Wonderful Weather in Old Lyme Sets Scene for a Perfect Parade

Two cheery members of the Old Lyme Fire Department ride atop a vintage fire truck.

OLD LYME — It was a perfect day for a parade on Monday and our terrific town hosted yet another great parade filled with pride and patriotism but also spilling over with joy and happiness. This is still just a small selection of photos. We will be adding many more later today.

Many thanks indeed to our fabulous photographers, Troy Clark, Michele Dickey, James Meehan and Suzanne Thompson.

Following tradition, the Lyme-Old Lyme High School Band led the parade.
The military fly-past took everyone’s eyes to the sky.
Members of the Old Lyme Historical Association were out in force to join the parade. Photo by James Meehan.
Phoebe Griffin Noyes aka Mary Dangremond strode purposefully down the parade route, reminding all of her connection to the Old Lyme Library that bears her name.
Students waving their flags in coordinated fashion led the middle school band.
And the pipers played …
The joy on the ‘sidelines’ was palpable. Photo by James Meehan.
The Old Lyme Board of Selectmen, from left to right, Selectwoman Martha Shoemaker, First Selectman Tim Griswold and Selectman Matt Ward were clearly enjoying their marching responsibilities.
A smiling State Rep. Devin Carney (R-23rd) waves to the crowd while State Senator Martha Marx (D-20th) greets a friend.
The LOL Middle School Band played some lively tunes.
Members of the Old Lyme Fire Department march proudly down Lyme Street.
The banner says it all.
The Old Lyme VNA happily marched the full length of the parade.
The Nightingale’s Band led by the multi-talented Dan Stevens (at right, behind banner) was a welcome new addition to this year’s parade.
Always a popular feature of the parade, the fife and drummers played their authentic music.
Lymes’ Senior Center dancers gave an enthusiastic and polished display!
The Lyme-Old Lyme Lions boldly declared their mission: ‘We Serve’
The winners of the essay contest sponsored by the VFW Post 1467 proudly read their respective works.
Veterans listened attentively as this student solemnly read her winning essay. Photo by James Meehan.
VFW Veterans laid a wreath at the war memorial in Duck River Cemetery.
Firing a celebratory volley were the elder statesmen of VFW Post 1467.
A Memorial Day to remember. Photo by James Meehan.
And also … and finally … it was certainly a Memorial Day to remember for these two young ladies! On the right, resplendent in red, white and blue and checking on the status of her friend’s ice cream, is Cecilia Girasoli. On the left, beautiful in blue and focused on her own cone, is Emerson Tinkle.

Lyme-Old Lyme HS Sports State Tournament Round-Up: Track Meet Yields Numerous 1st Places

GIRLS’ TENNIS

The Old Lyme Girls Tennis team takes a well-deserved break after defeating Litchfield 7-0 in the Class S semifinal round. The girls now advance to the state final, which will be played TODY, Thursday, June 1, at Wesleyan at 9am. GO WILDCATS! Photo by Andrea Fenton.

On Wednesday, May 31, Old Lyme defeated Litchfield 7-0 in one of the CIAC State Team semi-finals. Old Lyme will now play Westbrook in the state final at 9 a.m. TODAY (Thursday) at Wesleyan University. Go Wildcats!

The semifinal scores were:

Singles:
1st Singles:
Sam Tan Vs Leah Sepples 6-0, 6-0
2nd Singles:
Elaina Morosky vs Jillian Saunders 6-0, 7-6(5)
3rd Singles:
Callie Bass vs Riley Southard 6-0, 6-3
4th Singles:
Katherine Zhang vs Peyton Weik 6-1, 6-0

Doubles:
1st Doubles:
Livie Bass / Alexis Fenton 6-1, 6-0
Emily Migliorisi / Claire Olmstead
2nd Doubles:
Aggie Hunt/ Beatrice Hunt 6-0, 6-1
Hope Melk / Rachel Glander
3rd Doubles:
Izzy Reynolds/Natalie Buckley 6-1, 6-0
Baylie Pesce / Madison Lacilla

TRACK

This relay team of Maddy Morgado, Olivia Powers, Kate Walsh, and Chase Gilbert took 1st and 3rd place respectively in the 4 x 800 and 4 x 400 races.

On May 30, Old Lyme competed in the Class S State Track Meet. Here are some of the remarkable highlights of the team’s results:

Jacob Volkerts 1st place in the 100m (10.86) and 200m (22.63)
Dylan Sheehan 1st place in shot put (49-11.5) and discus (161-5)
Maddy Morgado, Olivia Powers, Kate Walsh, Chase Gilbert 1st place 4×800 (9:44.32) and 3rd place 4×400 (4:14.09)
Zoe Eastman Gorssel 3rd place 100m Hurdles (15.72) and 3rd place 300m hurdles (47.70)
Chase Gilbert 1st place 3200m (10:40.02)
Maddy Moragdo 3rd place 800m (2:22.68)
Maggie Thuma 3rd place discus (106-8)

The team will compete again in the State Open Meet next week.

BASEBALL

Lyme-Old Lyme defeated Old Saybrook 6-1 in the second round of the Class S tournament. The boys now advance to the quarter-finals where they will meet Haddam -Killingworth on Saturday, June 3, at a place and time to be determined.

Lyme-Old Lyme scored five of their six runs in the first inning. David Evers (0-3, 1 RBI, 1 R) was hit by a pitch with the bases loaded to drive in a run, Rowen Meisner (2-3, 3 RBI, 1 R, 1 BB) hit a bases clearing 3 RBI double, and last, Jordan Hanes (2-4, 2 RBI) had an RBI single to score Meisner.

Santiago Rodriguez got the win for Lyme-Old Lyme. He surrendered zero runs on two hits over five innings, striking out eight. Grady Lacourciere threw two innings in relief out of the bullpen.  Lacourciere recorded the last six outs to earn the save for Lyme-Old Lyme.

Lyme-Old Lyme had nine hits. Grady Lacourciere (2-3, 1 R, 1 BB) Meisner, and Hanes all had a multi-hit game for Lyme-Old Lyme.

SOFTBALL

Wednesday evening, May 31, in what LOL High School Athletic Director Hildie Heck described as a “heartbreaking loss”, the girls were defeated 10-7 by Notre-Dame Fairfield in the second round of the Class S tournament.

BOYS’ TENNIS

Old Lyme Boys Tennis defeated Litchfield 7-0 in the first round of the Class S tournament but on May 30, were defeated 4-3 by East Catholic in the quarterfinals.

These were the results from the Litchfield game.

Singles:

  1. Cooper Munson def Ben Mqanza: 6-2, 6-3
  2. Charles Hinckley def Aaron Tiong: 6-0, 6-0
  3. Griffin McGlinchey def Jackson Bates: 6-0, 6-0
  4. Andy Sicuranza def Haydn Marriot: 6-0, 6-2

Doubles:

  1. Micah Bass / Will Danes def Matt Aldrich / Xavier McDermott: 6-3, 6-4
  2. Leland Hine / Aidan Kerrigan def Cameron Murphy / Landon Cahill: 6-1, 6-3
  3. Mason Wells / Alis Bicic def Ethan Murphy / Auden Erikson: 6-3, 6-0

A Special Memorial Day ‘View from Our Porch’: Town Budget Meeting Reflections

By Christina J. & Thomas D. Gotowka

This “View” was supposed to be “Electric Vehicles: Can Elon overcome the legacy of the Beach Boys?”, but Christina encouraged me to ignore the plan and provide some follow-up on last week’s annual town budget meeting. 

We were troubled by the article by Elizabeth Regan and published on May 16 in The Day, which characterized the meeting and the residents’ interactions with the BOS as disorderly, e.g., “the room erupted”; “Moderator Vicki Lanier called for calm; let’s try to keep some order in this meeting”; and “lengthy debate about what constitutes an ‘assault weapon’ turned Monday night’s meeting into a fight about guns”. 

This essay begins with our reflections on what we thought were the key issues and concerns raised by residents that Monday evening; but as the topic developed, it became clear that this ‘View” was something that was appropriate for consideration on Memorial Day.

We felt that the gathering was nothing more than a typical New England town meeting, which historian Frank Bryan describes in Real Democracy as a public forum that enables residents to share their opinions on issues; “while engaging in deliberation and democratic decision-making” regarding laws and budgets. The residents of Old Lyme seemed very serious about their participation; and there were appropriate questions and comments when information appeared incomplete or absent.

Many were shocked that the proposed FY23/24 budget included expenditures of $29,500 for 7 patrol rifles,10 Glock 45s, and ammunition; listed under “Public Safety”. Those expenditures generated discussion and questions about exactly what comprised the “7 patrol rifles”, and why do we need them? Some expressed alarm that the patrol rifles might be AR-15s. 

Old Lyme is not immune to School Violence:

Selectman Matt Ward, who was a Connecticut (CT) State Trooper for 20 years, and a part-time police officer in Old Lyme; and Resident Trooper Matt Weber justified the expenditures as essential because our schools are vulnerable; — “shootings happen everywhere, including close to home”. Mr.  Weber’s comments were in The Day, not in person at the meeting. 

Surely, none of us living in Connecticut can be indifferent to the terrible school shootings that have impacted our confidence in the safety of our children while in school. 

Just in the past decade, they have included, Sandy Hook Elementary School in Dec. 2012, where 20 children and 6 adults were murdered; Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Fla., in 2018, where 14 students and 3 staff members were murdered, and 17 seriously injured.

Just last year, we witnessed a mass shooting at a supermarket in Buffalo where 10 people, all of whom were African-Americans, were murdered and three seriously injured; and another at Robb Elementary School in Uvalde, Texas, where 19 children and two teachers were murdered. The slow response by Uvalde Police Department, which cost lives, remains under investigation

A few months ago, on March 27, three children and three adults were murdered at the Covenant School in Nashville, Tenn.

The Numbers:

The data are daunting and gut-wrenching. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recently released the most current national mortality data and reported 45,222 firearm-related deaths in the United States in 2020, which is a new peak.

Worse yet, the previous analysis, which examined data through 2016, showed that firearm-related injuries were second only to motor vehicle accidents, both traffic-related and non-traffic-related, as the leading cause of death among children and adolescents. That gap narrowed; and in 2020, firearm-related injuries became the leading cause of death in that age group

Further, the United States has far higher rates of firearm death than any of the two-dozen other high-income countries that were studied, which included Australia, Canada, Germany, Italy, Japan, Norway, Spain, and the United Kingdom. We kill each other with firearms 25 times as often as the study group. 

Finally, according to the Gun Violence Archive (GVA), the rate of mass shootings escalated during COVID and has persisted since; and 2021 became the worst year for mass shootings since tracking began in 2013 with 690 across 44 states and Washington, DC.

Incredibly, by May 1, of this year, there were already 235 mass shootings in the United States; which puts us on track to pass 700, which would be a new peak. 

There is no doubt in our minds that we have a problem in this country with gun violence. 

M-4s, Not AR-15s:

Our elected officials initially seemed unwilling to specify the exact rifle model that was to be purchased, and that led to concerns from residents. 

Eventually, Selectman Ward informed us that Old Lyme Police Department’s (OLPD) patrol rifles would be M4s. He emphasized that the rifles would not be routinely carried by officers on patrol, and would remain locked and secured in police vehicles and only deployed with authorization from a supervisor. This was corroborated by two members of OLPD who attended the meeting in uniform.

An advantage of the M4 is that it is also used by CT state police, with whom we already have a close working relationship. 

As we understand, equipping the OLPD with M4s in this manner will enable more rapid deployment of armed officers for containment of an active incident. The Resident Trooper stated, “It’s going to be my Old Lyme officer that’s the first one in that door.”

After some additional discussion and a motion to remove the firearms from the budget failed to achieve the required two-thirds majority, those in attendance voted to approve the proposed budget with no change. 

Through the Looking Glass:

These expenditures were presented as having been endorsed by the Old Lyme (OL) Board of Selectmen and approved by the OL Board of Finance (BOF). However, a BOF member said at the meeting that the board received no information from the OLPD describing the purchase, nor did they respond to a request to explain the need for the weapons.

In contrast, The Day reported that the Resident Trooper told them in March that his department, “… is requesting Colt M4 carbine semiautomatic rifles.”

All in all, and borrowing from Lewis Carroll’s Alice, the situation becomes, ‘curiouser and curiouser.’

Perhaps more eloquently stated, former Old Lyme Selectwoman Mary Jo Nosal, in a response to The Day, stated, “The crux of the issue is not whether these arms are necessary but the lack of transparency and justification for the need for what would be a new purchase for the town.”

America’s Rifle?

The shooters in Uvalde and Buffalo used AR-15 style weapons. The CT State Police reported that Adam Lanza used a similar .223-caliber Bushmaster XM-15 E2S semi-automatic rifle at Sandy Hook.

In 2020, the National Shooting Sports Foundation estimated that 19.8 million AR-15 style rifles were in circulation in the United States; surging from about. 8.5 million since a federal assault weapons ban expired in 2004.

In 1993, and again after Sandy Hook, the CT General Assembly passed laws prohibiting the sale of certain “military-style” weapons, including the AR-15 and its many variations.

About 80,000 AR-15s purchased prior to 1993 were “grandfathered in” and then re-grandfathered” after Sandy Hook.

Governor Lamont has announced that he is seriously considering repealing the exemption. 

We Need a Plan:

The outcome of the meeting demonstrates that residents acknowledge America’s gun violence problem and the attendees now realize, “Shootings happen everywhere, including close to home.” While approving the purchase of the proposed firearms for OLPD is a step towards containment of an active shooter incident, we have not touched on prevention or deterrence.

Last June, after the Uvalde school shooting, the Region 18 Board of Education approved armed school security guards, who would be retired, trained police officers., However, the school district did not purchase firearms. 

Rather than have another Old Lyme Arms Summit in 2024, Reverend Steve Jungkeit, senior minister at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme, called for a, “Wider conversation about public safety.”  He said, “I don’t feel safer as a human being by having a lot more guns out there, even carried by people that I trust because good people do make errors of judgment.”

Elections:

Per The Day, — “with little publicity”, town officials, proposed amendments to local ordinances that would have changed the Old Lyme Town Clerk and Tax Collector from elected to appointed positions; and lengthened the current respective four-year terms to six. The vote from the floor was virtually unanimous in rejecting the proposed change. 

Author’s Thoughts:

We are concerned that it appears that Old Lyme is now using an honor system rather than verification of identification in order to confirm a person’s status as an “elector or citizen eligible to vote” in important Town Meetings. 

We know that Old Lyme’s BOS have been reticent in the past to comment on social issues, but it seems that it is time to make a statement in support of developing some common-sense rules and enforceable regulations to curb gun violence and make our children safe in school.

After all, “shootings happen everywhere, including close to home”. 

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Welcome Home! Old Lyme Family Joyfully Greets USCG Cmdr./Husband/Dad on his Return From Two-Year Assignment

The Harris family — from left to right, Jon holding Leigh, Hugh and Ginger — stand together in their home at 73 Lyme St. on Friday, May 26, to celebrate Jon’s return to Old Lyme.

OLD LYME — Have you noticed the wonderful decorations outside the house at 73 Lyme St.?

At first glance, you might have thought they were the traditional Memorial Day banners and flags but a closer look reveals they carry an additional, and perhaps even more significant message for the family that lives there.

The family’s Memorial Day decorations include a traditional yellow ribbon to welcome Cmdr. Jon Harris home after two long years.

The air at #73 was filled with eager anticipation and great excitement last Thursday because the Harris family (mom Ginger, four-year-old Hugh and 18-month-old Leigh) whose home it is, was expecting their husband/dad home after a two-year assignment.

Jon Harris, who subsequently arrived home safely to the delight of his waiting family, has served on active duty in the U.S. Coast Guard for the past 18 years. He is a Commander and has served at sea on board five different U.S. Coast Guard Cutters (USCGCs) during his career.

Jon’s promotion and departure ceremony from his former position in New London, Conn., in May 2021 was even attended by little Hugh. Jon and Ginger already knew that Jon had orders to the ‘Hamilton‘ when the family learned there would be another baby on the way. Leigh was born in November 2021.

Ginger explained in an email that Jon has, “Just completed a two-year assignment as Executive Officer of USCGC Hamilton, homeported in Charleston, S.C.”

She elaborated on the work in which he has been involved, saying, “The multi-mission cutter conducts counter drug and migrant interdiction operations, as well as international engagements and training around the world while sailing in the Mediterranean, Black, Baltic and Caribbean Seas, as well as the Northern Atlantic and Eastern Pacific Oceans.” 

And how long will he be home in Old Lyme? Ginger responded, “He begins his next assignment in Newport, R.I. in June, to serve as the Commanding Officer of the USCGC Campbell.”

To everyone’s shared joy, Cmdr. Jon Harris surprised Hugh’s Pre-School class at Center School this week.

Asked how the family was feeling about Jon returning home, Ginger said, “We look forward to enjoying simple family moments as a family of four. Our son has already asked for his Daddy to take him to all the playgrounds in the area and a swimming pool this summer.”

She added that, looking to the future, “Our family is excited to have Jon living with us at home between Campbell’s future deployments.” He was rarely able to return home to Old Lyme when his homebase was Charleston, S.C.

Ginger took the opportunity during the e-mail conversation to express her and her family’s gratitude to many people in town. She wrote, “We wish to thank all our neighbors in the village and Hugh and Leigh’s teachers at Center School, the After-Care program at the Old Lyme Children’s Learning Center, and the Coast Guard Child Development Center for helping take such great care of our children these past two years.”

She continued, “The friends and neighbors we have met in town are a blessing, especially since none of our family members live nearby. We cherish the chats during our family walks, the gifts from secret Santas and Easter Bunnies, birthday and Halloween surprises, the offers for hot soup when we are sick, meals and gifts after the arrival of our baby girl, and neighbors who drop everything they are doing to run over to our house and assist during difficult times.”

In a piece of perfect timing for all the Memorial Day celebrations, the sign says it all!

On a poignant note, Ginger concluded, “Thank you for choosing to share our family’s story during the first of a series of patriotic holidays that encourage us to pause and remember the contributions and sacrifices that our service members and families made in support of the ideals and values embodied in our Constitution.”

Her final thoughts, which are so pertinent with the imminent approach of Memorial Day, were, “We join our neighbors in thanking the many other current and past military members in Old Lyme and throughout our country, and we honor our Gold Star Families and their loved ones, who made the ultimate sacrifice in service to our nation.” 

Editor’s Note: We would like to express our sincere thanks to Tammy Noyes, who alerted us to the decorations at 73 Lyme St., and made preliminary inquiries with the family to determine if their story could be shared on LymeLine.com.

Death Announced of Stuart Kenneth Olson, Father of Matthew of Old Lyme; Memorial Service to be Held June 3 in Wisconsin

Stuart Kenneth Olson, 95, of Beloit, Wisconsin passed away peacefully on Tuesday, March 6, 2023. He was born October 5, 1927, to Kenneth and Mildred (Nussbaum) Olson in Madison, Wisconsin …

Stuart was also a U.S. Navy veteran, serving on active duty as a doctor from 1958 to 1960. Eventually, he and Sally settled in DeKalb, Illinois, where he practiced medicine for many years at the DeKalb Clinic and in private practice …

Stuart will be missed by his children, Douglas (Rachael) Olson of Barcelona, Spain, Peter Olson of Winnetka, IL, Kristin (Ted) Soltys of Naperville, IL, Heather (John) Palmer of Denver, CO and Matthew (Cindy) Olson of Old Lyme, CT …

Stuart’s memorial service will be June 3, 2023, at 11:00 a.m. at Redeemer Evangelical Covenant Church in Beloit. There will be a short graveside service at 3:30 at the Afton Center Cemetery, 8464 Perry Road, DeKalb, IL 60115. 

Visit this link to read the full obituary published on Tribute Archive.