Unexpected Death of Frederick Seward Jarvis Announced, Spent Much of His Life at White Sand Beach

Frederick Seward Jarvis, 78, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, April 1, 2021 in Estero, FL. Fred was born in Medford, MA on January 31, 1943 to the late Seward and Ruth (Poore) Jarvis. He is survived by his loving wife, Letitia (Petrella) Jarvis and his four children, Robert Jarvis and his wife Heidi, Thomas Jarvis and his wife Dana, Kenneth Jarvis and his wife Laura, Jennifer Fichman and her husband Benjamin; …

… The greater part of Fred’s life was spent in Newington, CT and at White Sands Beach in Old Lyme, CT.

Visit this link to view the full obituary published April 13, in The Hartford Courant.

Death Announced of Merlva L. Davis of Old Lyme, Mother of Raymond, Also of OL

OLD LYME — Merlva L. Davis of Old Lyme passed away March 26, 2021. She was born March 10, 1929, in Woodhaven, Long Island, the daughter of Nunzio Patrick Giuliano and Merlva Anderson Giuliano …

… She is survived by her son Raymond Davis and his wife Lee of Old Lyme; …

… A graveside service will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, April 24, at Duck River Cemetery, Old Lyme.

Visit this link to view the full obituary published April 4, in The Day.

 

 

Death of James Collins Cushing Announced; Father of Anne Scheel of Lyme, Christopher Cushing of Old Lyme

WATERFORD – James Collins Cushing peacefully departed this world at home, surrounded by his family Tuesday, April 6, 2021 …

… Jim leaves behind the love of his life, Phyllis Cushing, who he married June 22, 1957. Together, they raised five children, Richard Cushing married to Jan Ayer of Niantic, Paul Cushing married to Karen Blodgett of Waterford, Anne Scheel married to Robert Scheel of Lyme, Christopher Cushing of Old Lyme and Julie Wilson married to John Wilson of Niantic. Jim was known as “Grampy” to his 13 grandchildren and “Great-Grampy” his 11 great-grandchildren. His family was the most important part of his life …

… Jim retired as the Chief Procurement Officer at the U.S. Coast Guard Academy in New London …

A celebration of life will be planned for a date in the future.

Visit this link to view the full obituary published April 9, in The Day.

Death Announced of SFC Carmen Joseph DePaulo III, 36; Member of Lyme-Old Lyme HS Class of 2002

FAYETTEVILLE, N.C. – SFC Carmen Joseph DePaulo III, 36, of Fayetteville, N.C. formerly of Lyme, passed away March 6, 2021. SFC DePaulo was assigned to A Company, 3d Battalion, 3d Special Forces Group (Airborne).

SFC DePaulo was born Sept. 10, 1984, in Jacksonville, Fla. He attended Lyme-Old Lyme High School in Old Lyme, graduating in June 2002 …

… SFC DePaulo’s awards and decorations include … the Global War on Terror Expeditionary Medal, Global War on Terror Service Medal, Non-Commissioned Officer Professional Development Ribbon (3rd Award), the Army Service Ribbon, Special Forces Tab, Parachutist badge, and Military Free Fall Parachutist badge. He was posthumously awarded the Meritorious Service Medal …

… He is survived by his wife Abigail DePaulo; and daughters, Kathrine and Alexandra of Fayetteville, N.C., father and mother Carmen and Tonya DePaulo of Lyme; …

… Burial will follow at a later date in Arlington National Cemetery.

Visit this link to view the full obituary published April 9, in The Day.

Death Announced of Gerald “Jerry” Walter O’Dell of Old Lyme, ‘Exceptional Engineer, Inventor … Problem Solver,

OLD LYME – Gerald “Jerry” Walter O’Dell, 73, of Old Lyme, passed away April 1, 2021, after a hard-fought battle with cancer.

He is survived by a big and loving family, including his wife of nearly 52 wonderful years, Dawn (Rochette) O’Dell of Old Lyme; his three children and their loving spouses, Brian and Jessica O’Dell of Old Saybrook, David and Kristen (O’Dell) Arseneau of Fairfax Station, VA., and Jason and Kelsey (O’Dell) Cole of Madison; as well as six cherished grandchildren …

… Jerry was an exceptional engineer, inventor with several patents to his name and problem solver, who, as a young husband and father, took on the challenge of designing and building his own home in Old Lyme …

Visit this link to view the full obituary published April 4, in The Day.