At a Region 18 Board of Education meeting on October 4, an Old Lyme resident presented a public comment, asking all Democratic BOE members to step down (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zSCLbbfvcM) – [it is about 10 mins in]. His reasoning is that those members support internet pornography for children. This is based on the fact that those members signed a petition against book banning in our community. The speaker made a puzzling, vague connection between the books in question and internet pornography for children. He accused them directly and bizarrely of supporting internet pornography for children.
This resident is free to exercise his First Amendment rights, but he should not be surprised when his remarks fall on deaf ears. These Democrat members of the BOE were elected. Voting, despite efforts to suppress it, still means something. They will not be removed or step down for presumably offending his sensibilities and sensitivities.
If there was any leadership in the room at the time, this might have been pointed out. But there was none.
Not unrelated, his “parental rights” do not supersede mine. And I want my children and grandchildren to have access to all books. I want them to have the freedom to read and learn.
Sincerely,
Betsy Groth, Old Lyme. Editor’s Notes: (i) The author is a Pediatric Nurse Practitioner and Board Certified Pediatric Mental Health Specialist.
(ii) The full text of the comment made by Old Lyme resident Emerson Coldwell at the Oct. 4 BOE meeting is now published in this Letter to the Editor from Mr. Colwell.
The American Library Association (ALA) has proclaimed “Let Freedom Read!” as the theme for this this year’s “Banned Books Week,” which just ended this past Friday (Oct. 7.) This “View” is written to acknowledge the rationale for such a week, and reflect on why it is especially pertinent in 2023 Old Lyme.
Stepping back, I said at the end of “Surfing with Gen. Alpha,” which I characterized as “something light,” that “I anticipate that my next “View” will be about children’s books.” I will present that in Part 2 of this essay, but with emphasis on challenges to children’s books, after some news from the ALA, who released its preliminary data on banned and challenged books for 2023 in mid-September.
The data show a “record surge” in challenges to books in public libraries. The ALA identified 695 attempts to censor library materials and services and documented challenges to 1,915 unique titles” for the period from January through August, 2023 — a 20 percent increase from the same period in 2022.
Particularly upsetting is that public libraries now account for one-half of total challenge requests. “The vast majority of challenges were for books written by or about a person of color or a member of the LGBTQIA+ community. Unfortunately, and as inferred above, the events that began last May in Old Lyme clearly put our community in their data set.
Icontinue my consideration of censorship here, which began last August with “A View From My Porch: Some Funny Things Happened on the Way to the Celebration.” Accordingly, this “View” is “weightier” than surfing (less buoyant?); but before I get into that, please remember that we have a municipal election on Tuesday, November 7th. If you are not already registered, you can pick up the forms at the Library.
Recent Events in Old Lyme — Just a ‘kerfuffle’?
On July 28th, The Day called it a “kerfuffle”, but I do not think that the word adequately describes the anger and anxiety generated by two letters that questioned the suitability of two titles available in our library’s “Teens & Tweens” section. (Editor’s Note: This is a link to the second letter — we did not receive a copy of the first letter.) They demanded the removal of “Let’s Talk About It: The Teen’s Guide to Sex, Relationships and Being a Human,”, by Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan and; “You Know, Sex: Bodies, Gender, Puberty and Other Things,” by Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth from that section; and in addition; “a proper review of the materials in the Teens &Tweens room “in hopes that no other content like this is available in that space”.
Coincidentally, the letters were received by the Library Director, and the Board of Trustees just as Old Lyme was preparing to celebrate the 125th anniversary of the founding of the Phoebe Griffin Noyes Library, scheduled for June 23rd.
Note that although the Library has an established process for questioning materials in its collection, i.e., a “Request for Reconsideration;” that process would not have generated the coverage in the print and broadcast media, or produced the angst that occurred here.
I did not see this happening in Old Lyme, but we all would eventually learn that, “The calls for removal are part of a national storm that has gained strength through the South and Midwest;” which is not very comforting. Is modern Old Lyme becoming Florida and Texas?
Nonetheless, the “Rock the Phoebe” celebration went on as planned; and a few days afterwards, more than 400 Old Lyme and Lyme residents responded formally to the book challenges in a letter overwhelmingly in opposition to the proposed actions (above). Note: see the “View” I cited above for a more thorough survey of the local situation and an appraisal of whether Old Lyme’s experience was unique in the broader context of attempts at censorship occurring statewide.
Lest we ever forget, I lay out the Connecticut media coverage below in an annotated timeline detailing the key events that occurred after receipt of the two letters.
With apologies to Mr. Fred Rogers, It was not, “A beautiful day in this neighborhood.”
Media coverage; a play-by-play:
On March 31st, the CT Examiner published a Letter to the Editor from the chairman of the Old Lyme Republican Town Committee (RTC) that troubled me. The letter was an aggressive response to a March 26th sermon by the Rev. Dr. Steven R. Jungkeit, senior minister of the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme, that included some of the Rev. Jungkeit’s concerns with an RTC mailer that went out to residents with a list of priorities that included a “pledge” to exercise greater “parental rights” over the shaping of school curricula and the holdings of school and public libraries. The Rev. Jungkeit is well-known as a strong advocate for social justice and has publicly stated his concerns regarding guns, book bans, and systemic racism.
The RTC chairman said that the sermon contained “petty, ill-informed, and disingenuous accusations.” To me, the language in the RTC chairman’s letter appeared insulting and almost threatening. Note that I am not a member of the Rev. Jungkeit’s congregation, although I respect his opinions and feel that it is not inappropriate for him to voice them from the pulpit or in written opinion (below).
The Old Lyme Democratic Town Committee held a “Freedom to Read” rally on Friday, April 28th.
On June 14th, The Day published the results of the latest report compiled by the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC), a non-profit legal advocacy organization that monitors extremist organizations in the United States. They identified 11 hate and anti-government extremist groups operating in Connecticut. Amongst them are two chapters of “Moms for Liberty,” who first emerged in Florida in 2021 to campaign against COVID19 public health measures like masks and vaccines.
However, they are well-known for their extremist agenda, which includes banning books that address gender, sexuality, and racial issues from schools and public libraries; and promoting policies that target trans youths; and opposing school curricula that mention LGBT rights or race and ethnicity. Their website states that the organization is dedicated to, “Unifying, educating and empowering parents to defend their parental rights at all levels of government.”
Rachel Carroll Rivas, deputy director for research, reporting, and analysis at the SPLC said, “They really are seeking to undermine public education and to divide communities.” They are now widespread and influential within the Republican party.
GOP presidential candidates who appeared this past July at the organization’s national summit in Philadelphia include Ron DeSantis, Nikki Haley, Asa Hutchinson, Vivek Ramaswamy, and Donald Trump.
On June 27th, the Hartford Courant reported that Steve Spooner, a member of the RTC, “Identifies himself in the second letter as the “lead organizer of the effort to remove the books from the Teens &Tweens shelves.”
On June 28th, the Hartford Courant published commentary by Rev. Jungkeit titled, “The banning of books – all books – is wrong;” in which he states, “The decision about what books are appropriate for any young person is one that needs to be made by that young person in conversation with his/her parents. It is not a decision that should rest with a self-appointed group of citizens seeking to act in loco parentis for all the young people in Old Lyme.”
And further, “The efforts undertaken by those seeking to ban these books can and should be understood as a form of bullying. Such efforts are mean spirited, cruel, regressive and hurtful to a population that is already forced to live precariously; and especially to those who identify as trans in the Lyme and Old Lyme region.
The Day editorial board stated, “It’s disappointing at best, that so many jumped on this unwarranted and dangerous book banning bandwagon. While these books may not be appropriate for every young tween, they are absolutely appropriate for many tweens and teens struggling with all the age-old issues of adolescence.”
They went ever further and said that, “While the letters contend the request to remove these books from the teen-tween section of the library does not constitute book banning, it is obvious that is exactly what is being advocated here.”
On July 28th, The Day reported that an Old Lyme resident described one of the books in question as “pornography marketed to children” at a meeting of the Lyme Library Board of Trustees The book was not in the Lyme Public Library’s collection, although there were requests for the book from residents.
Frankly, if you “do the math” above, you must ask yourself whether they’re using the ‘Moms for Liberty’ playbook?”
In Part 2, I will review some of the challenges and bans directed at several popular titles and authors of children’s and tween’s literature, many of which are now, or once were on the bookshelves in our home. It’s time for a little healthy nostalgia.
Author’s Notes — Part 1: Over the past few months, I have read more about public libraries than I have read in public libraries, and I continue to support a parent’s right to oversee their ‘teen’s & tween’s’ book selections, but feel strongly that they do not have the right to make those decisions for other parents. Clearly, fighting against censorship is vital to preserving our First Amendment right to access information and to decide for ourselves what books we want our kids to read. Libraries should not curate their selections based on popularity of ideas but on the principle of allowing people access to a wide spectrum of ideas. Finally, my advice, based on personal experience remains that parents should talk with their children and endeavor to create an environment in which they are comfortable approaching you for advice or feedback on any number ofissues.
Editor’s Note: This is the opinion of Thomas D. Gotowka.
About the Author: Tom Gotowka is a resident of Old Lyme, whose entire adult career has been in healthcare. He will sit on the Navy side at the Army/Navy football game. He always sit on the crimson side at any Harvard/Yale contest. He enjoys reading historic speeches and considers himself a scholar of the period from FDR through JFK. A child of AM Radio, he probably knows the lyrics of every rock and roll or folk song published since 1960. He hopes these experiences give readers a sense of what he believes “qualify” him to write this column.
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Old Lyme First Selectman Timothy Griswold gives Jeri Baker, Chair of the Lymes’ Senior Center Building Committee, a congratulatory handshake after the successful referendum result to fund the Lymes’ Senior Center expansion and renovation was announced in June 2023. File photo.
HARTFORD, CT / LYME / OLD LYME — UPDATED 11:10am with State Rep. Carney’s comments: On Sept. 29, Connecticut Gov. Ned Lamont announced the latest round of Small Town Economic Assistance Program (STEAP) grants, which included separate $500,000 grants to the Towns of Lyme and Old Lyme respectively towards the expansion and renovation of the Lymes’ Senior Center. The Center is a shared facility jointly funded by both towns.
Asked by LymeLine how she felt about the award, Jeri Baker of Old Lyme, who serves as Chairman of the Lymes’ Senior Center Building Committee, responded via email saying, “”It is gratifying that the state recognizes and supports what we have known all along … our Senior Center is a gem. What the Center provides in services and friendship is important to both towns and to the surrounding region as well.”
She continued, “I am extremely proud to be a member of the Center, of this community and of a very dedicated building committee that has worked tirelessly for the last four years to come this far.”
Asked the same question by LymeLine, Old Lyme First Selectman Timothy Griswold (R) replied via text saying, “The award of two STEAP grants in the amount of $500,00 to the Towns of Lyme and Old Lyme is cause for celebration. Congratulations to Senior Center Building Committee Chair, Jeri Baker, for the super job she did in assembling the required data from both towns.”
He added, “[Lyme] First Selectman David Lahm (R) and I thank Governor Lamont, [State] Senators Marx (D) and Needleman (D) and [State] Representative Carney (R) for their assistance, and for the staff at the Office of Policy and Management for their help and guidance.”
Griswold noted, “These grants will certainly ease the financial burden of the project on the taxpayers of our towns. The approvals remind us that the State of CT approved two $500,000 STEAP grants for our towns several years ago when we built the Town Woods Park facility.”
Finally, he stated emphatically, “We are very pleased that the State has such a high level of confidence in our Senior Center Expansion project and we aim to make them proud of our finished product.”
Gov. Lamont announced a total of $24.5 million to 60 small towns throughout the state with the amounts for each town ranging from around $52,000 to $500,000.
He said, in the press release announcing the grants, “Our small towns are an integral part of what makes Connecticut such a special place to live and work,” remarking, “By working with them on these grants, the state can help get these vital projects completed so these towns can continue to grow, thrive, and attract businesses, while improving the quality of life for our residents.”
State Rep. Devin Carney (R), whose 23rd District includes both Lyme and Old Lyme, commented on the awards in an e-newsletter, saying, “The Lymes’ Senior Center provides so much to Lyme and Old Lyme seniors including activities, healthcare programs, lunches, and many social offerings.”
He continued, “I am thrilled that the state will be providing $1M to help subsidize some of the costs involved in renovating this community center. It will go a long way in expanding the senior center’s ability to improve the quality of life for so many.”
Commenting on the $2.444 million awarded to small towns in the 33rd Senate District that he represents, which includes the Town of Lyme, State Senator Norm Needleman (D) said in a press release, “”It’s excellent news that our communities will receive this valuable support from the state, and I’m grateful to Governor Lamont for his support and foresight in aiding our region.”
He concluded, “These projects will help … provide improvements to important town resources. I’m encouraged by these positive developments.”
My name is Susan Fogliano, and I am a candidate for the Regional School District #18 Board of Education in the November 7 municipal election. As a resident of Old Lyme for nearly 32 years, I was proud to serve as a member of our Board of Education for 16 years between 1995 and 2011, and as Chair of the Board during my tenure. As Board Chairperson, I oversaw completion of a long-term renovation project of all five school buildings, culminating in the passage of the Lyme-Old Lyme High School project.
I have been a lifelong advocate for public education in all its forms. I served for ten years on the Regional Board of Education, as well as on private boards and foundations, and have engaged in Board member professional development.
I have been a full time classroom teacher and substitute teacher as well, and have worked in Madison, Lyme-Old Lyme, East Lyme, and Old Saybrook.
Why am I running again? Since retiring, I find that I miss public service. I am troubled by the introduction of national culture wars and partisan politics into our local governance. I believe I can elevate the Board discourse to keep the focus on students, staff, parents, and taxpayers in our community.
Why does it matter now? Experience has taught me that political and personal agendas have no place at the Board of Education table. There are suggestions by some opposing candidates that our school libraries should be “surveyed”, and that the District’s curriculum should be “edited”. Our school district is and has been among the most highly ranked systems in both the State and the nation. We do not need to direct resources to unnecessary fixes.
What do I hope to accomplish? Using my energy and experience, I will work in a non-partisan fashion to maintain our excellent school district, using a common sense approach to make the best use of taxpayer dollars.
The Old Lyme Democrats have assembled an amazing slate of qualified candidates dedicated to our community, and I am proud to be among them. I respectfully ask for your vote.
File photo of the former Lyme First Selectman Ralph Eno, who passed away Sept. 29, 2023, with then Lyme First Selectdog Rosie.
LYME, CT / WINTHROP, ME — UPDATED 10/4 WITH TRIBUTE FROM TOWN OF LYME: The death has been announced of Ralph F. Eno Jr. He was born on July 25th, 1944 and passed away Sept. 29, 2023 at the age of 79.
He retired as First Selectman of Lyme in July 2017 after leading the town for two decades from 1991 through 2017, separated by a five-year period between 2001 and 2006
With great sadness, the Town of Lyme shares the news with residents today that Ralph Eno, who served as our Town’s First Selectman from 1991 to 2001, and again from 2006 to 2017, passed away on September 29 at his home in Maine.
[Lyme] First Selectman David Lahm said, “Ralph was an incredibly talented and longtime-serving steward of our town, and our hearts go out to his friends and family.”
Among his many accomplishments during his tenures as First Selectman, Eno played an integral role in the renovation of Town Hall, the building of a new public library and the conversion of the Town’s landfill into a transfer station – which was later named in his honor when he retired in 2017. He was also known as a champion of open space.
In accordance with his wishes, there will be no service or formal obituary. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his memory to the Maranacook Food Bank via the Maranacook Education Foundation website at: https://mef.maranacook.org