Celebrate Grand Re-opening of ‘The Chocolate Shell’ in New Premises, All Welcome Labor Day Afternoon

Barbara Crowley, owner of The Chocolate Shell on Lyme Street, has made a big move!

And the move is to … right next door to the previous premises of the store. which has proudly occupied the space in the northern corner of The Village Shops for 38 years.

The new space into which Crowley has moved The Chocolate Shell is larger, brighter and, as she describes it, results in, “no more crawling over each other, customers and employees.”

The Grand Re-opening will be held from 2 to 5 p.m. on Labor Day afternoon.  All are welcome to come and see inside the new store.  There will be refreshments and perhaps some singing — Crowley is an accomplished vocalist.

An official ribbon-cutting is planned for 3 p.m. at which Lyme-Old Lyme Chamber, town and regional dignitaries will be present.

Reading Uncertainly? “Et Cetera, Et Cetera” by Lewis Thomas,

Awhile back, a conversation at Ashlawn Coffee in Old Saybrook brought up the word “blight,” in connection with a new committee in Old Lyme.

What, indeed, is “blight”?

Is one person’s “ugly condition” possibly a delight for someone else? That brought up the word “Blighty,” a word referring to England, possibly from Urdu and no connection whatsoever with the word “blight.” So do some words we use infrequently mean the same to all of us?

That question, nagging my brain, led me back to a book I had read almost 30 years ago, Lewis Thomas’s Et Cetera, Et Cetera, in which this medical doctor explores the derivation of many of our common words, with great humor and erudition.. Consider: animus, pessimism, snare, sleep, fastidious, scrutiny, pupil, hair, googol (not Google, I might add!), free, music, ethics, and Gaia.

Fascinating.

From their origins in Indo-European, Greek, Latin, and other languages, to today’s usages, these words have evolved almost as much as we homo Sapiens.

Take, for example, the word “presently.”  Some 300 years ago, it was used by the English to mean now or at this moment. Then, in the 18th and 19th centuries in “Old Blighty,” English novelists used it in the sense of the near future. That persisted into the 20th century, but in the last 50 years “presently” seems to have begun to revert to its original sense in many vocabularies.

As Dr. Thomas notes with the word “delight,” “But there is no lasting light in delight; its cognates carry soft warnings of the shadow just ahead.”

His introduction opens our minds to the delight of language: “the mark of being human is speech and the ready use of metaphor, and the evolutionary development of this trait is told, in part, by the history of words … I keep forgetting words. But forgetting is part of the fun, allowing the pleasure of looking them up and being flabbergasted all over again … I turned into an obsessed collector, picking up and storing in the untidy attic of my mind words upon words.”

More salient quotes: “ … something over 90 percent of the remarks made in a day’s turning are essentially idle sounds …  indicating presence, politeness, interest if interest is wanted, readiness to talk,” and  “ … the immense role played by small-talk in keeping discourse going.”  As such, “language is itself the most exhilarating of games, an endless contest in which we are engaged in all our lives, pure fun for the mind.”

Can we as human beings actually learn to live together?

Thomas is cautious about our future: “Right now, because of the noisy triumph of individualism in the last two centuries, and especially because of our collective follies since 1914, we seem to ourselves to have lost the game altogether, on our way to extinction. Good. We will need a few more decades of deep discouragement, casting about for ways to change our behavior toward each other, and then perhaps the notion deep in our collective consciousness will take hold, and we will start changing without realizing that we are transforming ourselves … letting nature, at last, take her course and relying on the language for new guidance.”

His conclusion is a bit more optimistic: we have “a brain capable not only of awareness and what we call consciousness … but we do something more than this. We record the details of our past experience and make compulsive guesses about our future … More than this, and here is our uniquely distinguishing feature, we talk to each other about these things. In short, we are unique because of language.  … The really important, far and away most important thing about human beings is human society. We are … a biologically, mandatorily, ineluctably social animal.”

Step back a moment and explore words with Dr. Lewis Thomas, and then go forth and share them with everyone else.

Editor’s Note: ‘Et Cetera, Et Cetera’ was written by Lewis Thomas and published by Little, Brown & Co., Boston 1990.

Felix Kloman

About the Author: Felix Kloman is a sailor, rower, husband, father, grandfather, retired management consultant and, above all, a curious reader and writer. He’s explored how we as human beings and organizations respond to ever-present uncertainty in two books, ‘Mumpsimus Revisited’ (2005) and ‘The Fantods of Risk’ (2008). A 20-year resident of Lyme, he now writes book reviews, mostly of non-fiction that explores our minds, our behavior, our politics and our history. But he does throw in a novel here and there. For more than 50 years, he’s put together the 17 syllables that comprise haiku, the traditional Japanese poetry, and now serves as the self-appointed “poet laureate” of Ashlawn Farm Coffee, where he may be seen on Friday mornings. His wife, Ann, is also a writer, but of mystery novels, all of which begin in a village in midcoast Maine, strangely reminiscent of the town she and her husband visit every summer.

Lyme Resident Simmons Join Boston Law Firm

Courtney A. Simmons

The Boston law firm of Davis, Malm & D’Agostine, P.C. has announced that Ccourtney A. Simmons, a lifelong resident of Lyme, Conn., has joined the firm’s Litigation practice. Ms. Simmons assists clients in commercial litigation and real estate disputes.

Prior to joining Davis Malm, Simmons served as Law Clerk to the Honorable Mark V. Green, Chief Justice of the Massachusetts Appeals Court, and the Honorable Robert B. Foster and the Honorable Howard P. Speicher, both of the Massachusetts Land Court. Ms. Simmons received a J.D. from Boston University School of Law and a B.S. from the University of Delaware.

Davis Malm President Amy L. Fracassini, said, “We are focused on growing the firm by recruiting talented up-and-coming attorneys who share our goal to provide excellent client service. We are delighted to have Courtney on the Davis Malm team.”

Simmons commented, “I look forward to collaborating with my colleagues and using my prior experience to assist clients in their legal matters.”

Editor’s Note: Founded in 1979, Davis Malm is a premier mid-sized, full-service New England firm. The firm provides sophisticated legal representation to local, national, and international public and private businesses, institutions, and individuals in a wide spectrum of industries. The attorneys at the firm practice at the top level of the profession and deliver successful results to clients through direct partner involvement, responsive client service, and practical and creative problem solving. Davis Malm is the member firm for the International Lawyers Network representing Massachusetts and northern New England.

First Day for Lyme-Old Lyme Schools Goes Smoothly, Whritner Named ‘Teacher of the Year’

It was the first day of the new school year for Lyme-Old Lyme (LOL) Schools yesterday.  Facebook was littered with “First Day Photos” of, in most cases, smiling students setting off to their new classes and sometimes, school for the first time.

Elementary School teacher Sue Whritner was named 2018-19 Teacher of the Year at LOL Schools’ Convocation on Monday.

During Convocation on Monday, when all employees of LOL Schools gather together for a ‘Pre-Start of School’ assembly, Mile Creek School Principal Patricia Downes announced that Sue Whritner from Mile Creek had been selected as the 2018-19 Teacher of the Year.  Whritner was immediately given a standing ovation and plenty of loud cheers by her peers.

Downes also announced that the 2018-19 Non-Certified Employee of the Year was tutor Jen Harvill, who similarly works at Mile Creek. Harvill received a lengthy standing ovation as well.

A smiling Jen Harvill acknowledges the applause from her colleagues after being named 2018-19 Non-Certified Employee of the Year on Monday.

Lyme-Old Lyme Schools Superintendent Ian Neviaser told LymeLine, “We had a great opening filled with smiles and excitement about starting a new year.  Everyone was thankful that we installed air conditioning last year in all buildings.  This certainly will make the first couple of days much more productive.  We are excited to have everyone back and look forward to this year’s successes.”

Large Turnout to Discuss Future of Lyme Academy, Variety of Options Proposed

More than 80 people attended the meeting at Lyme Academy College Monday afternoon to discuss its future. Photo by SEcoast.org.

University of New Haven (UNH) President Steven Kaplan, Lyme Academy College of Fine Arts Campus Dean Todd Jokl, Lyme Academy Board Chair Stephen Tagliatela, and Lyme Academy faculty member/alumna Kimberly Monson, hosted a meeting yesterday afternoon at the College to discuss its future.  The meeting was held in response to the numerous concerns and questions raised subsequent to the UNH Board of Governor’s announcement on Aug. 20 that it had, “decided, effective at the end of the academic year in May 2019, to discontinue the University’s degree-granting academic offerings” at the College.

SECoast.org attended the meeting and wrote, “Upwards of 80 residents, alumni, faculty, and members of the art community turned out, in what was an unsettled, but positive and forward-thinking discussion.  Kaplan set the tone with an emphasis on maintaining the Academy as a viable educational arts institution, briefly laying out the short-term challenges …”  Read their full report at this link.

Erica Moser from The Day also attended and her report is at this link.