Memorial Service for Rev. David W. Good Held in Old Lyme, Full Obituary Now Published

Rev. David W. Good

LYME/OLD LYME—The memorial service for the Reverend David W. Good will be held Sunday, April 21, at 2 p.m. at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme (FCCOL.) It will be broadcast live via YouTube—the video link will be posted on the FCCOL website.

Our original article about his tragic passing is at this link.

Rev. Good’s full obituary is now published below.

Obituary: David William Good

David William Good, 74, died peacefully in his home in Lyme, Connecticut on April 2, 2024, from complications of advanced leukemia.  He was born on April 26,1949 in Indianapolis, Indiana to Edward Albin Good and Gladys Mae Cissna Good.  He received a bachelor’s degree in literature and philosophy from Purdue University in 1971 and a M. Divinity from Yale Divinity School in 1975.  He married Corinne Hogg on March 27, 1973, in Liverpool, England, in Corinne’s home church. 

In December of 1975, David began to serve as Senior Minister at The First Congregational Church of Old Lyme, a position he would hold for 37 years. The breadth of his ministry is astonishing, both for its prescience and for its imaginative sweep. Prescient in that David anticipated many of the justice issues that we are still contending with today. Imaginative in that he used the symbols of the Christian tradition to connect with those of other peoples and cultures, demonstrating that as human beings, we all belong to the same common family. 

In 1985, David led the first visit to Green Grass, South Dakota, initiating a partnership with the Lakota people of the Cheyenne River Reservation that continues to exist some 40 years later. A few years after that, prompted by the struggle against apartheid in South Africa, David journeyed to that country to foster another set of relationships with those in the Township of Soweto, and with the Methodist Churches of Southern Africa. Later still, he forged a bond with the Koinonia community outside of Americus, Georgia, an anti-racist experiment in communal living that helped to birth Habitat for Humanity. 

One of David’s greatest contributions, however, emerged in the days and months following the 

9/11 attacks. Almost immediately, he reached out to the Muslim community and the Jewish Federation of Southeastern Connecticut, doing whatever he could to counter the fear and paranoia generated by that event, while also helping everyone within his orbit to both appreciate and celebrate the vast wisdom of the three Abrahamic faith traditions. An interfaith journey to the Holy Land with Christian, Muslim and Jewish participants soon followed. That first trip led to the formation of the Tree of Life ministry, dedicated to the pursuit of human rights in Palestine and in Israel. For more than twenty years, groups of travelers from FCCOL, the Berlin Mosque, and many other places of origin have journeyed together to the Middle East to learn about the profound human rights challenges facing Palestinians in the West Bank and Gaza, in East Jerusalem, the Golan Heights, and in Israel proper, while also learning from many Israeli voices of conscience who are seeking to build just and humane alternatives in that region. Even as US based travelers journeyed to the Middle East, David organized groups of Palestinian and Israeli justice advocates to visit the United States every year, to educate US audiences on the realities faced by Palestinians every day. The importance of that work becomes more evident with each passing day. It is a legacy that will continue to grow, as we find new ways to support the work of that Tree, “whose branches shall be for the healing of the nations.”

David’s global outreach scarcely touches all the ways he gave of himself to individuals within the FCCOL community and to Old Lyme and the Connecticut Shoreline more broadly. Week after week, he delivered learned, impassioned, and inspiring sermons. He accompanied many people through their final days, and he helped family members to come to terms with their own losses. He steered committees and task forces. Through his leadership, the Fellowship Hall and Sunday School wing was added to FCCOL. A Food Pantry was housed at FCCOL because of David’s vision, and in his later years, he organized PARJE (Public Art for Racial Justice and Equality). He married countless people, counseled countless people, and helped everyone, each in their own way, to trust that there was a gracious and loving Presence in the world on whom they could depend. He inspired and impacted many lives, and his memory will endure for many years to come.

David is survived by his wife Corinne Good in Lyme, CT, two sisters, Sharon Lyons of Tennessee and Linda Gettings of South Carolina, and his brother, Edward Good of Texas.

A celebration of David Good’s life will be held on Sunday, April 21, at 2 p.m. at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme, located at the corner 4 Lyme Street and 2 Ferry Road in Old Lyme. 

Memorial gifts in honor of David Good’s life may be made to the Tree of Life Educational Fund (TOLEF) P.O. Box 968, Old Lyme, CT 06371, and The First Congregational Church of Old Lyme, 2 Ferry Road, Old Lyme.  Please mark on each check “David Good Memorial.”

$880K Supplemental Funding for Lymes’ Senior Center Overwhelmingly Approved by Lyme, Old Lyme Voters, UPDATED

LYME/OLD LYMEUPDATED 4/18 with voting numbers and quote from Lymes’ Senior Center Building Committee Chair: On Monday evening, Lyme and Old Lyme residents overwhelmingly passed motions to approve supplemental budget appropriations for the renovation of the Lymes’ Senior Center. Both votes were held initially by voice and so convincing—only one ‘No’ was heard at either location—that no paper vote was requested.

Eighty-three Lyme voters approved an amount of $220,000 at their Special Town Meeting held starting at 6 p.m. at Lyme Town Hall and around 175 Old Lyme residents approved $660,000 at their meeting held in the Lyme-Old Lyme Middle School auditorium beginning at 7:30 p.m. the same evening.

With these budget appropriations totaling $880,000 approved by the towns, the Lymes’ Senior Center Building Committee now has all the approvals necessary to accept the trade bids opened Feb. 6 of this year so the project can move forward and construction can begin. Those bids expired May 6, and so the timing of this vote was critical.

Asked by LymeLine what her reaction to the vote was, Lymes’ Senior Center Building Committee Chair Jeri Baker said via email, “I am so grateful that the confidence is there to move us forward.”

The initial $1.33 million overrun on the approximately $5.46 million project, which was identified when the trade bids were opened, had already been reduced through approximately $602,000 in construction savings.

Meanwhile, contingency funds for the project had been increased by nearly $65,000 to cover any unforeseen circumstances. Those two moves reduced the initial $1.33 million overage to $800,000.

An additional appropriation of $80,000 to cover the kitchen upgrades was requested by the towns, taking the total value of the supplemental budget appropriation for both towns combined to $880,000.

As of last night, that amount has now been approved and Building Committee Chair Jeri Baker says that—once construction begins—the committee anticipates a 10-month schedule for the completion of the project, barring any unforeseen circumstances.

Lyme residents had approved an initial appropriation of $1,315,886 at last year’s Town Budget Meeting and Old Lyme residents had similarly approved an initial appropriation of $4,158,407 at a Town Referendum held June 20, 2023. Since that time, through efforts of the towns and the committee, the project has been awarded $1 million in grants from the state.

When the renovations are completed, the Senior Center will offer:

  • An additional 3,265 square feet of interior space (for a total of 8,737 square feet of interior space) that will enable the center to accommodate more members and activities.
  • Motorized room partitions that allow for multiple room configurations so programs and activities can take place simultaneously.
  • An enlarged kitchen space with multiple kitchen upgrades that allows for greater center luncheon attendance.
  • A quiet library room where members can relax and/or read.
  • A greeting area that is separate from the activities area.
  • A public entrance that can accommodate the arrival and departure of buses and emergency vehicles.
  • Redesigned entryway and hallways, improved door thresholds and additional shelving and storage space.
  • A new roof, porch, cupola, windows, walkways and landscaping.
  • New furniture throughout.

For further information on the Senior Center renovation, visit this link.

Death Announced of David Preston, 90, Member of Old Lyme Country Club, OL Beach Club

ESSEX, CT—David Preston, age 90, of Essex, Connecticut, died peacefully in Essex on March 26th, 2024. Dave was born on November 17, 1933, in Boston, Massachusetts, a son of Roger and Anita Preston of Waban, Massachusetts. He was predeceased by his brothers, Peter, Fred, and Phil.

Dave is survived by his beloved wife of sixty years, Barbara Biddulph Preston, his son, Christopher Preston, his daughter Elizabeth Preston Miramon, and their spouses Elizabeth Valalik and Peter Miramon, and three grandchildren Carly and Emily Preston and Benjamin Miramon …

He was a member of the Old Lyme Beach Club, Old Lyme Country Club, and the Essex Yacht Club …

The date for the memorial service, a celebration of Dave’s life, will be forthcoming. Instead of flowers, please consider a memorial gift in Dave’s name to the Essex Meadows Employee Appreciation Fund or the Squam Lakes Conservation Society.

LYSB Receives More Than $400K from State Nonprofit Grant Program to Fund Renovations

HARTFORD, CT/OLD LYME — On April 10, Governor Ned Lamont announced that his administration is awarding approximately $35.5 million in state funding to nonprofit providers across Connecticut for capital improvement projects that support each respective organization in their mission of delivering services to some of the state’s most vulnerable residents.

One of the recipients is Lymes’ Youth Service Bureau (LYSB) in Old Lyme, which will receive $400,256 to support renovations. A post on the LYSB Facebook page explains, “The grant will be used to renovate and modernize the LYSB main office building, bring all mechanical systems up to code, maximize energy efficiency, improve safety and ADA accessibility.”

The post continues, ” The grant will cover 75% of the project budget, with the remaining 25% coming from LYSB donations. Although LYSB’s building is lovely and structurally sound, just about everything is old and failing. This project will ensure that LYSB is able to serve their clients and our community for generations to come.”

In conclusion, the post notes, “Last awarded in 2018, this current round of awards was highly competitive.”

Other recipients in the local area are Safe Futures of New London, which will receive just over $380,000 to support upgrades to its emergency domestic violence shelter, along with renovations at Phoenix House Transitional Housing; and the Child and Family Agency of Southeastern Connecticut in New London, which will receive $295,000 to support facility improvements.

The grants are being released through the state’s Nonprofit Grant Program, which is administered by the Connecticut Office of Policy and Management. They will be used to fund capital projects not typically reimbursed through other funding mechanisms and will support items such as facility alterations, renovations, improvements, and additions; new construction; health, safety, and Americans with Disabilities Act projects; energy conservation improvements; information technology systems; technology that promotes client independence; purchase of vehicles; and acquisition of property.

“Connecticut’s nonprofit providers support residents in every town and are a vital part of our social services safety net,” Governor Lamont said. “Providing funding to make strategic investments helps these organizations deliver the services some of our most vulnerable residents depend upon. This grant funding will help all of the residents that these organizations support be able to utilize their personal strengths, talents, and passions.”

Established in 2013, this program has provided more than $130 million to the state’s nonprofit organizations, supporting about 750 projects. Today’s awards, which support 94 projects, are the program’s eighth round of grants.

State Senator Martha Marx (D-New London) welcomed the announcement saying, “Community nonprofits play an important role in supporting and lifting up members of our communities, and knowing these funds will support those in need and bolster the services aiding them is incredibly meaningful.”

She added, “I’m grateful to Governor Lamont and my fellow legislators for making sure this funding will support transitional housing, domestic violence victims and renovations to the Lymes’ Youth Service Bureau.”

Gov. Lamont commented, “Connecticut’s nonprofit providers support residents in every town and are a vital part of our social services safety net. Providing funding to make strategic investments helps these organizations deliver the services some of our most vulnerable residents depend upon.”

He concluded, “This grant funding will help all of the residents that these organizations support be able to utilize their personal strengths, talents, and passions.”

Death Announced of Shirley Ann Boroughf, 89, of Old Lyme; Services to be Held in OL Saturday

OLD LYME—Shirley Ann Boroughf, 89, of Old Lyme, CT passed away peacefully on April 4, 2024. Shirley was born in Manchester, England on December 6, 1934. She was predeceased by her parents Ernest and Gladys Palmer and brother Eric Palmer of Manchester, England. Shirley is survived by her brother Horace Palmer of Brisbane, Australia, and her two sons Gary Boroughf of Old Lyme, CT, and Brett Boroughf …

Shirley was married to the late Roy (“Rocky”) Boroughf who was a Captain in the United States Air Force when they met …

In 1966 the family moved to Southbury, CT, where she settled in to raise her two sons and remained most of her life …

Flowers will be accepted at Fulton-Theroux Funeral Service, 13 Beckwith Ln., Old Lyme, CT 06371.

Burial services will be held at Duck River Cemetery, Old Lyme, CT on Saturday, April 13, at 11:00 a.m.

Visit this link to view the full obituary published by Legacy.com.