Monthly Archives: March 2023
Florence Griswold Museum Hosts Coffee With New Director, Wednesdays in March & April; All Welcome

OLD LYME — Every Wednesday in March and April from 10 to 11 a.m., the new Executive Director of the Florence Griswold Museum will host a coffee hour with the community.
Joshua Campbell Torrance is eager to meet his new community, so he is opening his door and breaking out the coffee cups.
It is not required, but if you would like to let Torrance know that you are stopping in, email Carla I. Corcoran at Carla@FloGris.org.
You are requested to check in at the Front Desk when you arrive.
By way of introduction, when you meet Torrance he loves to hear about people’s first or most meaningful museum experience.
Reading Uncertainly? On the Subject of Luck by Patrick O’Brian
Editor’s Note: We are thrilled that our longtime book reviewer Felix Kloman, who ceased writing for us after he moved away from Lyme, has sent in a guest review for us that we are delighted to publish today.

In 2016, I humbly suggested reading of the 21 early 18th century seafaring novels of Patrick O’Brian, beginning with his first, Master and Commander. I admit to being mesmerized by them, having read all of them now six times over the past 30 years. So, in 2023, as I start my seventh, I’ll try again!
To stimulate interest, here are three excerpts on the subject of luck, a quality that affects each and every one of us.
From “The Ionian Mission, W. W. Norton, New York 1992
“It was not chance, commonplace good fortune, far from it, but a different concept altogether, one of an almost religious nature, like the favor of some god or even in extreme cases like possession; and if it came in too hearty it might prove fatal—too fiery an embrace entirely. In any event it had to be treated with great respect, rarely named, referred to by allusion or alias, never explained. There was no clear necessary connection with moral worth nor with beauty bit its possessors were generally well-liked and tolerably good-looking: and it was often seen to go with a particular kind of happiness..”
From The Reverse of the Medal, Wm. Collins, London, 1986
“It was a question of the man’s luck, a quality or rather an influence that sometimes set all one way, for good or bad, and sometimes shifted like a tide, but a tide whose ebb and flow obeyed laws that no ordinary men could see. . . . There were varying creeds and some important difference of detailed belief, but broadly speaking luck and unluck were held to have little or nothing to do with virtue or vice, amiability or its reverse. Luck was not a matter of desserts. It was a free gift, like beauty in a very young woman, independent of the person it adorned; though just as beauty could be spoilt by frizzed hair and the like so ill-luck could certainly be provoked by given forms of conduct such as wanton pride, boasting of success, or an impious disregard for custom.”
From The Letter of Marque, Wm. Collins, London 1985
“It seems to me that you have to treat destiny or fortune or whatever is the right word with respect. A man must not bounce or presume, but he must not despair neither, for that is ill-bred . . . .”
Do these words entice interest? I hope so!
Editor’s Note: This is the opinion of Felix Kloman.

About the Author: Felix Kloman is a sailor, rower, husband, father, grandfather, retired management consultant and, above all, a curious reader and writer. He’s explored how we as human beings and organizations respond to ever-present uncertainty in two books, ‘Mumpsimus Revisited’ (2005) and ‘The Fantods of Risk’ (2008). A 20-year former resident of Lyme, Conn., he now lives in Peabody, Mass. He writes book reviews, mostly of non-fiction, a subject which explores our minds, our behavior, our politics and our history, but he does throw in a novel here and there. For more than 50 years, he’s put together the 17 syllables that comprise haiku, the traditional Japanese poetry, and served faithfully as the self-appointed “poet laureate” of Ashlawn Farm Coffee. His late wife, Ann, was also a writer, but of mystery novels, all of which begin in a village in midcoast Maine, strangely reminiscent of the town she and her husband visited every summer.
Old Lyme HS Student Holds Free, Pop-Up Clothes Closet

OLD LYME — A senior at Lyme-Old Lyme High School (LOLHS) is “doing her bit” for both the local community and the environment tomorrow.

Maddie McCulloch is holding a free Pop-Up Closet tomorrow, Saturday, March 4, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Rogers Lake Clubhouse. All are welcome and there is no charge for admission. Although the target audience for the clothing is primarily middle and high schoolers, some youth boy/girls’ clothes are available too.
Maddie McCulloch is hosting the event as part of her LOLHS Senior Project. Asked why she chose this project specifically, she responded that she saw it as, “An extension to my community service efforts called Small Efforts, Big Impact, which I have been doing since 2019 as a way to try and keep Lyme and Old Lyme a bit cleaner by picking up trash on the side of the road.”
McCulloch added, “I also chose it because fast fashion has been on the rise recently and as a result, the environment has suffered greatly. This project is a more environmentally-friendly way of shopping for clothes and allows quality pieces to be given a new home for free.”
Noting that she has received an “amazing” amount of donated clothes and other fashion accessories, she points out that quality is the key to all the items in the ‘Closet’ and that some even still have their original sales tags. McCulloch is asking that no resale of the clothes should occur.
She has already made plans for any clothing remaining after the 2 p.m. closing time, explaining, “Any left-over clothing is going to the Free Treasures Den, which is part of the Saybrook Community Church in Old Saybrook.” She adds, “And any left over formal/prom dresses are going to a women, who collects those dresses for at-risk women in the Hartford area.”
Editor’s Note: Good luck with this worthwhile endeavor, Maddie! We hope it is a huge success.
Death Announced of Dwight Bartholomew, Graveside Service to be Held at Family Cemetery in Old Lyme
PORT ANGELES, WA / OLD LYME, CT — A boundless spirit, Dwight was frequently bursting with accordion music and song. He was a son of the rich who’d climbed off the corporate ladder to teach gradeschool. At 90, he died of congestive heart failure on February 8, 2023, in his home in Port Angeles, WA.
He was born on March 8, 1932, at Sloane Hospital for Women, founded by his family in New York, to Dana T. Bartholomew, Yale Class of 1928, of Ansonia, CT. His mother was the former Adela Sloane Griswold, of W. and J. Sloane, and Griswold Iron Works.
Early years were spent in the family’s brownstone on Lower Fifth Avenue, New York City, NY, and summers at their compound in Old Lyme, CT …
Upon dying, he was covered by the flag of his favorite hockey team, the Montreal Canadians, and warmed by his cat.
Dwight is survived by his wife, Mary Ellen; brother, Andy; four children: Dana, Sterling, Sloane and Caroline; and his grandchildren:
… A Graveside Service will be held at the family cemetery in Old Lyme, CT. Date and time is still to be determined.
Visit this link to read the full obituary published March 3, 2023 by The Wenatchee World.