Death Announced of Lillian I Spais of Old Lyme, Mother of Rebecca Pote of OL

OLD LYME—Lillian I. Spais died on September 20, 2024, at the age of ninety-two. A daughter of Canada’s western plains, Lillian grew up learning the hard lessons of the Depression. Among those lessons were the values of family, self-reliance, adaptability, and community. Throughout all the many challenges in her life, these were the basics that sustained her. 

Having trained and worked as a registered nurse throughout Saskatchewan and in Toronto, including service as a Second Lieutenant Nursing Sister in the Royal Canadian Army Medical Corps, Lillian became the staff nurse at the British American Oil Company in Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan. She left that post to emigrate to the States with her beloved husband, Thanase. They ultimately settled in Pennington, New Jersey, where Lillian stayed at home to raise their family. There, she served as president of the local library board and the Pennington Woman’s Club. She also volunteered with the Fresh Air Fund and HomeFront. 

After Thanase’s death in 1980, Lillian returned to the workforce to support her family. She earned an Associate Degree with honors from Mercer County Community College, and later served on an advisory committee for the college. She worked as Tax Collector and Assistant Municipal Clerk for Pennington Borough, and finally retired as an administrative assistant with Princeton University’s Department of Economics. 

Following her retirement, she relocated to Old Lyme, Connecticut, to be near family. There she volunteered at the Nearly New Shop, served on the board of the Old Lyme Visiting Nurse Association, kept busy with her circle of friends and activities at the Lymes’ Senior Center, spent many hours at the library, and savored dinners on the beach. 

A skilled seamstress, self-taught painter, enthusiastic gardener, avid camper, and powerful swimmer, Lillian could do almost anything. Almost. She couldn’t resist chocolate, tolerate injustice, pass up a Scrabble game, prevaricate, or type sixty words a minute. Despite these shortcomings, she was an exceptional mom, GMa, mentor and friend. 

Lillian always maintained that her life’s greatest gift was her family, and she loved them all fiercely. Her children, Rebecca (also of Old Lyme), David, George, and Chrysanthe are so grateful for her journey with them even as they mourn her loss. Her grandchildren, Emily, Chelsea, and Lex, her great grandson, Leo, and her extended family, Briella and Avianna, brought her such joy as they grew. She wholeheartedly embraced the spouses and partners of her brood: John, Dee, Cheryl, Dave, Marcelo, and Jesus. Even the collective fur babies were dear to her. She was never happier than when the whole rambunctious crew was gathered together. 

Donations in her memory may be made to Phoebe Griffin Noyes Library of Old Lyme, Connecticut, or to HomeFront in Lawrenceville, New Jersey. Interment will be private.

Letter to the Editor: This Country ‘Will Never Be a Garbage Can’

To the Editor:

I do not live in a garbage can!

Yesterday, I almost reconsidered when my second Harris/Walz sign was stolen.

But where I live bears no resemblance to a “garbage can.” In my lifetime, I have driven cross-country at least a dozen times. Our country is not a garbage can. Yes, there are some terrible neighborhoods. In my experience, many of the ugly spots are owned by very rich people who live in the safety of the suburbs. They rent to very poor people at inflated prices. The owners seldom maintain their rental properties, angering neighbors and festering the idea that their renters (aka poor people) are lazy, menacing slobs. Rat-infested streets breed depression and violence and they may be the “garbage cans” Mr. Trump speaks of. He seems to want to scare people into thinking we have—what he termed, as President—a “s***hole country.” 

I am sorry. Our country is beautiful. It is upsetting that a person who wants to lead us thinks that our country is a garbage can. He believes immigrants are ruining it. (My immigrants arrived in 1630). Yesterday, I learned that his pal, Elon Musk, was an illegal immigrant when he came here, and he worked illegally taking away jobs from Americans. I also learned that Mr. Musk lied to obtain citizenship. Mr. Trump hasn’t said a word about this, nor has he indicated Mr. Musk will be deported like all the other migrants he calls “animals.”

No local members of his party ever speak up. They didn’t after the insurrection. They never seem to separate themselves from his lies or false claims so I guess they agree with him. In my opinion, we never would have become a country, nor could we survive today without immigrants. And we will never be a garbage can.

Sincerely,

Charlotte Scot,
Old Lyme.

Death Announced of Natalie Garland of Needham, Mass., Mother of Peter Garland of Old Lyme

Natalie (Smith) Garland of North Hill, Needham, Mass. passed away October 21, 2024. Age 93. Formerly of Wellesley …

Devoted mother of Edward R. “Ted” Garland of Natick and fiancée Elizabeth McElroy; Peter T. Garland and wife Melissa of Old Lyme, CT; and Dwight W. Garland and wife Suzanne of Wellesley. Grandmother to Matthew, Katherine, Sally, Shannon, Roger, Madison, Christopher, Michael, and Peter. Great-grandmother to Jamie, Cooper and Benjamin … Predeceased by husband, David …

Natalie was a retired elementary school and special needs teacher in Wellesley for over 20 years …

Memorial Service at the Wellesley Hills Congregational Church, 207 Washington St. (RT. 16), Wellesley, on Friday, November 8, at 2:00 PM. Relatives and friends kindly invited. Expressions of sympathy may be made to Save the Children Fund …

Visit this link to read the full obituary published by ‘The Boston Globe’ from Oct. 26 to Oct. 27, 2024.

Jeff Duigou (R): Candidate for CT State Senate District #33

Jeff Duigou was born in Waterbury CT, raised in public schools in East Hartford and was always a strong student being named to the National Honor Society in high school. Jeff graduated from UConn in Storrs with a Bachelor’s degree in Biology/Marine Science and later attended graduate school studying in the field of Environmental Biotechnology.  Jeff has been married for 40 years to his wife Cari. Jeff’s volunteering has encompassed being a Scoutmaster for the Boy Scouts of America as well as coaching youth sports. Jeff is a conservationist and enjoys the outdoors with his family and friends.

What is the most serious problem currently facing the state of Connecticut? What proposal(s) would you make to alleviate the problem?   

Currently, the most serious problem affecting working and middle class families and seniors on fixed incomes in the 33rd District and state-wide are the excessive electric bills that the residents are currently being burdened with.  My opponent Norm Needleman, Chairman of the Energy and Technology Committee does not have a clear solution to remedy the excessive Public Benefit taxation on your electric bill. He voted against using ARPA monies to pay down the 4-Year cumulative debt caused by the Electric Shutoff Mandate by Governor Lamont during the Covid pandemic.  CT was one of only two states in the entire country to have a 4 yr. moratorium on the shut off for non-payment of electric bills.  Norm Needleman voted against a Special Session to address this issue.  When elected, I will work with the State Senate Republican Caucus and colleagues across the aisle to develop a bipartisan approach to solving this issue which may include using left over ARPA funds to pay down the electric bill debt caused by the shutoff notice mandate and negotiating a phased in approach to use some rainy day funds and left over debt to be placed into the state biennial budget.  This approach will not completely remove fees associated with hidden taxes due to the mandates associated with the CT Green New Deal that will remain on your electric bill as a “Public Benefit”.  As responsible legislators, we need to readdress the fiscal sustainability of renewable energy and a more responsible approach to phase these projects into our State Energy portfolio without creating excessive financial burdens on the taxpayers/ratepayers of Connecticut. 

Book-banning’ has been a significant issue in the community—where do you stand on the matter? 

In my humble opinion, I don’t believe in “Book-banning” but do want to see the placement of books in the appropriate section of a public school or community library.  We have FCC rules associated with rating publicly viewed videos/movies on television or in theaters for example, why aren’t we using similar ratings to protect our children from inappropriate literature in public schools and community libraries?  Something for us as a society to debate and address.

Why are you running for this position? 

For 30 years, I spent my professional career serving the communities in which I have lived and worked.  I enjoy seeing the completion of policies and projects that come to completion for the benefit of our communities.  I take the fiduciary responsibilities of completing taxpayer funded policies and projects very seriously.  I have learned “one size does not fill all” when developing and enforcing regulatory processes or scope of work to complete legislative approaches to the betterment of our society.  CT residents need more of a balance in the State General Assembly to drive bipartisan debate and policies that will benefit all of us.  For decades the Democrats have had majority control of the State House and Senate.  This stagnates good policies that come forth from the minority party often overcome by special interests which harm taxpayers and affordability in CT.  I am a 30-year veteran consulting in the field of Energy (oil, natural gas, nuclear), worked for many of the 169 towns in CT on municipal projects, cleaned up Brownfield sites in Bridgeport, Hartford, New Britain, New Haven, Stamford and surrounding communities to build public schools, successfully improved campus infrastructure at UCONN, was involved in affordable public housing projects, and safety services for over 12 school districts in CT since 2003.  I have provided leadership in these accomplishments resulting in countless good paying jobs for construction workers, retail workers, commercial and financial institutions, K-12 schoolteachers, administrators, and maintenance/cafeteria workers, and major energy development and utility companies including AES Corporation, National Grid, Eversource, United Illuminating and Dominion Energy.  I have always been a “fixer” taking on challenges placed before me to make life in the communities I served better for the common good.  I will bring this leadership to Hartford to make life in the 33rd Senate District and Connecticut affordable for everyone by lowering our energy and electric bills.  I will fight to improve affordability for individuals and families.  It’s no longer about Right vs Left, it’s about Right and Wrong.  I am the right candidate for State Senator of the 33rd District and to serve Connecticut.

Devin Carney (R): Candidate (Incumbent) for CT House District #23

Devin Carney has served as State Representative for the 23rd District since 2015. He currently serves in leadership in the House Republican caucus as Policy Co-Chair. He also serves on the Finance, Revenue and Bonding Committee, Transportation Committee, and Education Committee. He formed the bipartisan “Future Caucus” and was awarded the national “Rising Star” award for these efforts. He recently received the “Town Crier” award from the CT Council of Small Towns for his advocacy. He works in finance and serves as Treasurer of the National Caucus of Environmental Legislators and on the board of The Kate.

What is the most serious problem currently facing the state of Connecticut? What  proposal(s) would you make to alleviate the problem? 

The most serious problem facing Connecticut is affordability. Connecticut continues to  rank poorly when it comes to this, and we need more legislators who will make it a priority.  

This past term, I was able to pass legislation that would reduce income taxes on pensions  and IRAs for many Connecticut residents. As in the past, I have proposed various tax cuts  and also fought new tax hikes. 

I supported the largest tax cut in Connecticut’s history while preserving our fiscal  guardrails. These fiscal guardrails have limited increases in taxing and spending and also  allowed us to build up a healthy rainy-day fund while also paying down about $8B in long term debt. This was a huge success borne of bipartisanship back in 2017 when the state  was facing a fiscal crisis. If the guardrails were to be drastically scaled back, we would lose  a lot of the progress made – particularly with the paydown of debt. We still have roughly  $80B of debt, much of it is unfunded pension debt. We owe it to our current and future  taxpayers to continue on this path. 

I have always fought against new mandates on our municipalities that would lead to higher  property taxes and a reduced quality of life. There have been efforts to force educational  and zoning mandates onto our communities, which would require additional costs, thus  adding to our property tax burden. There have also been efforts to create a statewide  property tax and make the car tax a statewide tax (the proposed formula would have raised  ours), which I successfully defeated. 

Many constituents were shocked by the cost of their electric bills and reducing utility costs  must be a strong focus of next year’s session. I would reduce the public benefits portion of  electric bills by moving some of the mandated costs to the state budget. Eversource and  PURA must be held accountable to ratepayers. I would bring them back to the table to  figure out the most cost-effective way to handle power purchase agreements, delivery  charges, and energy diversification. We can move towards a cleaner future while also  balancing cost. 

‘Book-banning’ has been a significant issue in the community—where do you stand  on the matter? 

I do not support banning books. I actually think a healthy dialogue about different perspectives, backgrounds, and experiences needs to happen more in public education at  age-appropriate levels. As far as I know, there have been no successful book challenges in  Connecticut. Unfortunately, this issue has become increasingly political, and I anticipate  my opponent will focus on legislation I voted against in the Education Committee that would have required Boards of Education to create new state mandated subcommittees  and processes that were not asked for by any of the school districts in the 23rd.  

When commenting on the bill in question, the Connecticut Association of Boards of  Education and Lon Seidman, the Democrat Chair of the Essex Board of Education, stated that boards already have policies and procedures in place to deal with book challenges and employ librarians who have the appropriate training to oversee things. Lyme-Old Lyme Schools use CABE policy services, so I would expect they would have similar guidelines. I  have discussed this very issue with our superintendent and there appeared to be no concern about current practices and no books have been banned. 

I firmly believe this should be left to the experts and not to Board of Education members  (who are also volunteers) who want nothing less than to be thrown into a controversy over a book. Parents also deserve a say in what their own kids read/don’t read. There is a reason the legislation did not move past committee, did not have the strong support of majority  caucus leaders, and was also opposed by Democrat Representative and public-school teacher Chris Poulos. It is incredibly disingenuous to equate it with book-banning, which my opponent has tried to do. Let’s just let kids read and let our school boards continue to focus on our fantastic educational system. 

Why are you running for this position? 

I am running for re-election to continue to provide effective, independent, and competent leadership for our district.  

Connecticut is entering another year of fiscal uncertainty as ARPA funds have dried up and there will be attempts to drastically undo our guardrails. We need legislators who understand the budget process and have the institutional knowledge to successfully promote fiscally sound policies.  

I want to put an extra emphasis on energy policy next year and work to get us on a better  path forward that works for ratepayers first. I plan on joining the Energy & Technology Committee to be able to most effectively articulate change.  

I want to continue focusing on reducing costs for seniors, families, and small businesses  and to continue supporting our small towns and local public education. There have been many attempts to supersede local control by requiring top-down state mandates and we  need legislators fighting for our unique communities and their values. 

We deserve legislators who are willing to work on a bipartisan basis and to focus on doing  what’s right for their districts. Many candidates, including my opponent, pledged to not join  a ‘moderate caucus’ and to disavow the Connecticut Business and Industry Association in  their quest for the Working Families Party endorsement. I would never sign a pledge like  that because it puts you in a narrow political box. Instead, I received the Independent Party cross-endorsement for my independent views and approach to legislating. I have never  blindly supported legislation because the title sounds good or some special interest group  supports it, but rather read every detail of every bill, do my homework, and do what I believe constituents would want. That’s the type of service and representation people  expect. 

I take this job incredibly serious and, unlike many in politics, I focus on ideas, not political  party or personality. I have always done that and those who know me know that. I am proud of the work I have done, and it has truly been the honor of a lifetime serving the  23rd District. I am asking for voters to, once again, support me.