Interview with a Piano (and Invitation to a Birthday Party)

My mother was born in 1913, and so was my piano. Helen Bloom is, as we say, of blessed memory. The Mason & Hamlin baby grand remains a tool of blessed memory — allowing me and others to play the songs that my mother loved: Hoagy Carmichael’s “Stardust,” the Puccini aria “Un Bel Di” or any of the standards of the ‘30s and ‘40s.

Dan Pardo, who will be playing the piano for the evening of the fund raiser, seated at the Mason & Hamlin. (Photo courtesy of  Deborah Rutty.)

Dan Pardo, who will be playing the piano for the evening of the fund raiser, seated at the Mason & Hamlin.  (Photo courtesy of Deborah Rutty.)

Now that the Mason & Hamlin is about to turn a century old you are invited to something usual — a birthday party for a piano that will honor not the endurance of an instrument but a synagogue community as well, because all the proceeds go to Congregation Beth Shalom Rodfe Zedek in Chester.

In keeping with the spirit of the event, I thought that I would reveal here the conversation I had recently with my old pal.  After all, there is a rule in journalism — never let a piano pass the 100-year mark without an interview.  And so:

LB: How do you feel at nearly a century old?

M&H: So how should I feel?  My middle C is giving me fits, and my hammers have a touch of, what do you call it? — the jimjam jeeters.

LB: Oh you’re a comedian, too?

M&H: I learned from the best — Borscht Belt, you know.  I was played on in the Catskills once.  You been to the Catskills.

LB: This is not about me.

M&H: What?  You play me all these years and now it’s not about you?

LB: Are you trying to be my mother?  Stop with the guilt already.

M&H: It’s just that I’m being a little nostalgic.

LB: Yes, tell me about it.  What was it like back in 1913?

M&H: An interesting time for music.  Not like now.  People actually played melodies in those days.  Beautiful melodies.  Kids.  Every kid played, in the parlor.

LB: So, you were a big deal back then?

M&H: Soccer wasn’t invented yet.  I mean, it was, but nobody ever heard of it in this country.  So every kid played piano.  And adults.  After dinner families gathered around the old Mason & Hamlin (oh, there were Steinways, too, but that’s my overrated competitor, and I don’t want to talk about them.)

LB: And now?

M&H: Sometimes days, or weeks, go by and you don’t play me.  What are you doing, writing books or something?

LB: I’m sorry.  I’m trying to make a living.

M&H: You wrote the words to the musical while playing me.  Didn’t A Woman of a Certain Age make you a fortune?

LB: It cost me a fortune.  But let’s get back to the point.  The party.  We’ll have birthday cake and bubbly, and we’ll toast you.

M&H: Yes, and I’ll finally have someone who isn’t an amateur play me.

LB: I’m excited about Dan Pardo.  Did you hear him play for us last High Holy Days at CBSRZ?

M&H: How would I go to Yom Kippur services?  I’m happy here in my little corner of the world.  And besides, I have nothing to a-tune for?  Get it?  Atone.  A-tune?

LB: Well, anyway, Dan has put together a great program — music written during your lifetime, from pieces by Scott Joplin to George Gershwin to Samuel Barber to Dave Brubeck.

M&H: And you.  Don’t forget something by you.  Anyway, I’m excited.  Actually. I know about him.  He’s maybe the most talented guy ever born in Reading, Pennsylvania.  And he’s been on the Goodspeed Opera House staff for three years.

LB: How do you know all this?

M&H: I read the papers.  You remember those?  Newspapers?  Well, anyway he recently music-directed and wrote vocal arrangements for The Fabulous Lipitones, music-directed and accompanied Come From Away.  Did you see City of Angels and Show Boat (oh, do I miss Jerome Kern) — he worked that, too.  And others.  What a guy.

LB: Wow, you’re more than a bunch of 88 keys, mahogany and strings.  You actually have a brain.

M&H: (sings) I would wile away the hours, conferrin’ with the flowers, consultin’ with the rain, and my head I’d be scratchin’ while my thoughts were busy hatchin if I only had a brain…

LB: OK, OK, we’ll leave the singing to Dan.

M&H: But when, where, why, when, how?

LB: Ah, you went to journalism school too?  Anyway, there are two levels of tickets for the event on Sunday, August, 4, from 4 to 6:30 p.m.  As this is your 100th birthday, wouldn’t it make sense to ask for a minimum donation to CBSRZ of $100 per person?

M&H: That’s a lot of money.  I remember when a concert cost five bucks, and a coffee a nickel, and a two cents plain cost only…

LB: Let me guess.  Two cents.

M&H: Aren’t you brilliant.  Well, you really need $100 a ticket?

LB:  It will support all of the great things we do at the shul.  You should see the oil bill.  And we haven’t had a fundraiser for a long time.

M&H: That’s not my fault.  You should have solar.  And what if somebody can’t pay a $100?

LB: Well, there’s a second level of tickets.  $50.

M&H: What’s the difference?

LB: Well, the house is a house, not a concert hall.  So some of the seats will have obstructed views.  That is, everyone will see you.  But not everyone will have a clear view of Dan.  People in those seats will pay a reduced rate.

M&H: What do they need to pay not to see you?  A thousand?  Oh, just a little joke there.

LB: Yes.  Very little.  But to the point.  Whether people buy $100 tickets or $50 tickets or want to sponsor the event they’ll have a great time, and get their cake, too.

M&H: And how do they sign up to honor me?

LB: Call Wendy, at the office.860.526.8920.   And you look through the closet to see if you have something in ebony and ivory to wear.

M&H: I’m so flattered.

LB: Don’t be.  When I was a kid, I had a player piano.  It never made me work so hard.  I could just turn it on and it would play, “Yes, We Have No Bananas.”

M&H: Are you trying to pull my strings?

(For more information, call Wendy Bayor, 860.526.8920.  For the entire transcript of the interview with the Mason & Hamlin, you should live so long.)

‘Summer Breeze’ Exhibition by Kent Winchell on View at Old Lyme Library

The Old Lyme Phoebe Griffin Noyes (OLPGN) Library presents the opening exhibition and reception for Summer Breeze featuring Kent Winchell of Old Lyme on Thursday, July 11, from 5 to 7 p.m.  The reception is free and open to the public.

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Winchell began art lessons as a child at the Lyme Art Association.  After graduating from high school, he studied in evenings at Mitchell College and went on to attend Pratt Institute in New York.  Living and painting in the city provided its own lessons in art, composition and changes in the light and angles that still can be seen in his work from time to time.

After four years in the military service, and raising a family, Winchell’s painting took second place to work and family life. It was in a chance meeting and several conversations with famed Connecticut artist/teacher Lou Bonamarte, that Winchell was invited to paint at his studio.  He received instruction and criticism that gave him the impetus to return to painting on a regular basis.

As a juried artist and an elected member of the Lyme Art Association, Winchell’s paintings appear frequently in member shows. His outstanding painting of a Stonington Connecticut marsh scene was selected for the invitation to the spring 2007 Exhibit.

Winchell finds inspiration for his paintings in the countryside of eastern Connecticut, northern Vermont and the coastline of Maine.  The Impressionists of the famed Old Lyme Art Colony have greatly influenced his work.

The Summer breeze exhibition runs through Aug. 31 at the Ludington Gallery of OLPGN Library.

The Library is located at 2 Library Lane, off Lyme Street, Old Lyme.  Summer hours are Monday and Wednesday, 10 a.m. to 7 p.m.; Tuesday and Thursday, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m.; Friday, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. and Saturday, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

For more information, call 860-434-1684 or visit www.oldlyme.lioninc.org.

Old Lyme Library Hosts Three-Part Series Embracing ‘One Town, One Book’, Starts Tonight

Marsha Bansavage is the discussion leader of the ‘One Town, One Book’series.

The Old Lyme-Phoebe Griffin Noyes (OLPGN) Library will present a ‘One Town, One Book’ style program based on Barbara Kingsolver’s book, ‘The Bean Trees’, beginning on Wednesday, July 10, at the Library.

‘The Bean Trees’ was selected for its timely issues of respect for the environment, adoption and the plight of illegal immigrants.  The event marks the first ever OLPGN Library sponsored town-wide reading event.

A series of three programs will be facilitated by Marsha Bansavage, discussion leader from the Connecticut Humanities, accompanied by talks with experts.  The goals are to bring full-time and seasonal residents together, offer a multi-generational discussion of current topics, promote reading and foster greater understanding.

“The Library is excited to bring this discussion program to all parts of our community.  Our goal is to offer something for our summer residents that will encourage them to participate in our programs, share their perspectives on the topics and incorporate visits to the Library as part of their summer experience in Old Lyme,” says Mary Fiorelli, Library Director.

The programs, which all start at 6:30 p.m., will take place on the following dates:

Wednesday July 10, at the Library:  Guest Speaker Lynn Gabbard, MS, The Face of Adoption

Tuesday July 16, at the Shoreline Community Center, Soundview Beach:  Guest Speaker Nancy Harrington, Esq., Immigration Stories

Tuesday July 23, at the Old Lyme Town Hall: Michael Caduto, author, singer and storyteller of Native American Myths on Nature and Stewardship of the Land

The Library is partnering with the Town of Old Lyme, Friends of the Library, Old Lyme Historical Society, Federation of Beaches and the Lyme-Old Lyme School District for this program.  Support is being provided by a $2,500 grant from the Connecticut Center for the Book at Connecticut Humanities.

Anyone with a valid library card may borrow a copy of the book from the Library.  The program is free and open to the public.  Refreshments will be served.

For more details and to register, visit www.oldlyme.lioninc.org.  Registration is encouraged for each event.

The Library is located at 2 Library Lane, off Lyme Street, Old Lyme.  Summer hours are Monday and Wednesday, 10am to 7pm; Tuesday and Thursday, 10am to 6pm; Friday, 10am to 5pm and Saturday, 10am to 2pm.

Enjoying Old Route 66 … or What’s Left of it

Nothing I saw was this beautiful.  But some things I saw along 66 I’ll never forget.

Nothing I saw on my travels was this beautiful. But some things I saw along 66, I’ll never forget.

Hello, all.  This is my 72nd day on the road and I am in Dayton, Ohio, a city which is a dramatic story in itself, but that’s for a later time.

I just  looked at my odometer.  I have driven 3,675 miles and I am finally in the Eastern Times Zone.  So, I am getting closer.  If I made a mad dash, I could make it home in two days.  But I won’t do that.  Still have places I want to see.   And I’m still having fun.

If I had taken Interstates all the way home in the most direct way, I’d be home by now and would have saved a lot of gas money.
Yes, since the start, I’ve driven some short stretches on Interstates.  Not because I prefer them.  No, no, no.  Only because it would be silly not to.

Whenever it made sense, I’ve chosen state roads–secondary highways.  Some four lanes, some two.  All in mostly good condition, but some bumpy ones, too.  But, believe me, what a relief not to be tailed by a parade of huge trucks, which all choose the Interstates.  What a relief to cruise at a calm 50 or 55 rather than frantic 70 or 75.   What a pleasure  to again see occasional houses and people and little businesses and even small towns.

Now, about Route 66

It was a historic highway.  Truly historic.

Much of it is gone, yet I’ve traveled hundreds of miles on some of its remaining stretches.  Some of it has been dull.  But much of it wonderful and very worthwhile.

Familiar with it?  Old Route 66 is sometimes called the Mother Road.  Sometimes called America’s Highway.  As you may know, Route 66 has been celebrated, in fact immortalized, in countless books and movies and songs and videos.  It’s as American as apple pie.

It was our most famous highway in pre-Interstate Highway times.  It remains an indelible part of our romantic past.

It was built in the 1920s as our very first paved highway for its whole length–paved  for automobiles,  of course, which were the flivvers of those day.  It was not a state highway.  It was a U.S. highway.  What a huge and important break-through that was.

It was our longest highway by far, more than 2,000 miles in all.  It connected Chicago on its eastern end and Santa Monica on the California coast at the other.

Before it was created,  no way could someone in  a flivver attempt even a ride of 50 or 100 miles across that terrain … too many flats and break-downs.  Let alone think of  crossing two-thirds of the USA, which Route 66 made it possible to do … and quite comfortably.

It changed everything.  Businesses boomed.  Commerce took off between towns and cities and states.   Markets opened up.  People’s views of life and work and country expanded.  We  became bigger.  For the first time really, people became Americans instead of just citizens of this town or that county or state.

And a remarkable thing happened.  All along Route 66 sprang up gas stations and restaurants and boarding houses and hotels–and then the newfangled motels.

Route 66 was a two-lane road in the beginning, sometimes black-topped, sometimes concrete.  What a pleasure it was to drive on a smooth surface, and with no fear of having to ford a little stream or break an axle on holes and ruts.

Route 66 was impressively engineered with reasonable grades up and down.  It offered solid bridges with no annoying planks to clatter when you crossed over.  Astonishing road cuts in hills to make the going easier and safer.

It was as significant for the dawning Automobile Age as the transcontinental railroad had been half a century earlier.

Of course, Route 66 was imitated by other states for their highways.  All built to similar high standards.  And before long, all states agreed on common standards for their highways.  Finally we had a system of highways making it possible to venture far and wide.  What a feat …

Then bad things happened for Route 66.

President Ike Eisenhower came along and began pushing his idea of federal interstate highways.  He said they were essential for our national defense, he said,  and, of course, for our expanding economy.

His Interstates would have even higher construction standards than Route 66 and the other state roads like it.  They’d have understandable markings — be even-numbered for the stretches east and west and odd-numbered for those north and south.

And free!  Well, except for a few exceptions such as the Massachusetts Turnpike, which charged tolls.  It was my home state then.  How Massachusetts  and the others—Connecticut was one–got away with that, I don’t know.

But what happened is that Route 66 and its many imitators suddenly became painfully quiet.

People flocked to the new Interstates.  They loved whizzing along with no traffic lights.  Loved the easy on and easy off.  Loved traversing even large cities in  mere minutes, or just skirting around them.  What time-savers the Interstates were.  And they made road shipments of goods of all kinds so much easier and faster—even faster than the railroads could do the job.

But dire consequences, too.  For one thing, countless communities shriveled up.  “Out of Business” and “For Sale” signs began appearing.  It was a death sentence for some communities.  And for many others, a humbling one—few people stopped by any more.

Some sections of the Interstates replaced sections of Route 66.  In other places, the Interstates paralleled it.  Route 66 became far less important.  Fell into decline.  So, after many years, Route 66 was “de-commissioned.”  Route 66 is no longer a federal highway.  How many times has that happened?  Not many.

I got to really sample the old highway

Many sections still exist.  I have ridden numerous sections of it.  Now and then in deplorable condition—so bad I couldn’t wait to get off it.  But in other sections, especially in creative-thinking communities, their sections of the old route were hailed for their promotional value for business in general and especially tourism.

I’m pleased to tell you Route 66 has been a wonderful treat for me especially in Oklahoma.  I’ve traveled it happily for mile after mile.  So enjoyable.  Through many small towns, some with populations of only one or two thousand.

I’ve stopped at small country stores to buy a few bananas or glance at local newspapers.  Any excuse to poke around and stretch my legs.  I’ve stopped to walk up and down a quaint main street.  Explore antique shops and check thrift stores; what fun.  Visit local libraries, of course—some tiny ones with just a room or two, and I’ve been welcomed at all of them.   Yesterday I stopped to enjoy a flock of goats in a small pasture–white bodies with brown heads.  So identical they seemed factory-made..

I stopped again this morning, this time to enjoy cows in a lush field.  About30 or them.  I’ve seen lots and lots of cows.  These were different.  Usually they’re all black or all brown or maybe all white. These were mixed, like us Americans!

I took out my camera.  Hollered at them to get their attention.  They ignored me.  Hollered again. Only one or two looked up, but just for a second.  Then they got a signal, I swear.  They all turned their tail and started walking away from me.  I felt insulted.  And I had made a U-turn to come back and be friendly and say hello.  How impolite.

Things got different at the Oklahoma line.

Crossing from Texas into Oklahoma was dramatic.  It’s the right word.  For many days I had been driving over vast stretches of geography often with nothing in sight.  No houses, no ranches, no trees, no people, no animals except a bird now and then.  Just a car whizzing by in the opposite direction once in a while.

Several times I stopped to take a picture showing nothing on any side.  Nothing.  Just endless flat land.  That’s a strange experience, believe me.

The change in Oklahoma was so fast.  I began top see grass–green grass.  And clumps of trees, small and then bigger.  And even a little pond (Wow!)  Then groves of trees.  Then a forest.  Hey, it made me think of Connecticut.  All in just a few miles …  It’s as if somebody had drawn the  Texas-Oklahoma state line right there because they were  struck just as much as I was by the huge contrast.

I’ve crossed practically the whole state on Route 66.  Along the road, I’ve noticed numerous historic markers about it.  It’s surprising how many pamphlets about it I’ve picked up and also about things to see along it.

I just remembered I should tell you this.

It happened at the Motel 6 in Santa Fe, New Mexico.  I had put up there for a week when I got ill.

I heard unusual noise in the parking lot at 8 a.m.  I peered out.  Many Harley Davidson motorcycles were parked out there.  Unusual. Their riders were getting ready to take off.  Men and women in their 40s and 50s in leather—leather helmets, boots, gloves, the works.  The men sported beards and tattoos.  The women huge earrings and tattoos.  Quite a sight.

I opened the door.  A big, burly rider was right there.  “Where are you from?” I asked.  “Where are you going?”

He said something but I didn’t understand.  His strange accent.  He noticed.  Repeated for me.

“From  the Czech Republic.  We are riding Route 66.”  He smiled at the thought.  A great adventure, obviously.  He was so happy. Yes, riding Route 66 all the way.  It would take them 21 days.

They were packing their stuff into a big white van–their support van for the whole trip.  In minutes, the lead driver gunned his throttle and they all started up.  You should have heard the roar!  And off they went.

I went online to learn more.  Companies offer  motorcycle travel fans, and they advertise them here and abroad.  A typical package includes the round-trip air fair, the rental bikes, the motel stays, the support van, and other basics.

But there are many extra costs.  Gasoline, and insurance,  many meals, and fees at parks and museums and special amusements.

That 21 days could build up to $10,000 per rider.

I got to see Oklahoma’s two proudest cities

Route 66 took me through huge Oklahoma City and only slightly smaller Tulsa.  I arrived in both around 5:30 p.m. as planned.  I wanted to arrive after most folks had gone home.  Just to drive around slowly and savor the two cities.

For years, Oklahoma City was a big cattle town and Tulsa a huge oil town.  You can still see many signs of this history in them.  They have a lot more going for them now.  They are greatly diversified now and you can tell they are prosperous.

Most Midwest cities have common features and I saw that clearly in these two. Their streets are laid out in grid patterns.  In New England our street patterns are so wild and crazy.  And Midwest cities have wide streets and keep them very clean.  So many of our cities back home do not.  It seems a matter of pride for these cities.  And these cities look fresh, safe, wholesome.  Can’t say that about some of our cities.

Both have  big, tall buildings.  But what big big city does not?  Methinks it’s all about keeping up with the cities in your league.  The way so many of us do our utmost to keep up with the Joneses.

The tallest buildings are the newest, of course, and they feature lots of glass and aluminum and stainless steel.  The big buildings of the previous generation are less tall, and they feature fancy masonry and concrete.  They didn’t have today’s technology back then.

It’s fun to speculate what the next generation of big buildings will look like.  I’m sure architects are scratching their heads to come up with something different that will be bold and exciting.  The temptation is to design buildings taller and taller.  To me, such thinking is foolish.  Those big buildings de-humanize us.  Make us feel insignificant.  And they’re dangerous.  I wouldn’t want to work or live way in one of those monsters.

As expected, both cities boast fine museums and shops and parks and restaurants.  I would have given both more time and attention a few years back.  I’m still interested, but it’s so hard so find parking spots now.  Don’t giggle — I think you get my drift.

A day never, never to forget

In Oklahoma City, it was my Day 34.  The sky was gray and threatening.  Sure enough, I soon felt a few drops, but coming down faster.  My very first rain  in 34 days.  It felt good.  Then it came  down hard and I was so glad I had packed an umbrella.

Well, tornadoes hit the area, as you know, including a humongous one.  It killed 25 men, women, and children or so in tiny Moore.  Injured many, many more.  Destroyed property in the multi-millions of dollars.  A huge calamity.

Strangely, I was very close to all that.  Just 10 miles or so away.  I say strangely because I never saw any tornado.  I was totally unaware this big one was raging.  Then I saw two police cars whiz by at 80 miles an hour, red lights and sirens on.  I still didn’t know why.  Very soon I got emails from family and friends worried about my safety.  Some said they were praying for me.  How wonderful.  But that’s how I found out.  It was a pleasure to send out word I was fine.

Of course, the risk of so many tornadoes every year is scary.  Oklahoma averages more than 100, more than any other state.  It’s a big state and tornadoes hit usually just small areas, but still.

I know that sales of pre-built steel Tornado Safety Closets are attracting buyers. They run $5,000 and up.  People buy one for their basement and consider it a smart buy.  And many people consider tornado insurance a must.

Who thinks of such things in Connecticut?  Of course, tornadoes could hit us, too.  Imagine what even a small twister would do to little Deep River!

Those poor Okies back during the Dust Bowl

More than once while driving through Oklahoma I thought of the awful Dust Bowl here in the mid-Thirties. That’s what they called that incredible disaster.  Long periods of drought, poor agricultural techniques, and record-high temperatures–110 degrees and higher–led to the Dust Bowl–the topsoil got blown away.  Massive crop failures.  Bankruptcies.  Countless families threw in the towel.  Packed up what they could and headed west.  Left Oklahoma and never looked back.  An awful chapter in the state’s history.

Another disaster like that seems ruled out because of numerous improvements, plus the fact modern agriculture is so much smarter.

Now let’s hope the day will come when Oklahomans will say, “Tornadoes are a thing of the past.  We know how to control them.”

Meteorology is making great strides.  Science has brought us so many wonders that we once thought impossible.  Science will triumph again.  The question is, when?

Leaving Tulsa, I had to abandon Route 66.  It was heading northeasterly.  I had to head east, toward the northwest corner of Arkansas.  I said goodbye to Route 66 with regret.

My impression of Oklahoma all the way across is that it’s a great big beautiful lawn.  And that Oklahomans are nice people.

Well, I’m glad  I favored Route 66.  I got a much better look along it and got to enjoy the ride so much.  It’s wonderful that Route 66 is being remembered so fondly.

If only we had done as much for our Route 1 from Maine to Key West, Fla. … after all, it was historic, too.

Adios!