Wonderful Weather in Old Lyme Sets Scene for a Perfect Parade

Two cheery members of the Old Lyme Fire Department ride atop a vintage fire truck.

OLD LYME — It was a perfect day for a parade on Monday and our terrific town hosted yet another great parade filled with pride and patriotism but also spilling over with joy and happiness. This is still just a small selection of photos. We will be adding many more later today.

Many thanks indeed to our fabulous photographers, Troy Clark, Michele Dickey, James Meehan and Suzanne Thompson.

Following tradition, the Lyme-Old Lyme High School Band led the parade.
The military fly-past took everyone’s eyes to the sky.
Members of the Old Lyme Historical Association were out in force to join the parade. Photo by James Meehan.
Phoebe Griffin Noyes aka Mary Dangremond strode purposefully down the parade route, reminding all of her connection to the Old Lyme Library that bears her name.
Students waving their flags in coordinated fashion led the middle school band.
And the pipers played …
The joy on the ‘sidelines’ was palpable. Photo by James Meehan.
The Old Lyme Board of Selectmen, from left to right, Selectwoman Martha Shoemaker, First Selectman Tim Griswold and Selectman Matt Ward were clearly enjoying their marching responsibilities.
A smiling State Rep. Devin Carney (R-23rd) waves to the crowd while State Senator Martha Marx (D-20th) greets a friend.
The LOL Middle School Band played some lively tunes.
Members of the Old Lyme Fire Department march proudly down Lyme Street.
The banner says it all.
The Old Lyme VNA happily marched the full length of the parade.
The Nightingale’s Band led by the multi-talented Dan Stevens (at right, behind banner) was a welcome new addition to this year’s parade.
Always a popular feature of the parade, the fife and drummers played their authentic music.
Lymes’ Senior Center dancers gave an enthusiastic and polished display!
The Lyme-Old Lyme Lions boldly declared their mission: ‘We Serve’
The winners of the essay contest sponsored by the VFW Post 1467 proudly read their respective works.
Veterans listened attentively as this student solemnly read her winning essay. Photo by James Meehan.
VFW Veterans laid a wreath at the war memorial in Duck River Cemetery.
Firing a celebratory volley were the elder statesmen of VFW Post 1467.
A Memorial Day to remember. Photo by James Meehan.
And also … and finally … it was certainly a Memorial Day to remember for these two young ladies! On the right, resplendent in red, white and blue and checking on the status of her friend’s ice cream, is Cecilia Girasoli. On the left, beautiful in blue and focused on her own cone, is Emerson Tinkle.

A Special Memorial Day ‘View from Our Porch’: Town Budget Meeting Reflections

By Christina J. & Thomas D. Gotowka

This “View” was supposed to be “Electric Vehicles: Can Elon overcome the legacy of the Beach Boys?”, but Christina encouraged me to ignore the plan and provide some follow-up on last week’s annual town budget meeting. 

We were troubled by the article by Elizabeth Regan and published on May 16 in The Day, which characterized the meeting and the residents’ interactions with the BOS as disorderly, e.g., “the room erupted”; “Moderator Vicki Lanier called for calm; let’s try to keep some order in this meeting”; and “lengthy debate about what constitutes an ‘assault weapon’ turned Monday night’s meeting into a fight about guns”. 

This essay begins with our reflections on what we thought were the key issues and concerns raised by residents that Monday evening; but as the topic developed, it became clear that this ‘View” was something that was appropriate for consideration on Memorial Day.

We felt that the gathering was nothing more than a typical New England town meeting, which historian Frank Bryan describes in Real Democracy as a public forum that enables residents to share their opinions on issues; “while engaging in deliberation and democratic decision-making” regarding laws and budgets. The residents of Old Lyme seemed very serious about their participation; and there were appropriate questions and comments when information appeared incomplete or absent.

Many were shocked that the proposed FY23/24 budget included expenditures of $29,500 for 7 patrol rifles,10 Glock 45s, and ammunition; listed under “Public Safety”. Those expenditures generated discussion and questions about exactly what comprised the “7 patrol rifles”, and why do we need them? Some expressed alarm that the patrol rifles might be AR-15s. 

Old Lyme is not immune to School Violence:

Selectman Matt Ward, who was a Connecticut (CT) State Trooper for 20 years, and a part-time police officer in Old Lyme; and Resident Trooper Matt Weber justified the expenditures as essential because our schools are vulnerable; — “shootings happen everywhere, including close to home”. Mr.  Weber’s comments were in The Day, not in person at the meeting. 

Surely, none of us living in Connecticut can be indifferent to the terrible school shootings that have impacted our confidence in the safety of our children while in school. 

Just in the past decade, they have included, Sandy Hook Elementary School in Dec. 2012, where 20 children and 6 adults were murdered; Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Fla., in 2018, where 14 students and 3 staff members were murdered, and 17 seriously injured.

Just last year, we witnessed a mass shooting at a supermarket in Buffalo where 10 people, all of whom were African-Americans, were murdered and three seriously injured; and another at Robb Elementary School in Uvalde, Texas, where 19 children and two teachers were murdered. The slow response by Uvalde Police Department, which cost lives, remains under investigation

A few months ago, on March 27, three children and three adults were murdered at the Covenant School in Nashville, Tenn.

The Numbers:

The data are daunting and gut-wrenching. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recently released the most current national mortality data and reported 45,222 firearm-related deaths in the United States in 2020, which is a new peak.

Worse yet, the previous analysis, which examined data through 2016, showed that firearm-related injuries were second only to motor vehicle accidents, both traffic-related and non-traffic-related, as the leading cause of death among children and adolescents. That gap narrowed; and in 2020, firearm-related injuries became the leading cause of death in that age group

Further, the United States has far higher rates of firearm death than any of the two-dozen other high-income countries that were studied, which included Australia, Canada, Germany, Italy, Japan, Norway, Spain, and the United Kingdom. We kill each other with firearms 25 times as often as the study group. 

Finally, according to the Gun Violence Archive (GVA), the rate of mass shootings escalated during COVID and has persisted since; and 2021 became the worst year for mass shootings since tracking began in 2013 with 690 across 44 states and Washington, DC.

Incredibly, by May 1, of this year, there were already 235 mass shootings in the United States; which puts us on track to pass 700, which would be a new peak. 

There is no doubt in our minds that we have a problem in this country with gun violence. 

M-4s, Not AR-15s:

Our elected officials initially seemed unwilling to specify the exact rifle model that was to be purchased, and that led to concerns from residents. 

Eventually, Selectman Ward informed us that Old Lyme Police Department’s (OLPD) patrol rifles would be M4s. He emphasized that the rifles would not be routinely carried by officers on patrol, and would remain locked and secured in police vehicles and only deployed with authorization from a supervisor. This was corroborated by two members of OLPD who attended the meeting in uniform.

An advantage of the M4 is that it is also used by CT state police, with whom we already have a close working relationship. 

As we understand, equipping the OLPD with M4s in this manner will enable more rapid deployment of armed officers for containment of an active incident. The Resident Trooper stated, “It’s going to be my Old Lyme officer that’s the first one in that door.”

After some additional discussion and a motion to remove the firearms from the budget failed to achieve the required two-thirds majority, those in attendance voted to approve the proposed budget with no change. 

Through the Looking Glass:

These expenditures were presented as having been endorsed by the Old Lyme (OL) Board of Selectmen and approved by the OL Board of Finance (BOF). However, a BOF member said at the meeting that the board received no information from the OLPD describing the purchase, nor did they respond to a request to explain the need for the weapons.

In contrast, The Day reported that the Resident Trooper told them in March that his department, “… is requesting Colt M4 carbine semiautomatic rifles.”

All in all, and borrowing from Lewis Carroll’s Alice, the situation becomes, ‘curiouser and curiouser.’

Perhaps more eloquently stated, former Old Lyme Selectwoman Mary Jo Nosal, in a response to The Day, stated, “The crux of the issue is not whether these arms are necessary but the lack of transparency and justification for the need for what would be a new purchase for the town.”

America’s Rifle?

The shooters in Uvalde and Buffalo used AR-15 style weapons. The CT State Police reported that Adam Lanza used a similar .223-caliber Bushmaster XM-15 E2S semi-automatic rifle at Sandy Hook.

In 2020, the National Shooting Sports Foundation estimated that 19.8 million AR-15 style rifles were in circulation in the United States; surging from about. 8.5 million since a federal assault weapons ban expired in 2004.

In 1993, and again after Sandy Hook, the CT General Assembly passed laws prohibiting the sale of certain “military-style” weapons, including the AR-15 and its many variations.

About 80,000 AR-15s purchased prior to 1993 were “grandfathered in” and then re-grandfathered” after Sandy Hook.

Governor Lamont has announced that he is seriously considering repealing the exemption. 

We Need a Plan:

The outcome of the meeting demonstrates that residents acknowledge America’s gun violence problem and the attendees now realize, “Shootings happen everywhere, including close to home.” While approving the purchase of the proposed firearms for OLPD is a step towards containment of an active shooter incident, we have not touched on prevention or deterrence.

Last June, after the Uvalde school shooting, the Region 18 Board of Education approved armed school security guards, who would be retired, trained police officers., However, the school district did not purchase firearms. 

Rather than have another Old Lyme Arms Summit in 2024, Reverend Steve Jungkeit, senior minister at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme, called for a, “Wider conversation about public safety.”  He said, “I don’t feel safer as a human being by having a lot more guns out there, even carried by people that I trust because good people do make errors of judgment.”

Elections:

Per The Day, — “with little publicity”, town officials, proposed amendments to local ordinances that would have changed the Old Lyme Town Clerk and Tax Collector from elected to appointed positions; and lengthened the current respective four-year terms to six. The vote from the floor was virtually unanimous in rejecting the proposed change. 

Author’s Thoughts:

We are concerned that it appears that Old Lyme is now using an honor system rather than verification of identification in order to confirm a person’s status as an “elector or citizen eligible to vote” in important Town Meetings. 

We know that Old Lyme’s BOS have been reticent in the past to comment on social issues, but it seems that it is time to make a statement in support of developing some common-sense rules and enforceable regulations to curb gun violence and make our children safe in school.

After all, “shootings happen everywhere, including close to home”. 

Sources:

Boschma, J., Merrill, C., and Murphy-Teixidor, J. “Mass Shootings in the US”. CNN.  5/04/2023

Bryan, Frank. “Real Democracy: The New England Town Meeting and How It Works”. University of Chicago Press. 2010

Carroll, Lewis. “Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland” & “Through the Looking-Glass”. London: Macmillan & Company. 1865 &1872.

Goldstick, J. E., Cunningham, R.M., and Carter, P.M. “Current Causes of Death in Children and adolescents in the United States” NEJM. 05/19/2022

Lallanilla, M. “What Makes the AR-15 Rifle ‘America’s Gun’?” LiveScience. 09/17/2013

Loh, M. “America has 20 million AR-15 style rifles in circulation, and more guns than people in the country”. Business Insider. 05/30/2022

Pazniokas, M. “Lamont may go alone in seeking end to ownership of AR-15s in CT”. CT Mirror.12/09/2022

Regan, E. “Some in Old Lyme oppose arming police with semiautomatic rifles”. New London Day. 05/16/2023

South, E.C., Hemenway D., Webster, D.W. “Gun violence research is surging to inform solutions to a devastating public health crisis”. Preventive Medicine, 10/27/2022.

Vigdor, N. “State Police: All 26 Newtown victims shot with assault rifle”. CT Post. 01/24/2013

Welcome Home! Old Lyme Family Joyfully Greets USCG Cmdr./Husband/Dad on his Return From Two-Year Assignment

The Harris family — from left to right, Jon holding Leigh, Hugh and Ginger — stand together in their home at 73 Lyme St. on Friday, May 26, to celebrate Jon’s return to Old Lyme.

OLD LYME — Have you noticed the wonderful decorations outside the house at 73 Lyme St.?

At first glance, you might have thought they were the traditional Memorial Day banners and flags but a closer look reveals they carry an additional, and perhaps even more significant message for the family that lives there.

The family’s Memorial Day decorations include a traditional yellow ribbon to welcome Cmdr. Jon Harris home after two long years.

The air at #73 was filled with eager anticipation and great excitement last Thursday because the Harris family (mom Ginger, four-year-old Hugh and 18-month-old Leigh) whose home it is, was expecting their husband/dad home after a two-year assignment.

Jon Harris, who subsequently arrived home safely to the delight of his waiting family, has served on active duty in the U.S. Coast Guard for the past 18 years. He is a Commander and has served at sea on board five different U.S. Coast Guard Cutters (USCGCs) during his career.

Jon’s promotion and departure ceremony from his former position in New London, Conn., in May 2021 was even attended by little Hugh. Jon and Ginger already knew that Jon had orders to the ‘Hamilton‘ when the family learned there would be another baby on the way. Leigh was born in November 2021.

Ginger explained in an email that Jon has, “Just completed a two-year assignment as Executive Officer of USCGC Hamilton, homeported in Charleston, S.C.”

She elaborated on the work in which he has been involved, saying, “The multi-mission cutter conducts counter drug and migrant interdiction operations, as well as international engagements and training around the world while sailing in the Mediterranean, Black, Baltic and Caribbean Seas, as well as the Northern Atlantic and Eastern Pacific Oceans.” 

And how long will he be home in Old Lyme? Ginger responded, “He begins his next assignment in Newport, R.I. in June, to serve as the Commanding Officer of the USCGC Campbell.”

To everyone’s shared joy, Cmdr. Jon Harris surprised Hugh’s Pre-School class at Center School this week.

Asked how the family was feeling about Jon returning home, Ginger said, “We look forward to enjoying simple family moments as a family of four. Our son has already asked for his Daddy to take him to all the playgrounds in the area and a swimming pool this summer.”

She added that, looking to the future, “Our family is excited to have Jon living with us at home between Campbell’s future deployments.” He was rarely able to return home to Old Lyme when his homebase was Charleston, S.C.

Ginger took the opportunity during the e-mail conversation to express her and her family’s gratitude to many people in town. She wrote, “We wish to thank all our neighbors in the village and Hugh and Leigh’s teachers at Center School, the After-Care program at the Old Lyme Children’s Learning Center, and the Coast Guard Child Development Center for helping take such great care of our children these past two years.”

She continued, “The friends and neighbors we have met in town are a blessing, especially since none of our family members live nearby. We cherish the chats during our family walks, the gifts from secret Santas and Easter Bunnies, birthday and Halloween surprises, the offers for hot soup when we are sick, meals and gifts after the arrival of our baby girl, and neighbors who drop everything they are doing to run over to our house and assist during difficult times.”

In a piece of perfect timing for all the Memorial Day celebrations, the sign says it all!

On a poignant note, Ginger concluded, “Thank you for choosing to share our family’s story during the first of a series of patriotic holidays that encourage us to pause and remember the contributions and sacrifices that our service members and families made in support of the ideals and values embodied in our Constitution.”

Her final thoughts, which are so pertinent with the imminent approach of Memorial Day, were, “We join our neighbors in thanking the many other current and past military members in Old Lyme and throughout our country, and we honor our Gold Star Families and their loved ones, who made the ultimate sacrifice in service to our nation.” 

Editor’s Note: We would like to express our sincere thanks to Tammy Noyes, who alerted us to the decorations at 73 Lyme St., and made preliminary inquiries with the family to determine if their story could be shared on LymeLine.com.

Gillette Castle Interior Re-opens to Public

The newly restored terrace with slate paving stones will be highlighted at the official opening of Gillette Castle on Saturday, May 27. Photo submitted.

EAST HADDAM, Conn. – On Saturday, May 27, the interior of Gillette Castle re-opened to visitors after completion of a half-million-dollar project to restore its surrounding terrace. 

Most Connecticut state park buildings, museums, nature centers and other enclosed structures are expected to open during the Memorial Day weekend. 

Through Sept. 4, the century-old fieldstone mansion may be toured daily from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Advance purchase of tickets from park staff is highly recommended, and may be done at ReserveAmerica.com under “Gillette Castle State Park Tours.” Questions about tickets should be directed to park staff at (860) 526-2336.

“The home of the late stage actor William Gillette is the true centerpiece of this wonderful park, and our plans over the past couple of years are coming to fruition — with more to come,” said Lynn Wilkinson, president of the Friends of Gillette Castle State Park. 

“What visitors may not notice is the restoration of the upper terrace behind the Castle, which has been in works since last autumn,” she added. “The work allowed an improved drainage system to be installed, preventing possible damage to the Castle.”

The $480,000 project was administered by the Connecticut Department of Energy and Environmental Protection in cooperation with the engineering firm Nathan L. Jacobson & Associates of Chester and Baltic, Conn.-based Mattern Construction Inc. 

“Now that the project has been completed, the terrace and a restored retaining wall look just as they did before,” Wilkinson said. 

Elsewhere on the Castle grounds, visitors who travel to the ferry dock may note that efforts are continuing to  prevent additional deterioration at the former home of Gillette’s longtime assistant and friend, Yukitaka Osaki. 

The park’s grounds are open from 8 a.m. until sunset daily, offering visitors a chance to use the park’s varied hiking trails, stroll around Gillette’s unique home and perhaps spot the eagles that frequently nest with their young along the river at many times of the year. 

The park is nestled between the towns of East Haddam and Lyme. Many of its trails follow a former railroad bed created for a narrow-gauge track installed by the late Connecticut stage actor, who built his castle-like home atop one of the Seven Sister Hills along the river. 

Trail maps and videos of the estate may be found on the Friends website at www.gillettecastlefriends.org. Those interested in becoming a Friends member may sign up online or download a mail-in application form at the website, or direct their questions to info@gillettecastlefriends.org or (860) 222-7850. 

The organization’s mission includes the preservation, restoration and conservation of the historic structure and its scenic grounds. The all-volunteer, nonprofit group works in cooperation with the Connecticut Department of Energy and Environmental Protection. Memberships help to finance park and structural improvements while preserving the estate and Gillette’s legacy.

Halls Road Improvements Committee Offers Revised Version of Frequently Asked Questions on Latest Proposals

Halls Road Improvements Committee Chair Edie Twining

OLD LYME — Edie Twining, who serves as Chair of the Halls Road Improvements Committee (HRIC), contacted us to let us know that the committee had prepared a revised list of Frequently Asked Questions along with the committee’s responses. We are pleased to publish it here to reach an expanded audience and increase resident’s understanding of the project. The questions are also posted on the Town of Old Lyme’s website.

  1. Why is the town considering changes to Halls Road?

    In 2015 community members asked for safer pedestrian passage to and from Halls Road. The Halls Road Improvements Committee (HRIC) was formed to address this issue. After several public meetings the town heard that townspeople wanted more than sidewalks and lighting. They wanted the town’s commercial area to look more like Old Lyme, to have apartments for older and younger citizens, and to be a more attractive town center than the existing strip centers. 
  2. What is the Halls Road Master Plan and why was it developed?

    A formal Master Plan is an important tool in seeking grants for work on Halls Road, for encouraging investment, and for setting broad goals designed to insure the future of Old Lyme’s main shopping district. It covers two main aspects of change:
    1. Public Improvements:
      Paid for by the town with the help of grants from the state, these include creating sidewalks, lighting, landscaping, cross walks, and a new pedestrian/cycling bridge over the Lieutenant River at the old bridge abutments. 
    2. Private Investments:
      Private investors created the existing Halls Road, and they will create any future Halls Road. The town’s role was and is to guide private investment into the channels the town wants and needs. The Master Plan envisions a walkable, bike-able shopping street in a mixed-use neighborhood. This is the most supportive environment for 21st-century retail. It is also attractive for those who want a convenient, walkable neighborhood with smaller-scale housing. None of this is allowed under current zoning (C-30S). The town needs a new, alternative zoning to allow these changes, and to encourage the private investment that will realize the Master Plan. 
  3. How was this plan developed?
    1. Initially, the Yale Urban Design Workshop did valuable Computer-Assisted Design (CAD) drawings of existing conditions and held two public workshops on town planning. At their departure, it became a home-grown process of creating a vision of the best future Halls Road – one prosperous for businesses and amenities that serve the town. Mixed use, retail visibility, and attractiveness were key goals, as was a safe pedestrian connection to Lyme Street. Volunteers further adapted the “vision statement” in wide-ranging conversations around town. 
    2. In an Old Lyme Economic Development Commission (EDC) economic development study, Advance CT conducted surveys and workshops to identify community needs across Old Lyme. The future of Halls Road figured prominently in town-wide discussions, which significantly influenced planning. 
    3. The Town hired BSC Group to help create a formal master plan based on community input and town studies. The plan was presented in multiple community venues.
  4. What were the main findings that informed the master plan? In order of community preference [the responses were]:
    1. Any new construction should reflect Old Lyme’s small town character.
    2. Create a new pedestrian bridge to make a safe connection between Halls Road and the arts, historic and municipal districts on Lyme Street. 
    3. Businesses would rather be up on a walkable street than be tucked away in a strip center. 
    4. Older citizens want to stay in Old Lyme. Today, they must leave Old Lyme to find smaller-scale housing options. 
  5. How was this master plan presented?

    HRIC held two open houses at Memorial Town Hall to talk with all-comers about the Master Plan. HRIC published the plan on the town website, publicized it, and took the plan to the community with multiple presentations to Commissions, community organizations, and local businesses. 
  6. How would the public improvements be made and who pays for them?

    The town is responsible for public improvements and their cost. The town has applied for grants that can cover a significant part of the costs, and will seek additional grants.
    1. The work along Halls Road requires approval from the CT Department of Transportation (DOT). In July, 2022 the town applied for a grant under the Local Transportation Capital Improvement Program (LOTCIP) which is overseen by CT DOT. Their review of this application is also DOT’s formal approval of the proposed improvements. 
    2. The pedestrian bridge and associated trails are not covered under the LOTCIP grant. The town hired AI Engineers (AIE) to create alternative designs for public review and town approval. AIE will then handle formal design and permitting, create construction documents (CDs), and oversee the construction bid process. The town has received grants to cover AIE’s work, and will seek construction grants. 
  7. How will Private Investment be changed from a commercial only district?

    The town has proposed an alternative to the current (and unchanged) C-30S zoning. The Halls Road Overlay District (HROD) gives owners the option to follow its less restrictive rules: in exchange for building a small amount of first-floor front retail along Halls Road, they can build multi-family residential above that, or elsewhere on their property; significantly increasing return per acre.
  8. Will my taxes increase if the HROD is used?

    No. Development on Halls Road brings new tax revenue to Old Lyme. 
  9. How does the HROD prevent overdevelopment?

    HROD has explicit size and setback limitations. Parking, surface coverage, and infrastructure requirements each pose additional limitations on building size and density. Design Guidelines based on the varied styles of Lyme Street define what is and is not acceptable in the HROD. The Design Review Board works with developers to help them create successful projects in keeping with the Guidelines. 
  10. How will the Private Investment be done and who pays for it?

    Owners and developers along Halls Road, whether in C-30S or HROD, are wholly responsible for their own properties and projects. That includes the costs of meeting regulatory requirements of all kinds, including those for water and septic. The town has no responsibility for these private expenses. 
  11. How does the overlay district affect Old Lyme’s housing needs?

    There is a pent-up need for smaller-scale housing in the town. Halls Road is a particularly attractive place for this, as it offers easy access to shops and the main town center. 
  12. Is affordable Housing required?

    No, it is not required but can be instituted if the owner choses to do so.
  13. How will changes to Halls Road effect property values?

    In general, the HROD allows greater returns per acre than C-30S. Being attractive to new investment makes property values rise
  14. Can Halls Road stay just like it is today?

    No. The world changes, even if we do nothing. Under current market conditions, C-30S zoning and easy highway access drive new investment on Halls Road into highway services (gas stations, fast food, etc.). HROD offers better returns, and thus competition for truck stop developers. We can guide our own future, but we cannot stop change. 

Thank you for taking the time to read this FAQ. If you have further questions or comments, please contact the committee at: hallsroadcommittee@oldlyme-ct.gov