Death Announced of Lifelong Democrat David Woolley, He “Devoted Himself to Performing Public Service”

David B. Woolley. File photo.

OLD LYME — It is with deep sadness that we report the death of David B. Woolley on Jan. 30, 2021.

After service in the Navy and a long, exemplary career in banking, he became a permanent resident of Old Lyme in 1989 when he moved into what had been his summer home at Old Lyme Shores.

To quote from his obituary, “During his entire adult life, David devoted himself to performing public service,” which included serving continuously as a member of the Old Lyme Board of Finance from 1995 through 2019. During that time, he was designated as a board of finance specialist to the Old Lyme Volunteer Fire Department.

His obituary states, “Mr. Woolley was a lifelong, dedicated member of the Democratic Party. He became a member of the Old Lyme Democratic Town Committee in 1994, was elected chairman in 2002, then served in that capacity continuously until 2018. He remained an extremely active member of the committee until the present time.”

It continues, “During that time, he oversaw a substantial increase in the Democratic party registration in the Town of Old Lyme, and the successful election of important town offices from the Democratic Party during this period,” adding, “He ran numerous fundraisers for the Party, including the beloved “Lobster Fest”. ”

The obituary notes, “David’s primary interest in life involved dedication of time and activities with his family and friends, and his many hours spent performing public service. He greatly enjoyed his political activities as a highly respected and loved member and chairman of the local Democratic Political Party.” He also served as President of the Old Lyme Shores Beach Association for many years.

Asked her reaction to hearing of Mr. Woolley’s passing, former Old Lyme Selectwoman Bonnie Reemsnyder said, “It is sad news about Dave. He was a true gentleman, cared deeply about Old Lyme, the beach communities and his fellow Democrats.”

She continued, “And he was always an advocate for me and other democrats who ran for office. In 2003 and 2005, we ran together for Selectman and First Selectman and he was so loyal, hardworking and determined. He will be greatly missed by many in Old Lyme.”

She concluded, “My heart goes out to his sister, Pat Cronin, who cared for him in his last days.”

Old Lyme Selectwoman Mary Jo Nosal offered similar sentiments, saying, “Dave Woolley was a gentleman to the core. He was a mentor to me and to many on the Old Lyme Democratic Town Committee. Dave was kind, fair and engaging. He was a good listener, thoughtful, a strategic thinker, and he always put Old Lyme and our residents first.”

She ended with the words, “I will miss him very much. My condolences to his family and many friends.”

We too, here at LymeLine, extend our sincere sympathies to Dave’s family and friends. He was a good and genuine man, who served his community endlessly. He will be deeply missed by many.

Death of Alan R. Bernier, 65, Announced; Brother of Joanne Slezycki of Lyme

THOMPSON, CT – Alan R. Bernier, 65 of Thompson passed away peacefully on February 12, 2021. He was the loving husband of Patrice (Mikolajczak) Bernier for 38 years. Born in Putnam October 16, 1955, son of the late Roland and Lauretta (Nadeau) Bernier.

Alan was the Pathology Manager at St. Vincent’s Hospital in Worcester until he retired …

… He leaves his wife Patrice, children Danielle Wallace and her husband Jeffrey of Thompson, CT, David Bernier and his wife Stephanie of Arvada, CO, siblings Jeanne Johnson and her husband Richard of Thompson, CT, Joanne Slezycki and her husband Ray of Lyme, CT …

Visit this link to read the full obituary published Feb. 14, in Worcester Telegram & Gazette.

Death Announced of Rose G. Low, Mother of Becky Machnik of Old Lyme

Rose G. Lowe

Rose G. Low of Daleville, Va. was born on October 21, 1929, passed away peacefully on Friday, February 5, 2021. Rose was raised in Bedford, Va. before earning a degree from George Washington University in Washington, D.C. From there, she moved to Rockville, Maryland where she welcomed her four children.

The family moved from Maryland to New Hampshire and Rose took a job with Dartmouth College. After the adventure of rural living, she spent several years in New York City working for Barnard College. She then moved to Boston, working first for Brandeis and then Boston University. She finished her career as Dean of Development for Dean College in Franklin, Massachusetts before returning to Virginia for retirement.

Her passions included traveling, gardening, and family history. She traveled the world with her family and friends, and she shared that love of travel by taking each of her grandchildren to a destination of their choice when they turned 13. Her sense of adventure took her to far-flung places that included Russia, Australia, New Zealand, Greece and Egypt and a trip to Italy with her three daughters for her 75th birthday.

Her garden was where she could be found when she wasn’t traveling; she was president of the Brae and Beck garden club in Fincastle for three year and knew the Latin names of everything she grew.

Because family was so important to her, she kept photos, letters, and knew many details of her family’s history, some of which dates back to the Civil War. She was loved by many and will be greatly missed.

Rose was preceded in death by her son, Jim Low; her brother, Reid Gills; and sister, Virginia McCutcheon (Gills). She is survived by her three daughters, Leslie Martien (Charlie) of Boulder, Colorado, Becky Machnik (Todd) of Old Lyme, Connecticut, and Norma Low of Huntsville, Alabama; her grandchildren, Angie Lewis (Phillip), Tom Machnik (Kat), Catherine Hammond (Skip), Kevin Machnik (Holly), Peter Machnik (Lauren), and Dinesh Martien (Karen); her great-grandchildren, David, Dylan, Lelia, Ben, Gabriella, and Miranda; her brother, Charlie Gills; and many nieces and nephews.

My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style. (Maya Angelou)

Rose lived her life with passion, compassion, humor, and style. She left her mark on this world and will be carried on in all who loved her.

Services will be planned for a future date. Online condolences may be shared with the family by visiting www.oakeys.com. Arrangements entrusted to Oakey’s Funeral Service – East Chapel, Roanoke, Va., (540) 977-3909.

Death Announced of Alice (Mehegan) Visgilio, Mother of John of Old Lyme

Alice Visgilio

Alice (Mehegan) Visgilio, 84, of Westerly, RI, formerly of East Hartford, CT passed away peacefully surrounded by her husband and children on February 10, 2021.

Born in Hartford, CT, daughter of Nicholas and M. Cecelia Mehegan, Alice was a graduate of Mount St. Joseph Academy and St. Joseph College both in West Hartford, CT. She met her husband Joseph on the beach in Misquamicut, RI where they later spent summers with their family and ultimately retired.

Alice lived her life devoted to the catholic faith and in her later years, she was a faithful member of St. Clare’s Catholic Church in Westerly, RI serving as a Eucharistic Minister and Chair of the Hospitality Ministry.

To Alice, family was everything and everyone she met was family. She created a home where all were welcome and your favorite meal was always cooking on the stove. To many she was known as Alice, Mrs. V, or Aunt Alice, but to her favorite people she was Allie, Mom, or Mimi. But no matter what you called her, her infectious laugh, warm hugs, and selflessness will be missed. She inspires us to live by her example – cherish your family, live faithfully and LOVE ONE ANOTHER.

Seashells remind us that every passing life leaves something beautiful behind. Alice leaves behind her loving husband Joseph to whom she was married for 62 years and her five children and their families: Peter (Ann) of West Hartford, CT: Robbie (Laura Kisatsky) of Cornwall, CT; Meg Strickland (Ken) of Glastonbury, CT; John (Wendy) of Old Lyme, CT; and Tim (Paula) of Madison, CT. She also leaves 13 grandchildren: Paul (Jenai), Molly, Matt, Tyler, Rachel, Hannah, Abby, Brenna, Will, John Michael, Evan, Jack and Kate, and many nieces and nephews. These are Alice’s seashells. Alice was predeceased by her infant son Michael and her two sisters: Sr. Joanne Mehegan and Denise Fleming.

Alice’s family would like to thank the ICU staff of Westerly Hospital and for the prayers of family and friends around the world. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations in Alice’s memory to: St. Clare’s Church, 62 Crandall Ave., Westerly, RI 02891 or High Watch Recovery Center, Attn: Donations, POBox 607, Kent, CT 06757 that saved her son’s life.

Due to Covid restrictions, Mass of Christian Burial will be private.

Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce St., Westerly is in care of the arrangements. For online condolences please visit www.gaffneydolanfuneralhome.com

Death Announced of Guy G. Ortoleva, 100, Father of Tom of Old Lyme

Guy Ortoleva

Guy G. Ortoleva, 100, of Milford died peacefully surrounded by family on February 12, 2021 after a long illness. Guy lived a full and active life, had a wonderful sense of humor, and will be missed by many.

Always a bit of a Renaissance man, Guy graduated from McLane Art Institute in New York City and went on to use his talents for both work and pleasure. His career spanned many years from designing radio cabinets to creative displays in retail. As a longtime employee of Sears he used his artistic design, carpentry, and electrical skills to build remarkable displays and in some years, elaborate Santa’s workshops. A do it your-selfer before it was fashionable, Guy could build anything from recovered parts and some innovation. His children and anyone who worked with him learned many tips and techniques to solve problems with style and polish. In 2001 he was honored by Sears with a trip to Chicago to meet with top executives in appreciation for his 50 years of creative and loyal service.

An accomplished artist, especially of area landscapes, many of Guy’s watercolors were displayed at the Milford Public Library and can be found adorning the walls in the homes of each of his children. He had a diverse set of interests including photography, hypnotism, palm reading and stilt walking. He enjoyed music and could play the piano by ear.
In his younger days Guy was a daredevil pilot and enjoyed flying Piper Cub planes. He could often be seen performing his hair-raising stunts over the family owned Elm Terrace grounds in West Haven when flying was less restrictive, and his independent nature could take flight. Although he set aside his painting and flying interests while raising his family, he was able to return to painting watercolors and even flying for a short time following his retirement.

Born August 8, 1920, the youngest child of Giovanni and Angelina Ortoleva, Guy grew up in the Wooster Square area of New Haven. He loved spending time chatting and playing cards with family and a few close friends. His family likes to think Guy passed on Friday morning to make it in time for the traditional Friday night pinochle game with his beloved predeceased siblings Jim, John, Ernie, Mary, and brother-in-law Vito.

Guy was also predeceased by his first wife, the late Helen Mooney. He is survived by Barbara Lynch Ortoleva his devoted wife of over 64 years and his nine adoring children: Guy E. Ortoleva (Susan) of Hamden, Daniel Ortoleva of Milford, Donna Burlison of Wallingford, Carol Cunningham (Edward) of Andover, Walter Ortoleva (Luba) of Milford, Thomas Ortoleva (Tracie) of Old Lyme, Barbara Petrillo (John) of West Haven, Peter Ortoleva (Holly) of Orange, and Lori Ortoleva-Donnelly (Jim) of Wallingford. He also leaves behind 18 grandchildren and the list of great-grandchildren continues to grow.

The family would like to thank Tanya, Lawayna and Debra of Marcel Home Care for their gentle care and devotion to Guy and his family and VNA Community Healthcare and Hospice for their guidance and support.

Family and friends may pay their respects on Saturday, February 20, 2021 from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. at St. Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 12:00 p.m. Due to size gathering limitations, the church can accommodate up to 100 people at a time with masks and social distancing. Burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Alzheimer’s Association, 2911 Dixwell Ave., Hamden, CT 06518 or www.alz.org or a charity of your choosing. To leave online condolences, please visit www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.