Old Lyme First Selectman Tim Griswold and Tax Collector Judy Tooker stand together under the retirement banner made in their honor by Old Lyme Town Hall staff. All photos by Katie Balocca.
OLD LYME — Old Lyme Tax Collector Judy Tooker retired this month after serving in that position for more than 30 years. Prior to that, she was Old Lyme’s Registrar of Voters for around 14 years.
State Rep. Devin Carney (R-23rd) presents Judy Tooker with a CT Congressional Citation honoring her remarkable career with the Town of Old Lyme. Also in the photo are Old Lyme’s current Board of Selectmen:- Selectwoman Martha Shoemaker (left), Selectman Matt Ward (right) and First Selectman Tim Griswold (second from right).
Tooker was presented with gifts and a citation honoring her lengthy career.
A thoughtful Judy Tooker opens gifts during the retirement celebration in her and Tim Griswold’s honor.
Tooker wrote in a Letter to the Editor to LymeLine in early November, “For 30 years I have proudly served as your Tax Collector, and I thank you for your continued support over the years in re-electing me for this position. This month, I will be retiring as Tax Collector for the Town of Old Lyme …”
She added delightfully, “Although my retirement is bittersweet, I will look forward to gardening more.”
NEW CANAAN, CONN. — Arthur Tappen Soper, 89, of New Canaan, died Wednesday, Nov. 15, at his home.
Born in Manhattan to Leslie Bliss Soper and Talia Fairchild Soper, he resided in Bronxville, N.Y., Kusnacht, Switzerland, and Lyme, Conn., before moving to New Canaan in 2018.
Tappen attended Trinity School in Manhattan, was a member of Lawrenceville School’s class of 1952, and Princeton University’s class of 1956, where he was in the Air Force ROTC and a member of Cottage Club.
After Princeton he was stationed in Bainbridge, Ga. and was part of the first class of pilots to have their primary training on the T-37 jets. It was in Bainbridge where he met the love of his life, Susan Brown. After finishing up his Airforce commitment as an air traffic controller in Greenland, Susan and Tappen were married in September of 1960 and moved to Bronxville.
He spent his entire career with The Bankers Trust Company. In 1979 the bank sent him to Switzerland where he spent the next 13 years as Managing Director and General Manager of Bankers Trust AG, the bank’s Zurich, and Geneva’s offices. His tenure in Switzerland afforded Susan and Tappen an opportunity to travel all over the world and make great friends with his international clients.
Demonstrating a lifelong belief in helping others, Tappen served as chairman of the Board of Governors for Lawrence Hospital in Bronxville, N.Y., chairman of the Board for Andrus Home in Yonkers, N.Y., and while in Lyme he worked alongside his neighbors for the Pleasant Valley Association and Lyme Public Library.
Retiring from Bankers Trust AG in 1992, Tappen became a private investor and pursued his lifelong passion for flying. He purchased his beloved Mooney, a single-engine aircraft, in 1994 and eventually flew to 49 of 50 U.S. states. While his Mooney could not hold enough fuel to get him to Hawaii, he did pilot a small plane over the island of Maui while on vacation one year and was proud to say that he took off and landed in all 50 states. In June 1996 Tappen flew his plane across the country in one day, taking off near Southport, N.C. at dawn and landing in San Diego at sunset.
Tappen was devoted to his family and instilled the importance of hard work, honesty, and love of country. His earliest memory was hearing about the bombing of Pearl Harbor on the radio from his family’s apartment on 88th Street in Manhattan. A gentleman to the end, he was loved and respected by all who met him.
He is survived by his wife of 63 years, Susan, daughter Laura (Scott) Budd of Norwalk CT, and son Benjamin (Marilyn) of Southington CT, as well as grandchildren Hunter, Davis and Caroline Budd.
Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the National World War II Museum.
All ages can enjoy the beautiful Palette Christmas Trees at the ‘Holiday Magic’ exhibition at the Florence Griswold Museum.
OLD LYME — Celebrate the holidays at the Florence Griswold Museum with over 200 painted palettes on display in the Krieble Galleries, décor and artist trees in the historic house, gift shopping, and numerous special, seasonal events.
Holiday Magic 2023 opens at the museum today, Friday, Nov. 24, and is on show through Dec. 31. Opening hours are Tuesday through Sunday, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.
This year’s celebration features new twists on the traditional décor. Imagine a fictional mantel-decorating contest in the Griswold boarding house between the historic Lyme Art Colony artists. Inspired by their paintings, they rummage through their studios as well as old trunks in Miss Florence’s attic for festive objets d’art and holiday decorations. Miss Florence will announce the winner and awards ribbons on her birthday—Christmas Day.
There are now five palette trees to hold the more than 250 hand-painted palettes on display in this year’s ‘Holiday Magic’ exhibition.
Creatively crafted themed trees are also on display in the Griswold House. See a Scandinavian Christmas designed by FloGris Director of Development Matt Strekel, enjoy the handmade delights of Deep River ceramic artist Jana Rutty, and view the floral tree inspired by the Museum’s gardens by interior designer Stacey Danielson.
In addition to the traditional decorations, three Fantasy Trees add sparkle in the historic house and in the Krieble Gallery, more than 250 unique painted palettes adorn five Miss Florence’s Artist Trees. This year, artists from Connecticut, Rhode Island, New York, and New Hampshire contributed their painted, collaged, and carved creations.
Against the dramatic backdrop of the exhibition Abandon in Place: The Worlds of Anna Audette, the trees and their decorations make a powerful statement.
During ‘Holiday Magic’, visitors are invited to consider bringing non-perishable food and hygiene items for donation to the Shoreline Soup Kitchens and Pantries.’
Enjoy the final colors of fall this month. Photo by Timothy Eberly on Unsplash.
Maureen Haseley-Jones is “The English Lady.”
We have been fortunate here in New England to have the pleasure of a lovely summer not too hot with adequate rain. Followed by a warm fall with more than enough rain into November to encourage healthy root growth for a vibrant spring next year. I am keeping my fingers crossed that this weather foretells a mild winter – we can only hope, but then again, this is New England.
With the warm fall we are enjoying, the soil is easy for digging, which to me means planting spring bulbs. So let us discuss daffodils …
Before handling these bulbs, I suggest wearing gloves as they can cause an irritation called a ‘lily rash’. Wearing gloves (I use the farmer’s soft leather gloves, which can be washed) plant the bulb at a depth of at least three times the size of the bulb with the pointed end up. Dig a trench a foot deep and scatter the bulbs in the trench at least nine inches down in the soil below the frost line. The bulbs can touch one another without a problem and by planting this way you will produce a dramatic show in spring.
Tulip bulbs should be planted 12 inches down, getting them out of reach of rodents; tulips are the caviar of the rodent family. A suggestion to avoid this problem, before planting soak them in an organic deer repellent, and allow them to dry in the sun. This will deter other critters from eating them. Another protection is to line the planting hole with gravel.
In the spring when the bulb foliage is about four inches tall, apply composted manure on the soil around the emerging bulb foliage.
I hear you saying, okay Maureen, I’m ready to plant the bulbs but what else is there to do in the garden”? Folks, there are many tasks to get you out in the garden this fall.
The most important task is to apply a few inches of composted manure on all planted borders with a light layer of natural brown mulch on top. By doing this, you will continue to build the humus component in the soil.
Before the snow flies, any construction projects that you have in mind can be accomplished. This includes stonework and carpentry, building decks, and mending fences and building dry laid stonewalls, walkways, patios and digging ponds. This is definitely labor-intensive work, but at this time of year you won’t be uncomfortably hot. Make sure to stretch, take breaks and drink lots of water.
When the weather is inclement, work under a construction tent when building walls, decks or digging ponds. Or build trellises, pergolas, arbors and fences in a shed or garage. The added advantage to the hard labor is that it keeps one in shape, especially with those fattening holiday meals looming on the horizon.
If you are not able or do not want to do the work yourself, now is the time to call in a professional to do the work so that the project is completed before you plant in spring. Each year, harsh winter wind damages much of the foliage of broadleaf evergreens. Rhododendrons, mountain laurel and azaleas are particularly vulnerable as cold wind drains them of much-needed moisture. Broadleaf evergreens with their shallow root system need a good store of water going into the winter. We have had reasonable rain but need more this fall; the rain helps the broadleaves to survive, as they will continue to lose water vapor through the cold months.
Many of you have said that you notice the harsh winds of the past two winters caused the foliage on many rhododendrons to become brown and brittle. This happens when the soil freezes as plant roots cannot take up water to make up for moisture lost from water vapor. Dehydration is the result causing brown or wind burnt foliage.
I don’t go overboard with wrapping large evergreens with burlap in winter. My own White Pines, Colorado blue spruce and Fraser firs are at least 50-years-old and well-established so no worries about damage. However, there are exceptions regardng plants that require a burlap wrap. Among those are evergreens planted in September, especially the Dwarf Alberta Spruce, which is extremely prone to wind burn. The Albertas should be covered with one layer of burlap, loosely wrapped.
If the evergreens are close to a road and exposed to salt spray from snow trucks and ploughs, burlap these plants three feet up from the base may help to protect them. The best idea is not to plant them close to the road or plant salt-tolerant species like Juniper instead.
At the base of all evergreens. spread a three-inch layer of leaves or fine bark mulch, composted manure and peat around the base of the trunk. Following a heavy snowstorm when evergreen branches are weighed down with snow, gently brush the snow off with a broom.
The leaves of the deciduous trees are falling quite quickly due to the recent wind and rain. Either you or a nimble person can climb a ladder and remove leaves from gutters and drainpipes. Water from clogged gutters and pipes falling onto foundation plantings cause damage to the plants below. But please be careful as there can be nasty injuries on falls from ladders.
Peonies and Perennials:
After the first hard frost, cut Peonies down to within six inches from the ground, adding just a small amount of composted manure around the base.
I leave up my spent perennials until next April; I enjoy their soft grays, browns and yellows that enhance the muted hues of a winter landscape. Also our feathered friends appreciate the seed heads from the spent perennials.
Any leftover vegetables in the vegetable garden should have been turned into the soil. Add one part compost to three parts manure to the vegetable garden and plant a cover crop of buckwheat, alfalfa or white clover to minimize erosion. In spring, turn the cover crop into the soil, which has weathered into green manure.
Take any of your power tools that require repair or sharpening into the shop at this time. The repair shops are less busy now than in the spring. Clean your tools off in a bucket of sand, the roughness of the sand will help clean off soil and debris, then oil and grease wooden handles to preserve them and prevent splinters. Hang them neatly on hooks in the garage or shed and not just “higgledy piggledy” in a pile!
If you have an inground irrigation system, blow out the lines or have this done professionally. Also coil your hoses and store under cover and shut off outdoor faucets.
Put a bag of potting soil in the corner of the garage or basement, it will come in handy for repotting houseplants, bulb forcing or starting seeds in the spring. A supply of peat, composted manure, sand and vermiculite is also useful. Also put a bag of topsoil and some mulch under cover so that you can cover the shallow roots of evergreens if they become uncovered due to frost heave.
Houseplants:
The best time to transplant houseplants is during the growing season beginning in April. However, if you need to repot some houseplants that have outgrown their containers, transplant to a clean pot only two inches larger than the original as plants like to be compact; add new potting soil and water.
Container geraniums and begonias that you brought indoors should be placed in a sunny window to be enjoyed. In February, cut the plants down to about six inches from the soil surface and water them.
Water houseplants, early in the day; not in the evening, as plants do not like to have wet feet at night. Water them only when the top four inches of soil is dry to the touch. Once a month stand them in the bathtub or sink and spray the leaves with lukewarm water to remove any dust, dirt, white fly or aphids. Do not get water on the leaves of African violets.
Paper white Narcissus bulbs are great for forcing. I force these bulbs in pebbles; you may use potting soil if you wish; keep the pebbles or soil moist. Put the Narcissus bulbs in tall containers. I use tall clear glass vases, which help support the stems. I anchor the bulbs with pebbles, and keep the pebbles moist, then place the containers in a cool, dark place. As soon as you see root growth and the beginnings of leaf growth, bring the bowls into medium light, always keep the pebbles or soil moist at all times.
I force about a dozen narcissus at a time and the remainder I store in the vegetable keeper in the refrigerator in a brown paper bag away from food. I bring them out and pot them up a few at a time so that I have a succession of fragrant bloom throughout the winter.
Grow pots of parsley, dill, basil and other herbs in a sunny window, which offers delicious fresh herbs for cooking and salads through winter.
Roses:
The last of the summer roses need special attention in November. Photo by Bailey Chenevey on Unsplash.
Remove any dead or diseased leaves from Roses and pick up any Rose debris off the ground. If you notice disease like black spot in the debris, do not put it in your compost pile; throw it away in the garbage. Mound soil, composted manure and mulch around the base of the Roses. The mounding helps maintain a constant temperature around the Rose.
If the Roses are grown in an exposed area, which makes them vulnerable to drying winter winds, cover the plant with one loose layer of burlap or use a rose cone. Make sure all climber Roses or other Vines are securely fastened to the fence or trellis.
Set up your bird feeders where you can enjoy the birds, placed near to some low shrubs or small trees sheltered from the wind; birds like to flit from these protected spots to the feeder. Offer a varied menu for different birds. Birds enjoy a recipe I received from my stepmother in England; a lump of suet embedded with peanuts or try hollowed-out pinecones filled with peanut butter.
To prevent squirrels from raiding the feeders, set up a baffle and sprinkle cayenne pepper in the birdseed and on the suet feeders; the heat does not bother the birds and squirrels will stay clear. I am aware that hungry squirrels can jump vertically five feet; but don’t worry if you happen to be a squirrel lover; they always manage to get food from some feeders.
This is the time of year when we gardeners can pause and with the previous season still fresh in your mind, say, “this worked”, and “that I will never try again”. It is worthwhile to take a leisurely stroll around the garden before the snow falls. Look at the garden, squarely and soberly, making notes as you walk to plan for next season. Plan as you stroll, writing down your impressions, making sketches and lists and save them for your winter armchair gardening.
Enjoy the Thanksgiving holiday and I’ll see you in your garden next month.
About the author: Maureen Haseley-Jones is a member of a family of renowned horticultural artisans, whose landscaping heritage dates back to the 17th century. She is one of the founders, together with her son Ian, of, The English Lady Landscape and Home Company. Maureen and Ian are landscape designers and garden experts, who believe that everyone deserves to live in an eco-conscious environment and enjoy the pleasure that it brings. Maureen learned her design skills from both her mother and grandmother, and honed her horticultural and construction skills while working in the family nursery and landscape business in the U.K. Her formal horticultural training was undertaken at the Royal Botanic Gardens at Kew in Surrey.
Connecticut Lieutenant Governor Susan Bysiewicz (left) celebrates Old Lyme First Selectwoman-elect Martha Shoemaker after administering the Oath of Office to her in a ceremony held Sunday in Old Lyme Town Hall. All photos submitted.
OLD LYME — More than 70 people showed up Sunday (Nov. 19) to witness the swearing-in of Old Lyme’s newly-elected officials in the Old Lyme Memorial Town Hall Meeting Room. It was a warm, sunny afternoon and the meeting room was appropriately decorated for the event.
Old Lyme First Selectwoman-elect Martha Shoemaker (left) shares a smile with Connecticut Lieutenant Governor Susan Bysiewicz after Bysiewicz conducted Shoemaker’s swearing-in ceremony.
Old Lyme Town Clerk Vicki Urbowicz normally reads the Oath to all the candidates-elect, but on this occasion, Connecticut’s Lt. Governor Susan Bysiewicz was in attendance to swear in Old Lyme First Selectwoman-elect Martha Shoemaker (D). Standing alongside Shoemaker as she took the solemn oath to the Constitution were her husband Scott and sons David, Tim, and Peter.
Old Lyme Town Clerk Vicki Urbowicz administers the Oath of Office to Old Lyme Selectman-elect Jim Lampos.
Urbowicz read the oath of office for the remainder of the incoming officials, asking each one to raise their right hand and swear to uphold their position to the best of their ability.
Connecticut Lieutenant Governor Susan Bysiewicz gave opening remarks at the ceremony.
In opening remarks before she read the oath, Bysiewicz spoke about the brave service of the US Military, who made the right to choose our elected officials possible and asked all veterans present to stand up and be recognized.
US Military Veteran Doug Wilkinson celebrates the swearing in of all the incoming officials with his wife Lucy (left), Old Lyme Democratic Town Committee Chair Mary Jo Nosal (second from right), and Board of Finance member-elect Anna Reiter (right).
Additionally, she honored the families of the elected officials for their support of their civic-minded family member. Bysiewicz concluded that it is no longer about party for these officials, but rather it is about committing to work for the future of Old Lyme.
Planning Commissioner-elect Howard Margules stands with his wife Mary Jo (right) and Lieutenant Governor Susan Bysiewicz after taking his Oath of Office.
Asked to comment on how she felt after attending the event, Mary Jo Nosal, Chair of the Old Lyme Democratic Town Committee, said, “ I was moved by the beautiful ceremony and by the Lt. Governor’s comments today. Knowing the newly-sworn in officials as I do, I know that each of them appreciates the sacrifices of our U.S. military and veterans made for the freedoms we Americans hold dear, and that each of our new officials will keep that in mind as they work hard for our town.“
Old Lyme Town Clerk Urbowicz swears in Matt Ward (Unaffiliated but endorsed by Old Lyme Republican Town Committee (RTC)) as Old Lyme Town Treasurer.
Also sworn in on Sunday were Old Lyme Selectman-elect Jim Lampos (D), Treasurer-elect Matthew Ward (U but R-endorsed), Regional Board of Education members-elect Alexander Lowry (D), W. Scott Brown (D), and Susan Fogliano (D).
Region 18 Board of Education members-elect (from left to right) Alexander Lowry, Dr. W. Scott Brown and Susan P. Fogliano are sworn into office.
Urbowicz noted that Selectman-elect Judith Read (R), who was not present at the ceremony, had been sworn in earlier.
Zoning Board of Appeals Alternates-elect Democrats Kathleen Tracy and Michaelle Pearson, and Brian Cole (Unaffiliated but endorsed by Old Lyme RTC) take the Oath of Office for their positions.
Republican-endorsed candidate-elect Brian Cole was also sworn in on Sunday joining Ward as the R-endorsed candidates present at the ceremony.
All the officials-elect, who had been sworn in during the afternoon, gathered around Connecticut Lieutenant Governor Susan Bysiewicz (front row, center, to left of Selectman Jim Lampos) for a celebratory photo at the end of the ceremony.
Editor’s Note: This article was prepared with information received from a variety of people, who attended the ceremony.