A Christmas Essay: Food For Thought At Christmas

Linda Ahnert

Editor’s Note: We are delighted to re-publish this wonderful piece by our friend Linda Ahnert of Old Lyme. She wrote it way back in 2005 but it remains just as relevant today.

Yes, Virginia, there can be too much of a good thing. That’s especially true during the Yuletide.

All that over-spending, all the over-eating, and all those over-decorated houses. That is why, last year at this time, I went back to several books I first read in childhood to look for Christmases just like the ones I used to know. Yes, I found tidings of comfort and joy. I also realized the importance of food in these stories and in our own Christmas memories.

One of the books, “Little Women,” is the classic about the four March sisters growing up in New England. As the story opens, it is a Christmas during the Civil War and the March family is living in straightened circumstances. But when the girls hear of a needy family in the neighborhood, they gladly give up their Christmas breakfast to feed the hungry children. Even self-centered Amy sacrifices her favorite things—“the cream and the muffins.”

Jo March laments that “Christmas won’t be Christmas without any presents.” And for most of us, Christmas wouldn’t be the same if we didn’t have some particular food in the house during the season.

For instance, one of my early food memories of Christmas is tangerines and walnuts. My paternal grandparents came to this country from Germany. On Christmas Eve, everyone would gather at their home. I remember my grandfather playing the mandolin and singing “Stille Nacht” and other German carols. My grandmother decorated the buffet in the dining room with evergreen boughs. Interspersed in the greens were tangerines and all varieties of nuts in the shell. Before we left, my grandmother would stuff our mittens with the fruit and nuts.

Another family that I spent many hours with as a child were the Ingalls in the “Little House” books. How I loved reading about the adventures of Laura, Mary, Carrie, Ma and Pa as they crossed the prairie. The author, Laura Ingalls Wilder, describes the delight of the children one Christmas morning. The girls have reached into their stockings to find shiny tin cups and each has a “long, long stick” of peppermint candy, striped red and white.

But their stockings weren’t empty yet. The girls pull out small packages and unwrap them to discover heart-shaped cakes. “Over their delicate brown tops was sprinkled white sugar. The sparkling grains lay like tiny drifts of snow.” It might be a simple Christmas on the frontier but the girls can’t imagine being any happier.

Across the pond in merrie old England, Charles Dickens included numerous descriptions of food in “A Christmas Carol.” You may not look forward to your weekly trips to the A & P but, trust me, your mouth will water reading Dickens’ descriptions of the produce in the London grocery shops at Christmas.

And who could forget the account of the Cratchit Christmas dinner? (“There never was such a goose.”) To complement this “feathered phenomenon,” Mrs. Cratchit “made the gravy (ready beforehand in a little saucepan) hissing hot, Master Peter mashed the potatoes with incredible vigor, Miss Belinda sweetened up the apple sauce …”

Bob Cratchit rolled up his threadbare sleeves and “compounded some hot mixture in a jug with gin and lemons, and stirred it round and round, and put it on the hob to simmer.” In 21st century parlance … I’ll have what they’re having.

Truman Capote’s “A Christmas Memory” is an autobiographical story set in rural Alabama in the 1930s. It opens on a November morning when the elderly cousin who is raising seven-year-old Buddy announces that “It’s fruitcake weather!” For Buddy this means the official start of the Christmas season.

They begin the yearly ritual of gathering pecans in an old buggy and scrimping together their meager funds to buy the ingredients to bake 30 fruitcakes. For days “eggbeaters whirl, spoons spin round in bowls of butter and sugar, vanilla sweetens the air, ginger spices it; melting, nose-tingling odors saturate the kitchen, suffuse the house, drift out to the world on puffs of chimney smoke.” When the work is done, the “cakes, dampened with whiskey, bask on window sills and shelves.”

In our family, too, the holiday season begins on a November day. A week or two before Thanksgiving, we receive a package of pecans from Louisiana. They are from the trees in my aunt’s yard and she sends them each year in time to bake our holiday desserts. My mother was born and raised in Louisiana and it wouldn’t be Christmas in our house without cornbread and pecan pies.

And so, gentle readers, whether your Christmas traditions include roasting chestnuts on an open fire or whipping up a batch of wassail, may God bless us, everyone.

Lyme-Old Lyme VFW Reminds Local Veterans, Vet Families In Need to Reach Out to Them for Help

LYME/OLD LYME--Lyme-Old Lyme (LOL) VFW Post 1467 reminds all local Veterans and Veteran families in need that they can reach out to the Post to request a great variety of types of assistance.

All that is required is the Veteran’s DDForm214 Record of Military Service and a call to Services Officer, Navy Retired Captain Larry Olsen at 607-220-7137. The Services Officer will then respond, assess the need, and assist as appropriate.

Since 2012, VFW Post 1457 has been provided over 170,000 services to 134 veterans and veterans’ families In need. These services have included home repairs, medical costs, clothing needs, funeral expenses, utility, insurance & mortgage payments, and used cars with many coming discounted from All-Pro Automotive. The Post has many partners, who support the LOL “No Bar, No Building; Just Good Works” Post 1467.

Last year, the State of Connecticut VFW honored LOL Post 1467 with the accolade of ‘Best VFW in the State of Connecticut.’

Death of Gail Barber Announced; Cherished her Old Lyme Roots, Graduate of OLHS in Class of 29 Students

OLD SAYBROOK—Gail M. Barber, 85, of Old Saybrook, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 11th, at Ocean Meadows Memory Care in Clinton. Born in New London to John J. Molloy and Teresa Hausmann Molloy, Gail cherished her roots in Old Lyme, where she graduated from high school in a class of just 29 students.

Gail spent most of her working life at R. R. Donnelley in Old Saybrook as a buyer, retiring in 2001 after 27 years … Following her grandchildren’s achievements brought her endless happiness.

Gail is survived by her loving husband, William Barber; sons Stephen Fuller (Rosemary) and John Fuller (Susan); daughter Kristen Commander (Robert); and her grandchildren, Ryan Fuller (Georgia), Kasey Commander (Tyler), and Matthew Fuller …

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Gail’s name to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Way, Memphis, TN 38105.

Visit this link to read the full obituary published by DignityMemorial.

State Rep. Carney Appointed House Ranking Member of New Government Oversight Committee

HARTFORD/LYME/OLD LYME – State Representative Devin Carney (R-23rd), whose Distrcit includes both Lyme and Old Lyme, was recently appointed Ranking Member of the General Assembly’s newly-created Government Oversight Committee by House Republican Leader State Representative Vincent Candelora (R-86th).

State Representative Devin Carney (R-23rd)

It is expected that the committee will focus on matters related to transparency in government, seek to eliminate waste and other inefficiencies, and highlight the monthly reports of state agencies released by the Connecticut State Auditors.

“I am looking forward to serving as the lead House Republican on the new Government Oversight Committee,” Rep. Carney said. “Serving on this committee will give me the opportunity to do a deep dive into government operations and finances.”

He continued, “It is essential that Connecticut’s government is efficient and doesn’t waste taxpayer dollars.  I want to thank House Minority Leader, Vin Candelora, for entrusting me with this important position and I am eager to get working for the residents of the 23rd District and the State of Connecticut.”

“Representative Devin Carney’s appointment as the House Ranking Member of this new committee underscores his dedication to good governance and accountability,” Candelora said, adding, “Devin has consistently demonstrated a commitment to transparency and ensuring taxpayer dollars are spent effectively. His experience and thoughtful leadership will be invaluable as this committee tackles the critical task of improving oversight and building trust in government operations for the people of Connecticut.”

A Ranking Member is the designated leader from the minority party on a committee. Each committee has a House and Senate ranking member. Individuals who serve in this role are responsible for bringing forward legislation and communicating to their caucuses details about bills voted out of committees.

Rep. Carney’s new assignment will take effect Wednesday, Jan. 8 at the start of the new legislative term.

Editor’s Note: This article is based on a press release issued Dec. 17, by State Rep. Carney’s Press Secretary.

Lyme-Old Lyme Schools Announce Q1 Honor Rolls

Lyme-Old Lyme High School
2024-25 Quarter 1 Honor Roll

HIGH HONORS

Grade 12
Micah Bass, Gavin Biega, Molly Boardman, Nathaniel Bradley, Mark Burnham, Chase Calderon, Dominic Clark, Andrew Clougherty, Tabitha Colwell, Gloria Conley, Chloe Datum, Andrea DeBernardo, Caeli Edmed, Anna Eichholz, Grace Ferman, Benedict Frazier, Salvatore Gencarella, Manu Geronimo, Christopher Gibbons, Janna Graves, Nicolas Hatch, Kaela Hoss, Rowan Hovey, Shyla Jones, Thomas Kabel, Simon Karpinski, Olivia Kelly, Ella Kiem, Skylar Kobelia, Peter Kuhn, Ada LaConti, Brenden Landry, Elise Leonardo, Andrew Liu, Lana Lopes, Colette Marchant, Nathan Morgan, Abigail O’Brien, Sophie Pennie, Ysabel Rodriguez, Ryan Shapiro, Drea Simler, Josephine Small, Andrew Sprankle, Charlotte Tinniswood, Nicholas Turtoro, Kathleen Walsh, Giovanni Winters, Wenyao Zhang, Gabriella Ziegler

Grade 11
Zoe Brunza, Trevor Buydos, Tyler Cann, Julia Clark, Maya Cook, Colman Curtiss-Reardon, Christopher Dagher, James Dahlke, Rose Dimmock, Chase Gilbert, Alexander Glaras, Anna Goldfarb, Benjamin Goulding, Elizaveta Gregoire, Anne-Marie Hinckley, Christopher Kachur, Thomas Kelly, Jayden Livesey, Emily Looney, Poveda, Lucas, Serena Mazzi, Carter McGlinchey, Rowen Meisner, Ryan Miller, Madeline Murphy, Sybil Neary, Ryan Olsen, Ryan Ortoleva, Jacob Prokopets, Lance Sanford, Sophia Shaposhnikova, Addison Spooner,  Sydney St. Pierre, Andrew Taylor, Meredith Thompson, Connor Vautrain, Stella Young, Carl Zapatka

Grade 10
Collin Anderson, Ceciley Buckley, Morgan Buerger, Brooke Burgess, William Burgess, Anna Bussmann, Lillian Calabrese, Isaac Chartier, Johanna Coker, Brady Donovan, Elliot Dunn-Sims, Edward Fiske, Lauren Fulara, Antonio Gencarella, Gavin Goulis, Harrison Goulis, Skylar Graybill, Tessa Grethel, Owen Holth, Josephine Kiem, Paul Kuhn, Callahan Lacourciere, Kaylee McCarthy, Autumn Newbury, Sean Olsen, Mia Palmer, Ainsley Rinoski, Cameron Russell, Owen Shapiro, Kevork Shegirian, Madeline Stiles, Milo Stiles, Carli Teixeira, Magdalena Tooker, Ethan Trepanier, Kaylyn Vernon, Caterina Wilson

Grade 9
Lillian Acosta, Lauren Belval, Scarlett Blatter, Vivian Boller, Noah Brant, Lana Brunza, Payton Burr, Trevor Camarra, Naomi Cameron, Gabrielle Clark, John Comstock, Nathaniel Condon, Colin Discordia, Jonah Filardi, Cortland Forbes, Avery Goiangos, Frederick Goss, Gavin Gray, Sawyer Graybill, Kinsley Grenier, Aiden Guidi, Maia Guisti, Colleen Harrington, Morgan Harris, Reese Holland, Sophia Huang, Henrik Hummervoll, Fiona Judge, Jillian Kleefeld, Kaedyn Koproski, Holden Leonardo, Alice Li, Graham Macadam, Menzi Mbele, David McAdams, Rowan McCormick, Charles McEwen, William McKeever, Clarissa Mock, Addyson Morosky, Grace Morrissette, Marielle Munster, Theodore Neary, Gwenevere Osborne, Mila Pacelli, Mattea Parnoff, Remi Patz, Caiden Pelletier, Nicholas Porto, Jonah Scheckwitz, Marguerite Sevigny, Audrey Sheehan, Avery Spooner, Hailey Suisman, Charlotte Thuma, Renee Viera, Avery Zbierski, Ella Ziolkovski

HONORS

Grade 12
Christopher Anderson, Oliver Avelange, Hannah Bonilla, Zoe Eastman-Grossel, Abigail Edwards, Davis Fallon, Samantha Fiske, Hoshena Gemme, Marcella Gencarella, Elias Goldberg, Abigail Griffith, Yucheng Hou, Hannah Johnston, Gage Kaulfuss, Bronwyn Kyle, Straub, Lahot, Evan LeQuire, Amahle Mdluli, Tirill Mundal, Kayla Navarro, Max Novak, Kanon Oharu, Kelly Sheehan, Nola Slubowski, Erika Teixeira, Ava Wood-Muller

Grade 11
Sienna Bari, Max Bartlett, Makayla Calderon, Caden Camarra, Annabelle Coppola, Michael DeFiore, Quinn Hadarik, Oliver Hatchel, Maya LeQuire, Yanza, Marin, Yanza, Marin, Samuel McKenzie, Finch Nichols, Quenten Patz, Marleigh Piacenza, Isabella Presti, Daniel Shaposhnikov, Luca Signora, Tanner Snurkowski, Charlotte Spiegel, Carson St Louis, Margaret Thuma, Madeleine Trepanier, John Turick, Elisabeth Viera, Gabriel Waldo, Oliver Wyman, Katherine Zhang

Grade 10
Zachary Belval, Mia Bonatti, Aidan Carpentino, Evan Coffee, Amirah D’Lizarraga, Samson Edmed, Angeline Gencarella, Curtiss Johnson, Elsa Jungkeit, Olivia Lovendale, Matilda Miller, John Morosky, Grace Osborne, Vincenzo Pietrowicz, Alexandria Sanford, Allegra Schaedler, Ivy Wilson, Brody Ziolkovski

Grade 9
Ashlynn Edwards, Katharine Ferman, Ryan Hill, Mason Jones, Henry Kyle, Treyton LaConti, Sadie Lukasiewski, Benjamin Mattox, Liam McCormick, Caitlyn McHugh, Logan Patana, Chloe Ryan, Niamh Slubowski, Delilah Tooker, Ashlynn Ward, Charles Zapatka

Lyme-Old Lyme Middle School
2024-25 Quarter 1 Honor Roll

HIGH HONORS

Grade 8
Anna Block, Emily Bonatti, Cassidy Buckley, Ewan Cabell, Emily Campbell, Finnegan Choisnet, Reagan Christopher, Eliana Cicchiello, Emerson Coker, Benjamin Conrad, Miles Coppola, Nadia Daily, Maya Desai, Parker Fedorich, Jackson Fiske, Parker Forbes, Samantha Fulara, Ava Fuller, Victoria Glaras, Cole Haslam, Charles Holth, Quinn Hoss, Griffin Karpinski, Collin Langley, Zoey Langley, Ellison Lodge, Isabel Martel, Harland McKenna, Maxwell Mooney, Oliver Newbury, Sofia Noti, Kanato Oharu, Jack Ouellette, Jack Parker, Nikolas Reid, Benson Reis, Tristan Reyes, Lillian Reynolds, Beatrix Rubino, Addison Sapia, Adrianna Squarciafico, Mia Stokes, Natalie Suisman, Cooper Thomas, Olive Vautrain, Benson Wang, Reagan Weinstein, Anna William, Samuel Zelek, Lily Zerkowski

Grade 7
Annalisa Archbald, Miella Bard, Sawyer Barreto, Cole Barris, Jackson Basham, Zakary Benedetto, Conor Buckeridge, Thomas Calabrese, Rowan Cantner, Mason Catalano, Jackson Chapps, Ainsley Conroy, Oliver Constantine, Brennon Coyle, Roger Crampton, Sophia Crampton, Daniel Crisp, Ella Davis, Amy Diaz, Daphne Eisensmith, Kate Ewers, Camryn Fedorich, Estelle Filardi, Maureen Geronimo, Jaxson Glantz, Beckett Goss, Delana Green-Oldfield, Ekaterina Gregoire, Willow Griffis, Julia Haslam, Sean Hunter, August Jungkeit, Devon Kiem, Rowan Kilfoil, Alina Kosecki, Eva Levonick, Jamie Maloney, Mary McAdams, Ariana McEwen, Finn McLaughlin, Henry Miller, Tristan Montanaro, Ryann Montesanto, Broderick Morris, Isla Morrissette, Maya Munster, Maura Murphy, Avery Olson, Juul Parrott, Quin Parrott, Quinn Quarto, Caliana Rand, Emily Randak, Charlotte Reynolds, Olivia Rozanski-Rose, Linden Sarnoski, Ari Shegirian, Maya Smith, Molly Supersano, Weston Taylor, Jack Walter, Liam Ward, John Young, Kingsley Zheng

Grade 6
Mylo Awwa, Ella Boudo, Cecelia Bradley, Brody Burr, Ryan Campbell, Liang Chang, Aiden Coffee, Maizie Curtiss-Reardon, Croix Demars, Lucia D’Onofrio, Catherine Fisher, Maxwell Garvin, Natalie Gibbons, Gabriella Gonzalez, Gerald Holland, John Hornyak, Emma Hoxha, Callie Kelo, Aiden Lapinski, Parker Lee, Siena Maguire, Linnea McLachlan, Emma Morales, Gabriella Norris, Nico Orlando, Alexander Reid, Jack Reiter, Connor Rice, Taylor Rooney, Magnolia Sahl, Reid Sapia, Kate Scheckwitz, Colton Schroder, Madison Seckla, Piper Spiegel, Audrey Thuma, Carina Vakili, Henry Whalen

HONORS

Grade 8
Josie Arndt, Trent Cameron, Samuel Dunn-Sims, Joshua Evans, Colin Farrell, Jared Fulara, Olivia Gerardo, Cayden Graybill, Olivia Griffith, Curran Livesey, Grant Maxwell, Thomas O’Connor, Giovanni Orlando, Juliette Small

Grade 7
Haneen Al-Rahyyl, Braydon Boisseau, Liam Carpentino, Hunter Emma, Aibhlinn Hall, Lauren Kelly, Jameson McKeever, Camden Novak, Roman Schlachter, Jackson Staab, Lucius Stebbins-Wallen, Kolbein Vigen

Grade 6
Finn Cabell, Luz Cajamarca, Finn Celic, Niall Hallahan, Roosevelt Lowry, Leif Sullivan, Charlotte Zeng