Girls Defeat Holy Cross, Advance to State Final; Boys Fall to Coventry in Semis

The Wildcat teams after winning their respective Shoreline Conferences. Now both are playing in the Class S semi finals. Go Wildcats!

The Wildcat teams celebrate after winning their respective Shoreline Conferences — now both are playing in the Class S semi finals. Go Wildcats!

11/18, 3:03am UPDATE: Boys lose 2-1 to Coventry

11/16, 8:22pm UPDATE: Girls defeat Holy Cross 4-1 to earn place in state final!

Paul Gleason’s fifth-seeded girls (14-2-2)  meet Holy Cross (14-3-2) in the Class S semifinal tonight in Middletown with a 6:30 p.m. kick-off.

The Old Lyme boys defeated Canton 6-1 in their CIAC Class S quarterfinal game Saturday afternoon to advance to their semi-finals where they will meet Coventry on Tuesday, Nov. 17, at Montville with a 6:30 p.m. kick-off.

To reach the semis, Old Lyme girls defeated Coventry 2-1 away in the quarterfinal on Friday and Windsor 4-1 at home in the second round having enjoyed a bye in Round 1.  The boys soundly defeated Cromwell 3-1 in the second round and Portland 2-1 in the first round.

Go Wildcats!

Letter from Paris: Je Suis en Terrasse — Reflections on Life in Paris After the Terrorist Attacks

Nicole Prévost Logan

Nicole Prévost Logan

For the second time in 2015, Paris was the target of  the terrorists.  But, in contrast to the “Charlie Hebdo” massacre, the attacks were not made in the name of an idea, like freedom of expression — especially of the press, or to single out the Jewish community, but aimed at French society as a whole. The blind rampage was intended to butcher the greatest number of normal Parisians having fun on a Friday night.

The killings took place almost simultaneously in five places obviously following a well prepared scenario acted by three  professional and heavily armed commandos.  Never before had the French been exposed to kamikazes.  The carnage left 129 dead, 355 injured including more than 99 in critical condition.

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It all started at 9.20 p.m. at the Stade de France, north of Paris, on Friday, Nov. 13, where the Bleus were playing against a German soccer team in front of 80,000 spectators.  President François Hollande was in the crowd.  He left discreetly at half time.  In spite of two explosions, the match went on uninterrupted to avoid the panic.  Afterwards the public lingered on the lawn, still dazed.   Spontaneously the crowd started singing the Marseillaise.  Outside the stadium, the double suicide had left a scene of destruction.  The social networks went to work.  Taxis offered free rides.  Twitter launched an operation “open doors” to disoriented people.

In rapid succession , the terrorists drove from one crowded place to another in the 10th and the 11th arrondissements to proceed with their slaughter: Le Petit Cambodge, the Carillon bar, the Cosa Nostra restaurant and finally La Belle Equipe on Rue Charonne,

An American rock group was on stage when four terrorists broke into the concert hall Bataclan packed with an audience of 1,500.  They started shooting blindly at people.  From the account of a seasoned policeman, the scene of horror  was apocalyptic.  Bodies were lying in pools of blood.  After holding a group of hostages for three hours and using them as ramparts against the assault of the special forces, the terrorists blew themselves up, using their belts padded with sophisticated explosives.

Why was the 11th arrondissement again the main target of the terrorist attack?  Since I live there, I have pondered over this question.  Ann Hidalgo, mayor of Paris, gave some of the answers during an interview on TV.  The 11th, she said with some pride, is a multi-ethnic, socially mixed population with large and visible religious communities.  It has a distinct personality, rebellious and rather impertinent.  The French call these types of people “bo-bo” (meaning bohemian-bourgeois.)  It is an unpalatable cocktail for the IS (Islamic State).

The other reason why terrorists seem to be attracted to the 11th might be the availability of good hiding places in this working class arrondissement – the largest of Paris.  Geographically the 11th is close to “difficult” suburbs.  Finally, It is near the highway leading to Brussels.  The inquiry has revealed connections between the authors of the Paris attack and the Molenbeek district, a hotbed of radical Islam in Belgium.

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As it is often the case at time of crisis, people show their best side.  It certainly was true with the French who rose up above their usual attitude of self-disparagement.  Here are just a few examples — the police, the SAMU (ER), the Red Cross, the army, the BRI (brigade de Recherche et d’Investigation), the RAID (Recherche-Assistance-Intervention-Dissuasion) and other elite units could all be considered as heroes.   Doctors and surgeons happened to be on strike on Friday Nov. 13, but returned to work with news of the killings.  Some even volunteered in services other than their own.   At the Pompidou hospital,  dozens of volunteers waited three hours to donate blood.  People living near the attacks opened their apartments to wounded victims.

François Hollande acted as a compassionate and strong president during the crisis and announced immediate security measures to reassure the population.  He declared a etat d’urgence  or highest state of alert, suspending temporarily individual liberties and including the delay of all street manifestations, of public gatherings and the closing of monuments, etc.  It was a bleak sight for the tourists to see the Tour Eiffel lost in darkness.  To emphasize national unity, Hollande convened a Congress made up of the National Assembly and Senate in solemn Versailles.  It was the first time that had happened since the Algerian war in 1962.

The French colors appeared on monuments around the world in an amazing show of support.  President Obama was the first leader to make a declaration; Angela Merkel, who marched in the streets of Paris on Jan. 11, extended her message of friendship;  David Cameron declared – in French – Nous sommes tous solidaires.  The Moscovites laid flowers in front of the French embassy in Moscow.  In a different tone, Bashar al-Assad told the people of France: you suffered last night, but think of what the Syrian population has lived with during the past five years.

One detects an acceleration of terrorist attacks: Ankara in October, Lebanon and the crash of a Russian plane in November.   IS is now exporting its war to other countries.  It is an assymetric war since one side welcomes death.  Zero security is impossible to guarantee.  All one can do is to minimize the danger .

For the past 15 years, France has been on the front line of the war against radical Islam and acted alone in the Sahel, Mali, Nigeria, Chad.  For the past two and half months, France has taken part in the air strikes over Syria.  This is a brave but dangerous policy, probably untenable in the long term.

Bernard Guetta, specialist in geopolitics and commentator on France-Inter,  described the Nov. 13 tragedy as a shock  therapy, which might lead to a strong coalition able to defeat IS.

On Sunday, two days after the attack, the Parisions were still nervous.  I was walking on the Bastille square when  police cars suddenly cordoned off the avenue — rumor of an explosion spread.  In a panic, people started running.  I had to run also so as not to be caught in the stampede.  Thankfully, it was a false alarm!

It is your duty as a citizen, a comedian joked on the radio the other day, to sit on the terrace of a cafe and have a drink to show you are not afraid.  To-day, one does not say, “Je suis Charlie,” but rather, “Je suis en terrasse.”

Nicole Prévost Logan

Nicole Prévost Logan

About the author: Nicole Prévost Logan divides her time between Essex and Paris, spending summers in the former and winters in the latter. She writes a regular column for us from her Paris home where her topics will include politics, economy, social unrest — mostly in France — but also in other European countries. She also covers a variety of art exhibits and the performing arts in Europe. Logan is the author of ‘Forever on the Road: A Franco-American Family’s Thirty Years in the Foreign Service,’ an autobiography of her life as the wife of an overseas diplomat, who lived in 10 foreign countries on three continents. Her experiences during her foreign service life included being in Lebanon when civil war erupted, excavating a medieval city in Moscow and spending a week under house arrest in Guinea.

Sunshine Sings in Top 12 on ‘The Voice’ Tonight, Lyme-Old Lyme HS Hosts Viewing Party

Lyme-Old Lyme students gather to send a message to Braiden Sunshine, who will compete again in 'The Voice' tonight.

Lyme-Old Lyme students gather to send a message to Braiden Sunshine, who will compete again in ‘The Voice’ tonight.

With apologies to The Beatles, “Here comes the Sunshine!”

collageYes, this evening Lyme’s very own Braiden Sunshine will belt his heart out in NBC’s  ‘The Voice’ as one of the 12 finalists on the program — and you can safely wager that the whole population of Lyme and Old Lyme, Connecticut, will be urging him on to victory.

After being lured to New Jersey by his mom, Elizabeth Sunshine, on the pretext of visiting a car show, 15-year-old Braiden  – a sophomore at Lyme-Old Lyme High School – sailed through the Blind Auditions with Blues Traveler’s “The Mountains Win Again.”

He joined Team Gwen [Stefani]  and then proceeded to win the Battle round with”No One Is To Blame,” by Howard Jones. After undergoing an image change along the way and sporting a new hairstyle (no more boyish curls, instead sleek, straight hair) and wearing a snappy suit, he simply cruised through the Knockout round with Michael Bublé’s “Feeling Good.”

Last week, Braiden sang Bread’s classic “Everything I Own” in the Live round and then learned on Wednesday’s results show, in his mom’s words, “… that after America voted, Braiden was one of the two members on his six-artist team to receive the highest number of votes from the nation and therefore he was put through to the Top 12.”

Elizabeth Sunshine explains what happens next, “The Top 12 will perform Monday night, [Nov. 16, in the Live Play-Off round and] on Tuesday one person will go home. The two people with the lowest [number of] votes will sing and then there will be five minutes for America to use Twitter to send in their vote to save their favorite artist. The artist receiving the most Instant Save votes in that five-minute period on the live show will be saved and the other sent home.”

There will be a screening of The Voice Monday night in the LOLHS Auditorium, starting at 8 p.m. with doors opening at 7:45 p.m.  All are welcome.

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Lyme-Old Lyme High School students hung the traditional sheet at the tennis courts to send their message of support to Braiden.

Members of the high school have been showing their support for Braiden in numerous ways including honoring him with the traditional sheet on the tennis court fence.

Asked how he felt about being selected to be in the Top 12, Braiden responded, “It is incredibly exciting. And humbling that I was chosen to stay by the American public. It makes me so happy to know that people are enjoying what I love to do. I love the people here that are so supportive.”

Braiden continued, “I am so happy to represent Connecticut and would love to stay here so if you could please download the free Voice app and vote for me every Monday night after the show. You get 10 votes on the Voice app and 10 more on NBC.com and if you purchase the song on ITunes it also counts as a vote.”

 

To keep this incredible experience alive for this naturally humble young man (and, of course, the associated fame for Lyme and Old Lyme!), Sunshine is now dependent on votes to continue advancing in the show, so here at LymeLine.com, we’re delighted to show our support for him by sharing information about how to vote for Braiden.

There are four voting platforms:

  1. The Voice app on your phone
  2. Twitter:follow Braiden.sunshine
  3. The Voice Facebook page
  4. NBC.com/thevoice website

Each platform will accept up to 10 votes from each viewer.

Additional votes can be cast with an iTunes purchase:

If you download the song performed on the show, it counts as one vote, but if the song is in the Top 10 at the close of voting, iTunes votes are multiplied by 10.

Voting is open for 14 hours, starting at 10:01 p.m. on Monday, Nov. 16.

Vote while the show is in progress on Monday using the voice app.

Voting closes at noon on Tuesday.

Congratulations, yet again, to Braiden on this incredible achievement!

The whole town is rooting for you tonight …

Editor’s Note: Click here to read a great article about Braiden published by APlus.com.

Rescheduled Public Hearing on Sunset Hill Vineyard’s Proposed Opening Hours Tonight

The Public Hearing relating to Sunset Hill Vineyard in Lyme, which was scheduled for last Monday night’s Planning and Zoning Commission’s meeting in Lyme Town Hall and had to be continued due to the very large number of residents who showed up to attend it, will now be held tonight, at 7:30 p.m. in Lyme Consolidated School.

Last Monday, the Fire Marshall determined that the capacity of the Meeting Room at the town hall had been significantly exceeded.

The vineyard has submitted a request to open for ‘Appointment Only’ tastings from May to October and occasional holidays. The proposed hours of operation for the two-acre vineyard at at 5 Elys Ferry Rd. are Saturdays from 12 to 6 p.m. and Sundays from 12 to 4 p.m.  

The proposal has generated some controversy in the quiet town and is being actively discussed in lively social media conversations.

Editor’s Note: Lyme Consolidated School is located at 478 Hamburg Rd. in Lyme.  Click here to read an article about tonight’s hearing by Kimberly Drelich and published in The Day on Nov. 14.

‘Safe Futures’ Men’s Initiative Presents ‘The Mask You Live In’ at Conn. College, Sunday at 1pm

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Safe Futures, Think S.A.F.E. and the Rose Conrad Memorial Fund will be hosting a local screening of The Mask You Live In on Sunday, Nov. 15, at 1 p.m. at Olin Hall, Connecticut College, 270 Mohegan Avenue in New London. After the screening, there will be panel discussion led by Patrick Sheehan-Gaumer, Community Educator at Safe Futures. The free event is open to the public. Men, teens and boys are especially encouraged to attend.

For more information and to pre-register, visit www.SafeFuturesCT.org.

The documentary presents the personal narratives of young boys and men and features experts in neuroscience, psychology, sociology, sports, education, and media, further exploring how gender stereotypes are interconnected with race, class, and circumstance. The Mask You Live In ultimately illustrates how we, as a society, can raise a healthier generation of boys and young men.

The Mask You Live In follows boys and young men as they struggle to stay true to themselves while negotiating America’s narrow definition of masculinity. Written, produced and directed by Jennifer Siebel Newsom, the film premiered at Sundance Film Festival in 2015.

Safe Futures is pleased to partner with the Think S.A.F.E. Project at Connecticut College and the Rose Conrad Memorial Fund/Power of Purple Campaign to present the screening. The screening is a constructive way to involve men and boys in conversations about the role men play in ending violence against women.

“Just as our culture has harmed women and girls, so too are we harming our boys, which has led to a ‘boy crisis’ in America,” said Newsom. “Our intention is that this film sparks a national conversation around masculinity and helps our boys overcome limiting stereotypes, encouraging them to stay true to themselves.”

“When we heard about the film, we immediately became interested in hosting a screening locally. Safe Futures has had a Men Against Domestic Violence campaign for over 20 years. More recently, Patrick Sheehan-Gaumer joined our staff to move our men’s initiative to a new level,” says Emma Palzere-Rae, Director of Development and Communications at Safe Futures. “This screening will be just one of several ongoing activities to involve men in being a part of the solution in ending domestic violence.”

Safe Futures has previously screened Newsom’s first film Miss Representation in partnership with its Rose Conrad Memorial Fund, Writers Block Ink and the Provenance Center. Miss Representation premiered at the 2011 Sundance Film Festival, and exposed the ways in which mainstream media contributes to the underrepresentation of women in positions of power and influence. In response to overwhelming public demand for ongoing education and social action in support of the film’s message, Newsom founded the organization that has become The Representation Project a few months later.

Using film as a catalyst for cultural transformation, The Representation Project inspires individuals and communities to challenge and overcome limiting stereotypes so that everyone, regardless of gender, race, class, age, sexual orientation or circumstance can fulfill their human potential. Take the pledge and join The Representation Project’s movement at www.therepresentationproject.org.

Safe Futures, founded in 1976 as the Women’s Center of Southeastern Connecticut, operates two 24-hour hotlines, an emergency shelter and a transitional living program for families working to rebuild lives shattered by domestic violence or sexual assault.  Safe Futures also provides legal assistance, counseling and advocacy, case management, support groups and educational programs for schools as well as community groups.  All 21 towns in New London County are served by the agency.

During 2014, Safe Futures sheltered 166 women, children and men fleeing abuse in its safe house or other safe shelter; provided free, confidential counseling to 5,130 clients seeking assistance for domestic violence and sexual assault; and educated over 4,300 students in violence prevention education.  A hotline and shelter services are available 24/7/365.  For more information, visit www.SafeFuturesCT.org.

Safe Futures is part of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence and the Connecticut Coalition Against Domestic Violence (CCADV).  Safe Futures is also a Partner Agency of United Way and its programs are funded in part by the State of Connecticut’s Departments of Social Service, Mental Health and Addiction Services, and Office of Victim Services, Judicial Branch.

About the Think S.A.F.E. Project

The Think S.A.F.E. (Sexual Assault-Free Environment) Project at Connecticut College envisions a safe campus climate that is free of sexual assault, dating violence, domestic violence ‌and stalking. To that end, our mission is to partner with campus members and community agencies to foster individual and collective action to end sexual and relationship violence by:

  • Promoting a greater awareness and consciousness regarding sexual assault, relationship violence and stalking.
  • Providing violence prevention education and intervention strategies to the campus community.
  • Fostering a safe environment where survivors are empowered to access resources.
  • Providing advocacy and support to survivors and their allies through a coordinated community response effort.

Think S.A.F.E. is an intentional collaboration with faculty, staff, students and community partners to foster an environment that truly engages students to act with integrity, civility and the utmost respect for the dignity of all human beings, as inspired by the Connecticut College Honor Code.

About the Rose Conrad Memorial Fund

The Rose Conrad Memorial Fund was founded in 2005 by Rose’s attorney, Sheila Horvitz, to memorialize her life and dedicate resources to the issue of domestic violence, which Rose’s life and death symbolize. On Labor Day 2004, in Norwich, CT, Rose Conrad was killed in a murder-suicide by her husband, a day before their divorce would be final. The fund is particularly interested in including the criminal justice, legal, education, medical and mental health communities in their work in order to prevent domestic violence which damages the lives and healthy development of children and families.

In its mission to raise awareness, educate and take action for change, the fund partners with Safe Futures and Hadassah of Eastern Connecticut in the Power of Purple Campaign, which annually presents a community forum and an awareness walk.