Death Announced of Ralph Elmer Slater Sr., of Old Lyme; Survived by Wife, Fay, of 70 years, and Son, Ralph Slater Jr., Both of OL

OLD LYME—Ralph Elmer Slater Sr., of Old Lyme, passed away Aug. 11, 2025. He was born Dec. 13, 1930, in Fall River, Mass., the son of Edwin P. and Margaret Slater. He honorably served in the U.S. Coast Guard at multiple duty stations, …

… He married Fay Brown May 28, 1955.

Ralph was a longtime active member of the New England West Highland Terrier Club and the West Highland White Terrier Society of Connecticut.

Ralph loved having a project to focus on, whether at work or, after retirement, at his home in Old Lyme …

Ralph is survived by his wife of 70 years, Fay B. Slater; and son Ralph Slater Jr., of Old Lyme; nieces, Janice Moore and Joan Maison, both of Florida, and Denise Goucher, Lisa O’Connell-Smith, both of Old Lyme, and Kathy Heald of Mt. Holly, Vt.; and many great-nieces and nephews …

Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: Westie Foundation of America, Inc., c/o Jim McCain-Donor Manager, 302 Hemlock Cove, Ball Ground, GA 30107 …

Editor’s Note: Visit this link to read the full obituary published by The Day on Aug. 16, 2025.

TOP STORY-UPDATED: First Day of School Unchanged Amid Lyme-Old Lyme Renovation Project

This photo taken Friday, Aug. 15, shows the new base coat on the driveway at Mile Creek School that was applied on Wednesday. LymeLine photo.

LYME/OLD LYME–UPDATED 8/16 with new photo of driveway (above.) Superintendent of Lyme-Old Lyme Schools Ian Neviaser on Thursday said he’s more confident than ever that schools will reopen on time now that an intensive summertime push is winding down on the $57.5 million renovation project affecting four of the district’s five buildings. 

Neviaser in a phone interview said crews overseen by Downes Construction were working double shifts this summer to ensure Lyme-Old Lyme Middle School, Mile Creek School, Lyme Consolidated School and Center School would be ready for the first day of school on Aug. 27. 

Work at three of the schools will shift to the night once school starts, he said. For Mile Creek, where the most extensive upgrades are occurring, daytime work will continue. 

Last week, Neviaser during a regular meeting of the Region 18 Board of Education acknowledged concerns around Lyme and Old Lyme that the district wouldn’t be able to welcome students as scheduled. 

Superintendent of Lyme-Old Lyme Schools Ian Neviaser said Mile Creek School, which was unpaved when this photo was taken earlier this week, was paved Wednesday with a base coat that will provide a functional surface until the final coat is applied after site work is complete. Photo credit: LymeLine.

“I know there’s been some questions out there about whether or not we’ll be able to open school on time, especially if you drive by Mile Creek and you see that they have not paved the new parking lot or entranceway yet,” Neviaser told school board members. 

But he reported being assured by project officials that the schools would be ready. 

The prediction was bolstered by the completion of paving at Mile Creek this week, the superintendent said over the phone.

“As we get closer, I’m even more confident,” he said.  

Center, Mile Creek and Lyme-Old Lyme Middle School closed June 23, with Lyme-Old Lyme High School absorbing displaced staff members as well as campers in the Old Lyme Park and Recreation Department’s summer program. At Lyme Consolidated, staff members were relocated within the building. 

HVAC on Track

The renovation project involves Heating, Ventilation and Air Conditioning (HVAC) and security upgrades in the four buildings, plus an addition and an expanded parking area at Mile Creek School. Voters in late 2022 authorized spending up to $57.5 million on the project, though the district will save about $17 million due to grant funding and lower than expected interest rates.

Neviaser said the buildings will be ready for teachers when they arrive for three days of professional development on Aug. 22. The majority of security upgrades to the building’s front vestibules should be done by the time students get there at the end of the month. 

He said work on the HVAC system will shift to the nighttime at Center, Lyme Consolidated and Lyme-Old Lyme Middle Schools, with “substantial completion” expected by the end of this year.

“When we walk into school on August 27th, there will still be ceiling tiles down,” he said. “There will still be ductwork going on.”

Mile Creek Construction

While students will be welcomed on schedule at Mile Creek, Neviaser described the overall timeline there as “a little bit of a different story.” That’s because six classrooms are being added currently, with the pickup and dropoff area to be reconfigured next summer.

“While the majority of that project, too, was focused on HVAC – and they have continued to work on that – their intent this summer was to really try to get a lot done on the addition,” he said.  

He estimated the new classrooms could be ready by January, giving administrators the space to move some other classrooms around while work on the heating and cooling system continues in the rest of the building. 

The Mile Creek project likely won’t be complete until midway through the 2026-27 school year, he said. 

Neviaser expressed gratitude to the neighbors of the four buildings for their patience over the summer. 

He noted some construction crews this summer had to come out on Saturdays to keep the project on track at Mile Creek as they removed rock from the site.

“I know there was a lot of noise coming from the construction sites, and people were very understanding of the noise,” he said. “And we, like them, hope that it will be done soon.”

Death Announced of Dorothy (Page) Cahill, 90, of Old Lyme, Madison

Mother of Gregory Cahill of Madison, Michael Cahill of Lyme and Cari Sweitzer of Old Lyme

MADISON/OLD LYME—Dorothy (Page) Cahill, 90 of Madison and Old Lyme passed away peacefully at home on August 14, 2025 with her family by her side. She was born July 25, 1935 in Scranton PA to Jack and Edna (Jackson) Page. Dorothy is survived by her three devoted children; Gregory Cahill (Laurel) of Madison, Michael Cahill (Kelley) of Lyme and Cari Sweitzer (Kenneth) of Old Lyme along with eight grandchildren, who she adored … and two great grandchildren …

Dorothy is preceded in death by her parents and husband of 62 years, Maurice Cahill (2019) …

All services are private and under the care of the Clancy-Palumbo Funeral Home, 43 Kirkham Ave., East Haven, CT.

Editor’s Note: Visit this link to read the full obituary published Aug. 15, 2025 by by WFSB.

LETTER TO THE EDITOR: If Political Campaign Banners are OK in Old Lyme, National Flags Should be OK Too

To The Editor:

I read Betsy Groth’s recent letter regarding her being nettled by a Old Lyme church on Shore Road flying Israel’s national flag. If I knew no better I would accept her word that one side is blameless and the other side completely at fault for the chaos taking place in that sea of tranquility known to all as the Gaza Strip.

The Palestinian cause is usually presented as the world’s worst genocide past or present, ignoring the anti-social terrorist leaning behavior of this group for many decades, as well as the reality on the ground in areas of Palestinian self-governance. Honor killings, the murder of gay and lesbian occupants, Sharia Law, never mind allowing in Iranian “advisors” to help operate the missiles and rockets purchased from Iran. Missiles and rockets regularly launched into Israeli sovereign territory.The United States would never tolerate such behavior from a neighboring land nor should anyone else.

A keen observer of world events, though not always one friendly to Israeli or we Jews in general, is the United Nations. A recent UN report states that the worst genocide happening on the planet is happening to the Rohingya people from Myanmar. Ever heard of them? Not likely. What goes on in that corner of the world rarely rates a mention never mind a headline.They have fled Myanmar and now neither Bangladesh nor India has any idea what to do with them nor money to feed them.

There are plenty of places around SE Connecticut flying Palestinian flags and I have not objected. A flag, by the way, which was designed by a British civil servant during the course of World War One in his London office. As were most national flags currently flown by Arab nations right now. If you feel that political campaign banners are free to be flown in town then national flags should be alright as well.

Sincerely,

Jonathan B. Wilder,
Old Lyme.

August is No-Kill Shelter Month in Connecticut

Gov. Ned Lamont is calling on communities across Connecticut to work together in the effort to make sure every animal that goes through a shelter finds a home. Photos courtesy of Best Friends Animal Society.

National Animal Advocates Say State is 200 Adoptions Away from No-Kill Status

HARTFORD–A national pet advocacy organization is applauding Governor Ned Lamont for proclaiming August No-Kill Shelter Month, a move meant to bolster the group’s efforts to achieve “no-kill” status in Connecticut before the end of this year. 

The proclamation underlines a commitment to end the unnecessary killing of dogs and cats throughout the state’s shelters, according to a press release from the national pet advocacy organization Best Friends Animal Society. 

Julie Castle, Best Friends Animal Society CEO, states, “With less than 200 pets needing to be saved for Connecticut to become no-kill, we’re calling on Connecticut residents to choose to adopt pets from shelters and rescue groups instead of purchasing from breeders or stores.”

The group cited data showing 83 of the state’s 94 animal shelters last year maintained or achieved no-kill status. Nationally, nearly two out of three U.S. shelters are considered no-kill.

Statistics from the organization identify the Old Lyme Animal Control department as a no-kill shelter. Dogs currently up for adoption can be found at this link.

The 11 remaining shelters in the state yet to earn the no-kill designation need to save about 200 more pets combined, according to the organization. 

Best Friends Animal Society CEO Julie Castle in the release said the state is poised to join the nation’s current no-kill states: Delaware, New Hampshire, Rhode Island, and Vermont. 

“With less than 200 pets needing to be saved for Connecticut to become no-kill, we’re calling on Connecticut residents to choose to adopt pets from shelters and rescue groups instead of purchasing from breeders or stores,” Castle said.

Connecticut will join Delaware, New Hampshire, Rhode Island, and Vermont by the end of the year if homes are found for the 200 pets still seeking homes.

The “no-kill” designation applies to states in which 90% of animals entering a shelter can be saved. The figure accounts for the estimated 10% of pets with irreparable medical or behavioral issues that compromise their quality of life and prevent them from being rehomed, the release said.

The governor’s proclamation encourages Connecticut residents to work together to make a positive difference in the lives of the state’s pets by adopting, fostering, volunteering, educating, and generating awareness for these pets in need throughout their communities. 

The no-kill movement is not without critics in the animal advocacy community. People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals (PETA) argues that focusing on no-kill policies can lead shelters to “warehouse” animals for prolonged periods, place animals in unsafe homes, and turn away animals. It also does not address the root problem, the group said on its website.

“Finding a home for one dog may save one life, but sterilizing one dog will save hundreds, if not thousands, of dogs’ lives by preventing generations of potentially homeless puppies from being born. Getting a spay/neuter law passed saves even more lives. Stopping the problem at its source is where our time, energy, and funds are needed most. That is how we can drastically reduce—and hopefully end—the homeless-animal crisis and the need for euthanasia.”