Death Announced of Stephen Owen Monson, Father of Kimberly Monson of Lyme

Stephen Owen Monson

STONINGTON, CT—Stephen Owen Monson, 76, of Stonington, CT passed away on December 11, 2024, after a yearlong battle with brain cancer. He is survived by his daughter Kimberly Monson, granddaughters Elisabeth Monson Viera and Renee Monson Viera, son in law Michael Viera, honorary son and apprentice Chris O’Grady, his two sisters, Julia Launer and Dale Naehr, nephews, Joe and Greg Naehr and nieces Katie Launer-Felty and Krislyn Launer.

Stephen’s greatest loves were his work in carpentry, his daughter, his granddaughters, horseshoes, beer and the German Club. He was very proud of being a Veteran and his service as a Sonarman in the Navy. Stephen had a child-like enthusiasm, was terminally optimistic and never met a parade or fireworks display he didn’t like. To many he was quiet, but with those that paid attention he had an understated wit that was both quick and hilarious. He was stubborn and fiery; he fought to the end and will be genuinely missed by those who took the time to get to know him.

A short gravesite service will be held on Friday January 3rd, 11 am at Elm Grove Cemetery in Mystic, CT with a potluck gathering of friends and family at the Social Society Frohsinn directly after.

Death Announced of Fran Lo of Old Lyme; Wife of Julian, Mother of Emma, Phoebe

OLD LYME—Fran (Belknap) Lo, 73, left us Dec. 23, 2024. She leaves her husband of 40 years, Julian; children Emma (with husband Rahul and their daughter Ezme), and Phoebe; brother David (with wife Sara); and sisters-in-law, Eve and Joan.

Fran was a proud and loving stay-at-home mom when her children were young, and an English and Social Studies teacher at St. Bernard School for many years. … She was an active school volunteer when her children were small and edited the Region 18 newsletter Education Currents in the 1990s. …

She graduated from Oberlin College (BA), New York University Sloan School of Business (MBA), and Connecticut College (MAT). …

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Death Announced of James M. Fox of Old Lyme, Husband of Kathleen: Service Held Monday in Old Saybrook

James M. Fox

OLD LYME—James M. Fox, 72, husband of Kathleen (Fallon) Fox, of Old Lyme, passed away Saturday December 21, 2024, peacefully at home. He was one of ten children born in Hartford on May 11, 1952, son of the late Thomas A. and Loretta (Fagan) Fox. Jim recently retired after working many years in the HVAC industry. His favorite place was White Sands Beach in Old Lyme where he loved spending time with his family.

Besides his wife, Jim leaves his son Sean, daughter Heather Olson and her husband Alex, and son Seamus. His grandchildren, Cooper, Madeleine, Jack, and Elin. He will also be remembered by his siblings, Peggy Harding and her husband Chuck, Brian Fox and his wife Jane, Marty Fox and his wife Annie as well as many nieces and nephews. Jim was predeceased by his infant son James M. Fox, Jr. and his beloved sister MaryEllen Fox.

A Mass of Christian Burial celebrating Jim’s life will be held on Monday December 30, 2024 at 11:00 am in St. John Church of St. Padre Pio Parish, 161 Main St., Old Saybrook, CT 06475. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Jim’s name may be made to SoundWaters at soundwaters.org. To extend condolences, please visit Farleysullivan.com.

Death Announced of Hildegarde Kate Hannum of Old Lyme, Mother of Lisa Holmes of Hadlyme

Hildegarde Kate Hannum

OLD LYME—Hildegarde Kate Hannum, née Drexl, died peacefully at home on Christmas Eve. Born in 1931 in Springfield, Massachusetts, she was the only child of Karl and Kate Vogeler Drexl, both born in Germany. She graduated from Classical High School in Springfield in 1949 and graduated Phi Beta Kappa from Connecticut College in 1953, and then spent a year at the University of Munich, Germany, as a Fulbright scholar (one of her fondest memories). In 1955 she received her M.A. in German from Middlebury College. She was then a Teaching Fellow as a graduate student at Harvard University from 1957 to 1959. It was at Harvard that she met her husband of sixty-one years, Hunter Grubb Hannum, who predeceased her. They married in 1959 and moved to the San Francisco Bay Area, where their only daughter Lisa was born.

After completing a dissertation on Thomas Mann, she received her Ph.D. in German Studies from Harvard in 1968. She taught at Hayward State University and the University of California, Berkeley. The family moved to Old Lyme in 1973 and she then taught for a few years at Connecticut College. In the mid-1970’s she and her husband began a career as freelance literary translators from German to English. In 1986 they were awarded the Lewis Galantière Award from the American Translators Association for their translations of two books by the psychoanalyst Alice Miller.

In 1968 she became a trustee of her husband’s family foundation which she remained devoted to until his death in 2020; their lifelong compassion for humanity and commitment to social justice touched the lives of many. From 1973 to 1985 she was very active with the American Friends Service Committee, and she served as a board member of the E.F. Schumacher Society, an organization promoting local economic revitalization and environmental sustainability, for decades. In that capacity she edited their annual lectures and People, Land, and Community: The Collected E.F. Schumacher Society Lectures. In 1997 she co-founded the Energy Options Study Group, a citizens group promoting the use of renewable energy resources combined with energy efficiency.

She was at her happiest hiking and climbing in the Sierra Nevada Mountains (which she did every summer into her 70’s), reading, or spending time with friends and family.

She leaves her daughter Lisa Kate Holmes and her partner Robert Stern of Hadlyme, two dear grandchildren; Hunter Holmes and his wife Anna, and Amelia and her husband Daniel Wood; and one great-granddaughter, Fiona.

In lieu of flowers, it is requested that donations be in her name to The Martha and Hunter Grubb Foundation, PO Box 190, Old Lyme, CT 06371. The family would like to express their heartfelt appreciation to Katherine Clark-Nilsson, Virginija Babiliute, Sibiya Sibahle and Rashmi Childress for their loving care; it was because of their dedication that she could remain comfortably at home with her beloved dachshund, Richie.

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Death of Gail Barber Announced; Cherished her Old Lyme Roots, Graduate of OLHS in Class of 29 Students

OLD SAYBROOK—Gail M. Barber, 85, of Old Saybrook, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 11th, at Ocean Meadows Memory Care in Clinton. Born in New London to John J. Molloy and Teresa Hausmann Molloy, Gail cherished her roots in Old Lyme, where she graduated from high school in a class of just 29 students.

Gail spent most of her working life at R. R. Donnelley in Old Saybrook as a buyer, retiring in 2001 after 27 years … Following her grandchildren’s achievements brought her endless happiness.

Gail is survived by her loving husband, William Barber; sons Stephen Fuller (Rosemary) and John Fuller (Susan); daughter Kristen Commander (Robert); and her grandchildren, Ryan Fuller (Georgia), Kasey Commander (Tyler), and Matthew Fuller …

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Gail’s name to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Way, Memphis, TN 38105.

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