt and wife Jennifer Grannata , daughter Virginia “Ginny” (Mislick) King and husband Tim, and grandson Carson …

Visitation was held at Robinson, Wright & Weymer Funeral Home, 34 Main Street in Centerbrook, CT on Friday, June 20, 2025 from 5-7pm. A funeral service was held at the Deep River Congregational Church, 1 Church Street in Deep River, CT on Saturday, June 21, 2025 at 1pm. Burial followed in the Winthrop Cemetery, Route 80 in Winthrop, CT. In lieu of flowers, Gary would have appreciated donations made to any of the following: Deep River Fire Dept., Old Lyme Ambulance Assoc. or Valley Shore Animal Welfare League.

A Celebration of Gary’s Life will be held in Sebastian, Florida at a time yet to be determined. To share a memory of Gary or send a condolence to his family please visit www.rwwfh.com

Death Announced of Patricia Taptick, Mother of Susan Fogliano of Old Lyme, Michael D. Taptick, and Sharon A. Cushman

Patricia Taptick

NIANTIC, CT—Patricia Taptick, of Niantic CT passed away on June 30, 2025. She was the widow of Michael J. Taptick, Jr, who predeceased her in 2006. They had been married for 50 years.

Patricia was born on October 11, 1937, in Norwalk, CT, the daughter of Louis Kish and Ella Kenez Kish.

Patty spent her entire life caring for her family with all that was in her. She worked in a variety of customer service jobs over the course of her life, bringing smiles to all who knew her. She loved cooking for a crowd and singing, especially the music of the 1940s and 50s. Patty was extremely proud of her Hungarian ancestral roots and spent many happy hours reminiscing about her youth.

She served steadfastly as a much-loved receptionist at Lyme-Old Lyme High School from 2007 through 2014, 

Patricia is survived by her three children Susan P. Fogliano and her husband Michael of Old Lyme CT, Michael D. Taptick of Groton CT, and Sharon A. Cushman and her husband Gordon of Jewett City CT; her brother Louis J. Kish and his wife Patricia of Sandy Hook CT; six grandchildren and ten great grandchildren, her dear cousin Jean Drasky of Torrington CT, four nieces, and one nephew.

She was predeceased by her brother David Kish, and sisters-in-law Catherine “Jane” Thomas and Paula Taptick.

Services will be private.