A View From My Porch: Reflections on the Election

Tom Gotowka

At long last, I am devoting this “View” to a few thoughts and observations on Old Lyme’s November 7th municipal election, which included a recount; aka “recanvass,” for positions whose margins were less than 20 votes; — required in CT unless the losing candidate waives the recount. The recount, which was held on Monday, Nov. 13th, did not change any elected positions, though one was reduced to a margin of a single vote. 

It is noteworthy that in a state where only 34 percent of eligible voters turned out on the 7th, there was remarkable interest amongst Old Lyme’s electorate; where 58.6 percent of eligibles voted. 

In contrast, Lyme had 33.9%; East Lyme, 40.3 %; Waterford, 33.7%; Groton, 25.2%; and to the west, Old Saybrook had 40.3%; and Westbrook, 33.8%. 

Participation in municipal elections is usually lower than for statewide or national elections, when turnout in Connecticut can exceed 75 percent.

The results of the election demonstrated the community’s support for the Democrats’ “Small Town-Bright Future” vision; and the new leadership team on the Old Lyme Board of Selectmen (BOS), with Democrats Martha Shoemaker as first selectwoman and Jim Lampos, selectman. The Democrats were also successful in contests for positions on important boards and commissions. 

Republican Judith Danenhower Read, fills the third position on the BOS, receiving 1,715 votes vs. her running mate, John Mesham’s 1697. In Old Lyme, the losing candidate in the first selectman’s race automatically becomes a candidate for the board of selectmen. 

Old Lyme’s Town Clerk, Vicki Urbowicz, swore in the newly elected on Sunday, Nov. 19th.

The earliest draft of this “View” included a lengthy assessment of the factors and events that I believe had an influence on the election. These included the Old Lyme Republican Town Committee’s list of priorities that was sent to all residents in the spring, which included a “pledge” to exercise greater “parental rights” over the shaping of school curricula and the holdings of school and public libraries; the ‘book-banning’ issue and subsequent “petition” against it;  and the demand made in a public comment at a Region 18 Board of Education (BOE) meeting that BOE members, who had signed the  “petition” mentioned above should resign because they were really supporting pornography and obscene books in our Library’s ‘Teens & Tweens’ section.

My editor, who sometimes uses her red pen in the same way that Darth Vader wielded his light saber, strongly suggested, — i.e., told me, that now was not the time to be looking backward but rather forward. Of course, I submitted to her decision, but after a little bobbing and weaving, and a reminder that “those that fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it;” did negotiate an abridged version of my original effort. 

All that said, there is an apparently orphaned project that deserves attention. 

Last year, the Lyme Academy of Fine Arts proposed an “Arts Overlay District” on Lyme Street, which would amend Old Lyme’s zoning regulations and create “a more flexible arts and social district.” Michael Duffy, Chairman of the Academy’s Board of Trustees, stated that they seek “a predictable set of guidelines so they can plan, knowing that their activities are “in conformance with the regulations.” Their site at 84 Lyme Street is zoned “residential”, although the Academy, with its extensive studios and classrooms, has operated on that site as an educational institution for decades. 

The Town’s Planning Commission had already determined by unanimous vote in October 2022 that the proposed overlay district was consistent with the Town’s “Plan of Conservation and Development.” They referred the proposal to the Zoning Commission, and it was on that Commission’s November 14, 2022 agenda; continuing through December and into 2023. As I recall there was some concern raised by the Historic District Commission that the Academy might use the new zoning regulations to open a Starbucks. Unfortunately, and now a year later; Zoning has not taken any action on the Academy’s proposal, although Democratic Commission member, Mary Jo Nosal, has emphasized the importance of writing new regulations without delay. 

Author’s Notes: I want to pass on the words of Winston Churchill, who frequently used the phrase, “We must go forward together,” in speeches to Parliament and the British people as advice for First Selectwoman Shoemaker and the BOS. 

I also want to acknowledge Tim Griswold’s many years of service to Old Lyme; and as a fellow Navy veteran, wish him “fair winds and following seas,” the traditional United States Navy farewell tribute.

Editor’s Note: This is the opinion of Thomas D. Gotowka.

About the Author: Tom Gotowka is a resident of Old Lyme, whose entire adult career has been in healthcare. He will sit on the Navy side at the Army/Navy football game. He always sit on the crimson side at any Harvard/Yale contest. He enjoys reading historic speeches and considers himself a scholar of the period from FDR through JFK. A child of AM Radio, he probably knows the lyrics of every rock and roll or folk song published since 1960. He hopes these experiences give readers a sense of what he believes “qualify” him to write this column.

Town Nurse Relocates During Senior Center Remodeling, Office Hours Added

LYME/OLD LYME — The Lymes’ Senior Center is closed for remodeling, but many of its offerings will be available at new locations, and Town Nurse services are no exception.

As of Monday, Oct. 2, Town Nurse Denise Piersa will hold office hours on Mondays in the Old Lyme Town Hall lobby at 52 Lyme St. in Old Lyme and Fridays at the Lyme Public Library at 482 Hamburg Rd. in Lyme. 

Town nurse office hours are Monday to Friday from 11 am to 1 pm.

In the coming weeks, when Lymes’ Senior Center lunches resume at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme, she will also start holding office hours on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays at the church at 2 Ferry Rd.   

For residents who are sick or convalescing at home, Nurse Piersa is (as always) available to make monthly house calls for health assessment. With HIPAA permission, she can also consult with family members.

If skilled care is needed, Nurse Piersa can coordinate that care through her partner agency, the Visiting Nurse Association of Southeastern Connecticut. These skilled services do incur a fee, but the cost is usually covered by Medicare, Medicaid or private insurance. The goal of this service is to enable residents to age safely and independently in their own homes.

As always, town nurse appointments are open to all residents free of charge. Walk-ins are welcome, but residents are encouraged to call ahead of time. 

The town nurse’s phone number is 860-434-7808.  

More information about the Town Nurse and the Old Lyme Visiting Nurse Association is available through their “virtual office” at https://www.oldlymevna.org.

Death Announced of Robert Webster of Lyme; Long, Distinguished Law Career, Served on Numerous Local Boards; Service in OL Saturday

Robert David Webster

LYME — Robert David Webster of Lyme, [Conn.] died Nov. 16, 2023, at the age of 85. He had a long and distinguished law career at the firm of Pillsbury Winthrop (formerly Winthrop, Stimson, Putnam and Roberts) as managing partner and head of the Financial Institutions group. 

In Lyme, he served on the boards of the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme, Musical Masterworks, the Florence Griswold Museum and the Lyme Ambulance Association.

He is survived by his wife Betsey; his children, Chris, Hope and Elizabeth; and his grandchildren: Katryna, James, Catherine and Phil.

A memorial service will be held at 1 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 2, at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to the Florence Griswold Museum, the Lyme Ambulance Association, or the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme.

Death Announced of Polly Anne (Bowes) Bekaert, 88, of Old Lyme; Services Saturday in OL

OLD LYME — Polly Anne (Bowes) Bekaert, 88, of Old Lyme, passed away peacefully at home Tuesday, Nov. 21, 2023. She is survived by her daughter Mary Casey Pike; her son John Paul … She is predeceased by her husband Eugene Charles; her son Peter Charles …

… she met her future husband, Eugene. They were happily married Oct. 31, 1959…. It was in 1968 that they purchased a cottage at White Sand Beach in Old Lyme. It was here that Miss Polly used to spend her summers with her family as a child and would continue to do so with her own family.

… In the summer, they would return to Old Lyme to spend wonderful times with family and their many friends. Then Polly and Gene decided to make Old Lyme, their permanent residence. Miss Polly started a book club for all of the “ladies” and enjoyed many wonderful afternoons with the “ladies” at the beach and their many social events.

Friends and family are invited to calling hours from 10 to 11 a.m. Saturday, Dec. 2, at Christ the King Church, 1 McCurdy Road, Old Lyme. Burial will follow in Duck River Cemetery, 12 McCurdy Road, Old Lyme …

Visit this link to read the full obituary published by The Day on Nov. 26, 2023.

All Change at Old Lyme Town Hall; Griswold’s 18 Years of Service Honored at Various Ceremonies

The outgoing Old Lyme Board of Selectmen shares a final moment together. From left to right, incoming First Selectwoman Martha Shoemaker, retiring First Selectman Tim Griswold and former Selectman Matt Ward.
All photos by Katie Balocca.

OLD LYME — Multiple farewells to retiring Old Lyme First Selectman Timothy Griswold were held during the past two weeks. 

State Rep. Devin Carney (R) presented Griswold with a state citation acknowledging his lengthy service to the Town of Old Lyme.

Griswold served a total of 18 years in the Town’s top spot with 14 years as First Selectman from 1997 through 2011 and then again for another four years from 2019 through 2023. He did not run for re-election this year.

Lyme-Old Lyme Schools Superintendent Ian Neviaser acknowledged the support he had received from Griswold throughout his tenure as superintendent.

An event was held at the Old Lyme Country Club and then another last Tuesday in the Meeting Room at Old Lyme Town Hall.

Incoming First Selectwoman Martha Shoemaker helped Griswold unravel the quilt.

This second ceremony was for the various local non-profits and Region 18 representatives to bid Griswold adieu. 

Once unraveled, the quilt was clearly ‘a thing of beauty.’

Many of the non-profits created original quilt squares and then a quilt was sewn for Griswold, which was presented to him by incoming First Selectwoman Martha Shoemaker at the event.

David Griswold spoke warmly of Tim Griswold’s work in Old Lyme’s VFW Post 1467.

Picking up on the quilt theme, Shoemaker commented in her first newsletter to the residents of Old Lyme that, “He (Griswold) truly is woven into the fabric of Old Lyme.”

Laurie Walker spoke on behalf of the Greater Old Saybrook Chamber of Commerce and acknowledged Griswold’s contribution to that organization and the business community at large.

She added in the newsletter, “I personally thank him for the time he has provided to make this transition as smooth as possible in the First Selectman’s office.”

Karen Geisler represented both the Duck River Garden Club and the Lyme-Old Lyme Lions at the event. Griswold is a longtime member of the Lions.